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My name is Li Jinhua, I am 68 years old and I am a retired worker. I have a son, Li Qiang, and a daughter, Li Li, both of whom are working in other places and have no time to take care of their children. Therefore, 6 years ago, my grandson Li Tian and granddaughter Li Xue came to my boarding and studying.
In the beginning, I was very happy to be able to take care of my two lovely grandchildren. Li Tian was 12 years old at the time, and Li Xue was 10 years old, and they were both smart and smart. I warmly welcomed them: "Every day, Xuexue, welcome to grandpa's house! If you need anything, just tell grandpa, and grandpa will definitely meet you. ”
Li Tian said shyly: "Thank you, grandpa." We will definitely be obedient. Li Xue also said sweetly: "Grandpa, I already miss you very much!" My heart rejoiced.
Since then, I have taken good care of my two grandchildren. Every day I prepare a hot breakfast for them and wake them up to get ready for school. Li Tian always gets up slowly, so I smiled and called him: "Every day, it's time to get up, if you don't get up again, you'll be late!" Li Tian said in a daze: "Knowing grandpa, I'll get up." Li Xue is more punctual, and washes up early every day.
I also often prepare lunches and dinners for my two children. Li Tian likes to eat braised pork, Li Xue likes to eat tomato and egg soup, and I will make it according to their preferences. They always ate with relish, and I was very happy to see it.
In the evening, I will help the two children check their homework, and I will patiently explain if there is something I don't understand. Sometimes Li Tian's Chinese homework was not good, so I instructed him: "Every day, this sentence must be changed, otherwise the teacher will deduct points after reading it." Do you think it's a mistake?" Li Tian listened carefully to my suggestion and then revised his homework.
On weekends I would take my two kids to the park to play, and we would ride bikes, fish, and read books together. Once Li Xue excitedly said to me: "Grandpa, you see I caught a big fish!" I smiled and said, "Xue Xue is awesome, we can eat good fish tonight!" Li Xue happily jumped up and hugged me.
Such days are peaceful and happy. I do my best to take care of my two grandchildren, and they are also very filial to me. The neighbors praised me for my good way of educating my children, and the two children were sensible and obedient. I am also very pleased.
In the three years of high school, Li Tian and Li Xue studied very hard and Xi, and their grades were among the best. Eventually, they got their wish and got into the university of their choice.
I was so excited that I immediately called them to tell them the good news. Their parents were also very happy. I smiled and said to the two children: "Tiantian, Xuexue, you are really grandpa's good children, you must continue to study hard in college in the future Xi ”
Li Tian said shyly: "Thank you grandpa for taking care of me all these years, I couldn't have been admitted to university without you." When I get to university, I will definitely live up to your expectations and study hard Xi. Li Xue also said sweetly: "Grandpa, I will definitely work hard to study medicine and become an excellent doctor in the future!"
I am very relieved and feel that raising two children is the best decision for me in my life.
However, things began to change after the two children went to college. Because of the heavy workload, they gradually stopped being as filial to me as they used to.
One day, Li Tian overslept, and when I asked him to get up, he said impatiently: "I know, I know, I don't need you to call me again!" I was a little surprised, but I still said gently: "Every day, don't sleep too late, it's not good for your health." ”
I found that my two children were no longer so grateful and sometimes slightly disgusted by my care. I began to feel a little dissatisfied in my heart, thinking that they were not sensible. But thinking that they were busy studying and Xi, I still didn't say anything.
Later, we started arguing over some small things. Once Li Tian was late for dinner at noon, I asked him with concern why he came back so late. He said impatiently: "I am studying Xi school library, is it necessary to report?"
I was a little angry and said, "Every day, grandpa cares about you, don't talk like that." Li Tian also raised his voice and said, "I'm not a child anymore, grandpa, don't worry too much!"
Li Tian and I had a big fight because of this. Li Xue persuaded on the sidelines, but none of us gave in. After that quarrel, my relationship with Li Tian fell to a freezing point.
I was very sad that I felt that all my good intentions had been let down by my two grandchildren. In anger, I decided to amend the will, remove Li Tian and Li Xue from the will, and no longer give them any inheritance.
