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Text: Nine Encounters Love Sports
Edited by Jiuyu Love Sports
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Huang Qishan became the focus of "cyberbullying", saying that "not having children is a regret in life". Bravely open your heart and spark countless controversies. Is this remark an expression of true temperament or a clever hype? Today we will read the unknown story behind Huang Qishan.
Wong Yee Shan's musical path
In the spring of Yuzhong, Chongqing, a new life was given the name Huang Xiaoxia, who later became widely known as Huang Qishan. Her story is a life legend full of ups and downs and opportunities.
Wong Yee Shan was born into a family full of artistic atmosphere, and her grandfather was fond of model opera, so she began to get into art at a young age.
When she was 3 years old, she began to learn art in Shangqing Temple and cultivated a bright voice. Life is always full of uncertainties. At the age of 12, she bid farewell to Shangqing Temple and stepped into junior high school life.
Family strife and quarrels fill her heart with pain, and music becomes her only solace.
She was fascinated by Teresa Teng's singing, rolled the book into a microphone, and sang Teresa Teng's classic songs to the TV. The song spread throughout the neighborhood and touched the hearts of countless people.
The pressures of life and the difficulties of her family did not let her go.
In 1983, her parents divorced and she had to start working as a waitress.
The weight of life has left her feeling lost in the future, but music has always been her safe haven.
Two years later, Wong opened a hot pot restaurant in an attempt to make more money.
When Chongqing Huahua Dance Troupe enrolled, she saw an opportunity to change her fate.
She gave up the hot pot restaurant and quietly signed up to join the dance troupe. She became a singer. Xiao Jianhu, the captain of the singing team, was moved by her singing voice and asked her to join the singing team, which started her singing career.
Singing Teresa Teng's songs in bars and nightclubs, she has accumulated a wealth of experience. Career is not all smooth sailing. Sang in nightclubs for many years, far from his hometown, but failed to gain widespread recognition.
Despite all the hardships, Wong never gave up on her musical dreams. She crossed the ocean to Taiwan to chase her music dream. Wandering in Taiwan for many years, she worked hard for her music career.
Finally, the opportunity came. participated in China's Hunan Satellite TV's "I Am a Singer", which made her re-enter the stage and become an Asian singer. She shook the audience with her powerful singing voice and expressiveness, regaining widespread recognition.
Compared with her career, her personal life can be described as full of twists and turns.
A girl who longs for love
Wong grew up in a family that lacked fatherly love, which made her grow up with a strong desire for warmth and love.
In her first marriage, she seemed to find that long-lost warmth.
But sadly, this marriage did not bring her long-term happiness.
Due to her husband's irascible personality, the relationship between the two gradually evolved from a loving couple to an "enemy". In the end, the marriage ended in failure.
Broken love
One day, music producer Tu Huiyuan broke into the song hall in search of a new star.
There, he was deeply shocked by Huang Qishan's singing voice, and the two bonded because of their shared passion for music. However, this relationship did not go smoothly, and the sweetness of marriage quickly turned into bitterness, which had a huge impact on Huang Qishan's career and life.
In her career, Huang Qishan missed a good opportunity with "Butong 100", and may have surpassed Na Ying's height.
But the vagaries of fate made her find that her career had plummeted after she came to Taiwan, while Tu Huiyuan was becoming more and more brilliant.
In order to recoup some of the losses, Tu Huiyuan made an album that made Huang Qishan look as if she had succeeded a little.
But Huang Qishan knows that this is not because of her talent, but because she is "Tu Huiyuan's wife".
The brutal blows of life frustrated Wong, and Tu Huiyuan's busy schedule made him hardly return home, leaving the lonely Wong Whiss.
When the two quarreled due to disagreement over musical concepts, Tu Huiyuan resolutely filed for divorce.
Huang Qishan couldn't accept this fact and chose to force her to die. At the critical moment, her friends rescued her in time, but Tu Huiyuan's indifference to her made her heart like a knife.
With a broken marriage and a low career at a low point, Huang Qishan began to indulge in alcohol, almost ruining her throat, and her life fell into despair. What's even more poignant is that Tu Huiyuan handed over "Cut Love" originally written for Huang Qishan to Zhang Huimei after the divorce and pushed it to the top.
This song that she once rejected made others and made Huang Qishan's heart like a knife.
A twist of fate appeared on the stage of "I Am a Singer". 45-year-old Huang Qishan inadvertently ushered in the second spring of her career. On this stage, her talent was fully displayed, earning new respect and recognition for herself.
Love twists and turns
At the age of 40, Huang Qishan successfully jumped to the position of a first-line singer with her outstanding talent and unique music style.
At the same time, her love life has quietly blossomed. For the sake of love, she is even willing to let go of the halo of a superstar, become an ordinary little woman, and silently pay for her beloved.
She once said that her greatest wish is to give birth to a child for him, which is enough to see her investment and expectation for this relationship.
Fate always seems to play a joke. When her career was in full swing, Huang Qishan encountered a waterloo in her marriage.
Although some people speculated that it was the other party's personality charm that made her heartbroken, and some people thought that she was attracted to the other party's young beauty, but in the end, the marriage broke down.
Three years later, the once loving husband and wife turned against each other and exposed each other's shortcomings to the public eye.
Huang Qishan accused the other party of domestic violence, and the other party accused her of cheating and infidelity. The dispute intensified and eventually went to court.
Married three times and divorced three times, Huang Qishan's love life always seems to be full of twists and turns. Although music has always accompanied her and become the only loyal partner in her life, the ups and downs of love have left her in pain again and again.
In the face of doubts and incomprehension from the outside world, she always insisted on her choice. Perhaps, it is precisely because of her inner desire for love and yearning for a perfect marriage that she has been repeatedly frustrated on the road of love.
Say goodbye to the past
The superstar of the new era, Huang Qishan, was once the girl with swaying long hair, but now she has changed her short hair, waved goodbye to the past, and concentrated on her career. In this Chinese music scene full of glitter, she is already a well-known female singer, and she will fulfill her dream of the Spring Festival Gala in 2023 and appear on the stage that has attracted much attention.
Although fame and fortune follow her, she seems to realize that something is missing in her life in the dead of night. In a candid interview, she expressed her deepest regret: no children. She believes that childbirth is a woman's most sacred experience, a continuation of life. This decision made her feel a little vacant behind the brilliance.
"A woman who has a child is complete," she says, as if recalling the joys and sorrows of life. However, she chose a career and missed out on her family. This is perhaps the most heart-wrenching miss in her life, missing the opportunity to cultivate and witness the growth of life.
But fortunately, she has not given up the pursuit of a better life. Her career has become a solid support for her, expressing her love for life with her singing. At the same time, she actively participates in public welfare undertakings and uses her influence to help those in need. Although she is alone, she warms up with her fans and friends in her own way.
In her later years, she may feel a little lonely and lost when she sees the people around her and their families happy. But no matter what, she is still working hard, still fighting for her dreams, and at the same time doing her part for society. She may have missed some good things in her life, but in her singing, she found a strength to fight and the courage to get along with the world.
epilogue
Huang Qishan is not just the superstar who stands in the spotlight, she is a woman who pursues her dreams and sticks to her original intention. Her life path may be complicated, but it is this complexity that makes her more real and endearing. She chose her own path, and although she missed some, she is still using the power of her heart to compose her own melody for life.