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Text: Yu Dazui Booth
Editor|Yu Dazui Booth
Recently, two actors, Ruby Lin and Chen Qiaoen, participated in the recording of a variety show at the same time, and some interactions between the two sparked discussions among netizens about their relationship. Some people guessed through their interactions that Ruby Lin still rejected Chen Qiaoen in her heart, and some people guessed whose marriage was happier from their appearance and private life.
This may be an over-interpretation, and we should not hold everyone to the standard of exhaustive humanity. Everyone has their own complex emotions, and it is difficult for us to fully guess and grasp.
And marital happiness is a very subjective matter, and should not be judged only by whether it is childbearing or not. We should look at Ruby Lin and Chen Qiaoen with a more tolerant and understanding attitude, and also look at each couple.
Ruby Lin and Jon Chen had both dated Huo Jianhua before, and now Ruby Lin is Huo Jianhua's wife, and Jon Chen is married to a wealthy Malaysian businessman. The two appeared in a variety show at the same time, and it was inevitable that there would be some awkward and subtle interactions.
Through their interactions, some netizens speculated that Ruby Lin still rejected Chen Qiaoen in her heart. For example, Ruby Lin did not hug Chen Qiaoen warmly for the first time, and the hug between the two was relatively perfunctory.
When Chen Qiaoen praised the room, Lin Xinru did not respond with a cold face. These actions reflect some of Ruby Lin's true thoughts. But we also need to understand that meeting an ex is a sensitive and embarrassing thing in itself, and anyone can have some mixed emotions.
We should not be extremely demanding that Ruby Lin must show warmth and friendliness. Keeping a certain distance and being polite is also a sign of being sensible and uncontested.
When Chen Qiaoen drank Lin Xinru's hand-poured coffee, she was surprised, because she also knew that Huo Jianhua loved coffee. This reflects that she didn't expect Ruby Lin to do this for Huo Jianhua. But Ruby Lin immediately said that it was very simple, perhaps to show that she didn't pay too much, just a trivial matter.
This may reflect some subtle comparisons between the two, but we should not over-interpret them, because their relationship is already difficult to handle, and it is inevitable that there will be some elements of competition in it.
They also exchanged gifts in the variety show, and Chen Qiaoen's hairpin was more popular, which also made netizens speculate that Ruby Lin was not very comfortable in her heart. In fact, this is just the effect of the show, and we should not add to it.
Anyone can be a little embarrassed to meet their ex, they have been handled as low-key as possible, and we should appreciate their demeanor and not over-interpret the relationship.
In addition, some netizens also speculated about whose marriage was happier through their appearance and private life. Lin Xinru was smiling, and Chen Qiaoen seemed to be slightly tired. And Lin Xinru gave birth to a daughter, and Chen Qiaoen is still not pregnant. Some opinions believe that having children is a necessary condition for happiness, otherwise it will inevitably cast a shadow on the marriage.
But we should not use parenting as the only criterion for judging a woman's happiness. Everyone has their own life status and pursuits, and it is difficult for us to judge whether a person is happy on the inside just by their appearance.
The incident quickly sparked a discussion on the Internet, and everyone had different opinions on Ruby Lin and Chen Qiaoen.
Some people think that judging from Ruby Lin's attitude, she still rejects Chen Qiaoen in her heart and doesn't want to be close to her. This is also human nature, and when it comes to the former and the current, it is inevitable that there will be some ambivalence.
But some people believe that we should not ask Ruby Lin to be friendly with the mentality of moral kidnapping, and that her keeping a moderate distance is also a sign of sensibility. We should not read too much into the relationship.
There are also different opinions about which of them is happier. Some people think that having a child is a must for a woman's happiness, and Ruby Lin is naturally happier than Chen Qiaoen when she gives birth to a child. But there are also those who believe that marital happiness is not judged by such a machine, and it is difficult for us to see what a person's inner world is like just from the outside.
The two actors, Ruby Lin and Chen Qiaoen, appeared in variety shows at the same time, and it was inevitable that there would be some subtle interactions. But we should not over-interpret the relationship, nor should we use having children as the only criterion for judging whether a woman is happy or not.
Everyone has their own path in life, and we should look at each couple with a more tolerant and understanding mindset. We may never be able to fully know the inner world of a person, but we can choose to understand each person with kindness, and this is the attitude we should have.
What do netizens think? How do we view the relationship between Ruby Lin and Chen Qiaoen? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.