I found a lawyer and asked him to help me amend my will. The lawyer advised me to think again, after all, they are my flesh and blood. But I said firmly: "They don't respect me anymore, and I don't owe them anything." ”
Li Xue came to me with red eyes, and said in a choked voice: "Grandpa, don't be angry with us, okay? We know that we are wrong, and we will definitely be more filial to you in the future." Please don't change your will, we will always respect you. ”
I said coldly, "I've already decided and won't change my mind." You are no longer children, and I owe you nothing. ”
Li Xue listened to it and said bitterly: "Grandpa, I'm really sad that you said these words. We are your flesh and blood, please give us a chance to make amends. ”
I still shook my head firmly, and Li Xue could only leave disappointed.
Later, Li Tian also came to me, and his attitude was even tougher than Li Xue's. Li Tian said: "Grandpa, it is your freedom to change your will, but I will not plead with you in a low voice." I will create the future with my own hands. ”
I sneered, "Okay, go live your life by yourself, don't count on me in the future." ”
"So be it. Li Tian also left angrily.
I watched my two grandchildren break up with me, and I felt very uncomfortable. But I still stick to my principles, and since they no longer respect me, I will not tolerate them.
After a while, I suddenly became seriously ill and had no choice but to rest in bed. My neighbor saw that I was not doing well and took me to the hospital.
The doctor diagnosed me with acute gastritis and needed to be hospitalized. I lay on the hospital bed, looking at the cold hospital room, and my heart was lonely and empty like never before.
At this time, Li Tian and Li Xue suddenly came to see me. Their faces were full of worry, and Li Xue even had red eyes.
Li Xue held my hand and said, "Grandpa, you must take care of your body, we will take care of you." ”
Li Tian was no longer tough, and said gently: "Grandpa, the most important thing for you now is your body, and the rest can be solved slowly." ”
I was amazed at their arrival. Li Tian said: "Grandpa, although we quarreled, you are our elder after all. We're not going to leave you like that. ”
From that day on, Li Tian and Li Xue took turns to come to the hospital every day to take care of me, helping me wipe my body, feed me, and massage me. They put aside their preconceptions and took care of me wholeheartedly.
Seeing this scene, I was very moved in my heart. It turns out that blood is thicker than water, and I have an unbreakable bond with my two grandchildren.
I figured it out and decided to forgive them for their mistakes. I shouldn't cut off my relationship with flesh and blood for the sake of a momentary misunderstanding.
I said to Li Tian and Li Xue, "Child, grandpa knows it's wrong. I shouldn't change my will, you will always be my flesh and blood. No matter what happens in the future, we must understand and understand each other. ”
Li Tian and Li Xue nodded happily and threw themselves into my arms. Li Xue said sweetly: "Grandpa, I love you the most." We will always respect you and take care of you. ”
Li Tian also said: "It's not good for us, and we will correct it in the future." You can rest assured that we will be filial to you forever. ”
I was moved to tears, rubbed their hair and said, "Good boy, grandpa knows." Grandpa also has something wrong, we are all a family, we have to understand each other. ”
After this misunderstanding, my relationship with my two grandchildren became closer than before.
After I was discharged from the hospital, Li Tian and Li Xue would come to my home every week to see me and care about my body and life. Li Xue often makes some soups for me, and Li Tian will take me to the hospital regularly for physical check-ups.
Once, Li Tian sent me to the hospital for a follow-up. In the waiting room, he said to me with concern, "Grandpa, how is your body recovering? ”
I smiled and said, "I'm feeling good now, I'm basically recovering." Thanks to you and Xue Xue for taking care of you. ”
Li Tian said happily: "That's good, grandpa, you must take care of your body, we will always be with you." ”
I was very moved, held Li Tian's hand and said, "Every day, grandpa knows that you and Xuexue love me the most." Grandpa's happiest thing in this life is to have you two good children. ”
Li Tian also clenched my hand, and his eyes were a little moist.
I thought about the misunderstandings that happened before, and I never wanted to mention them again. I decided to revise the will again and leave all the property due to Li Tian and Li Xue. They are my flesh and blood after all, and I want to leave them the best.
The lawyer nodded and said, "You made the right choice. Blood is thicker than water, and in the end, family members still have to understand and tolerate each other. ”
I nodded, filled with relief.
Later, Li Tian and Li Xue both graduated successfully and found good jobs. They often come back to see me and share their work and life with me.
Once, Li Xue excitedly said to me: "Grandpa, I have officially become a doctor! I will take good care of patients in the future, and I will always take care of your body." ”
I smiled and said, "Xue Xue is the most amazing! You have achieved your dream of becoming a doctor, and Grandpa is proud of you." ”
Li Tian also said: "I also found a good job. Grandpa, don't worry, we will work hard, and when we have the conditions in the future, we will take you to travel and experience the customs and customs of the world. ”
I looked at my two grandchildren with relief, and my heart was filled with happiness and joy. Through those ups and downs, our relationship has grown stronger. I understand that the most precious thing between family members is affection.
One day, Li Tian and Li Xue suddenly came to my house and mysteriously said that they had something important to tell me.
I smiled and said, "What's the matter, it's so mysterious." ”
Li Tian said happily: "Grandpa, we are getting married! ”
I was pleasantly surprised, and hurriedly said, "Great! Tiantian and Xuexue are getting married, this is really a double happiness!"
Li Xue said shyly: "Yes, grandpa, we have all found a good other half." The engagement ceremony is going to be held in a few days, so you must come. ”
I said excitedly, "How can grandpa be absent on such an important day? I will definitely be there on time, bless you!"
On the day of the engagement ceremony, I carefully put on my new clothes and came to the scene. I was also very relieved to see the happiness on the faces of Li Tian and Li Xue in the venue.
Li Tian said to me: "Grandpa, this day has finally come! I have found the other half of this life, and I will spend the rest of my life with her hand in hand in the future." ”
Li Xue also said sweetly: "I have also found the object of my heart." Grandpa, you must take care of your health, we will come back to see you often after we get married. ”
I shook their hands with emotion and said, "Good boy, grandpa is so proud of you! Grandpa will always bless you. ”
Half a year later, Li Tian and Li Xue got married one after another. I also attended their weddings on time and gave a congratulatory speech, wishing them a happy and happy old age.
Now, they are all married, and occasionally come back to see me with their little families.
One day, Li Xue brought her little daughter to see me. My youngest daughter sweetly called me "great-grandpa", and I was very happy.
Li Xue smiled and said to me: "Grandpa, this is my husband and I's baby daughter, and it's your great-granddaughter." She will be there for you in the future. ”
I teased the little girl and said, "Good granddaughter, I will come to see my great-grandfather often in the future." ”
Li Xue nodded and said, "Our family will often come back to see you, you are our elders, and we will always be filial to you." ”
I held Li Xue's hand gratefully, and my heart was full of happiness.
In life, the most precious thing is the company of family members. I sincerely thank Li Tian and Li Xue for their concern, without them, my life would be a lot lonely.
I believe that we will always be with us in the days to come. I will watch their children grow up and pass them on from generation to generation.
One day, Li Tianxing came to me in a hurry, saying that he and his wife also had a child, a healthy baby boy.
Li Tian said happily: "Grandpa, our family has the next member! It's a cute little boy, you must come and see it." ”
I was so excited that I quickly said, "Great! Every day you have a child, and grandpa will soon become a great-grandfather! I will come to see my little great-grandson right away." ”
When I came to Li Tian's house, I saw a pink little boy sleeping in the crib, very cute. I happily teased him: "My little great-grandson is so cute, he will definitely call me great-grandfather when he grows up!"
Li Tian smiled and said, "Yes, grandpa, in the future, our family will often bring him to see you, so that he can know his great-grandfather since he was a child." ”
I was full of emotion, held Li Tian's hand and said, "Tiantian, you are also a father now." Grandpa believes that you will definitely be a good father and educate your children well. ”
Li Tian nodded solemnly: "I will pass on the way you taught me, teach my children to respect their elders and honor their grandparents." ”
I looked at him with relief and thought to myself that a blood bond is the most beautiful thing in the world.
Today, I am 80 years old and my health is deteriorating. Li Tian and Li Xue were more filial to me, often went home to see me, and took me to the hospital for physical examination.
One day, the whole family came back to see me, and Li Tian said, "Grandpa, we would like to ask you to move in with us, so that we can take better care of your daily life." ”
Li Xue also said: "Yes, grandpa, it's inconvenient for you to live alone, come and live with us." ”
I was so touched that I shook their hands and said, "Good boy, grandpa knows that you are doing it for my good." Then I will listen to you and live with you. ”
Since then, I have moved in with Li Tian and the others. Every morning, Li Tian and Li Xue would come to see me, help me make breakfast, and care about my body.
In the evening, after dinner, my grandchildren would chat with me, play chess, and watch TV. Sometimes my little great-grandchildren will climb on my knees and be coquettish, and my heart is warm.
I am grateful to God for giving me such a good child and a happy old age. Life is full of ups and downs, and the most important thing for family members is to understand and accompany each other.
I believe that we will always be with each other in the days to come. This family affection, which is thicker than water, will be passed down from generation to generation.