⇧ The blue text above the dot pays attention to "CCTV set", and adds "star" ⇧ The specific operation method is seen at the end of the article, she was born in a famous family, talented, knowledgeable, and married Su Xun at the age of 18. She does not rely on who to cling to to live, while doing business to earn money to support her family, she takes on the responsibility of supervising her children to study, which is not only a good wife who encourages her husband to make progress, but also a good mother who educates and enlightens her children. She is Su Xun's wife, Su Shi and Su Zhe's mother, Mrs. Cheng. Launched by China Central Radio and Television Station, the first large-scale cultural variety show "The Legend of the Grandmaster: The Eight Masters of the Tang and Song Dynasties" created by CCTV Comprehensive Channel is on the air. The story of the "Three Sus" is a household name, but how much do you know about the woman behind them, Mrs. Cheng?
It's "Mrs. Cheng", not "Mrs. Su"
The ancients paid attention to "marrying and obeying the husband", after the woman got married, the name became Mrs. Zhang and Mrs. Li with the husband's surname, and Su Shi and Su Zhe's mother was a special case, she kept her surname, and was called "Mrs. Cheng" from ancient times to the present, not "Mrs. Su" and "Su Cheng".
According to written records, Mrs. Cheng is the daughter of Cheng Wenying of Dali Temple in Meishan, born in a famous family, received a good education since childhood, read poetry and books, knew etiquette, and married Su Xun as his wife at the age of 18. Born in a wealthy family of eunuchs, she married into the Su family, and did not rely on her identity, but was filial piety and thrift, and won the love of the Su family. She has excellent qualities that are praised by everyone, whether it is piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, moral cultivation, or husband and child, they are all admirable and worthy of respect, Su Xun, Su Shi, Su Zhe and the three fathers and sons can become a generation of writers, and they are inseparable from the silent support of Mrs. Cheng.
Never give up
Finally waited for her husband to "get lost"
The young Su Xun is quite a swinger, he doesn't like to read sage books, and likes to wander around. "The boy likes miracles, and he falls into the saddle horse. As he wrote in the poem, Su Xun liked to travel and make friends when he was young, but Mrs. Cheng never looked coldly at him, but tried her best to understand, care and support him. Su Xun failed miserably after taking the imperial examination for the third time, which made him wake up and re-examine the articles he had written, and couldn't help but sigh: "What I have learned today is what I have not yet learned!" angrily burned the old manuscript and read it hard from the beginning.
Mrs. Cheng worked hard for the Su family and did her best to educate her children, and Su Xun saw it in her eyes. He said to Mrs. Cheng: "I think of myself, I can still learn now, but my family treats me for life, and I will learn and waste my life, but what!" Mrs. Cheng's longing for "lost and returned" has finally arrived, "Zi Gou has ambitions, and I can also be tired of life." In order to let her husband study with peace of mind, Mrs. Cheng sold her clothes, jewelry, jewelry and dowry, opened a silk shop, took care of the family's expenses, and fully supported her husband with practical actions.
Based on benevolence and righteousness
Mrs. Cheng also has a set of education for children
Mrs. Cheng not only encouraged her husband to be motivated, but also personally devoted herself to the education of the two Su brothers, encouraging them to "work hard and have the ambition of the world" and "have great ambitions, not to dishonor Sumen, and not to regret the country". She often tells them stories of success and failure in ancient and modern times, and is not confined to book knowledge, often learns and applies it lively, uses examples of big and small things in life, and sets an example with her own words and deeds to achieve a subtle educational role.
Su Shi mentioned in the article "Mrs. Remembering the First Lady Does Not Destroy Birds and Sparrows" and the poem "Strange Magpie" that Mrs. Cheng taught the two brothers to cherish all living things by not harming birds and sparrows. This kind of self-respecting education and empathy have a great impact on Su Shi and Su Zhe. Su Shi has been adrift all his life and has suffered frequent blows in officialdom, but he still maintains an optimistic attitude. Su Zhe was degraded several times, and finally became the prime minister, helping the people of the world.
Su Shi once recalled his mother in the article: "Born with a lot of ambitions, good at reading, through the past and present, and knowing the reasons for the gains and losses of his chaos." Mrs. Cheng's words and deeds deeply affected the two brothers of the Su family.
Without "one journey", how can there be "three Sus"
Mrs. Cheng has been nourishing the towering tree "Sansu" all her life, and from her body, you can see the soft and tenacious strength of women. She stood behind the "Three Sus", but she was not covered up because of this. Sima Guang once wrote an epitaph for her: "The poor do not defile the name of their husband, and the rich do not think that their sons are burdened." Knowing mechanics can show its door, and the straight road can be glorious in the world. The husband teaches his son, and the bottom is bright. ”
Because of a good wife and mother like Mrs. Cheng, the road of the three fathers and sons of the Su family became wider and wider, and they eventually became "a father and son with three words". In the "Eight Masters of the Tang and Song Dynasties", the three fathers and sons of Sumen occupied three seats. It's a pity that the good news that all the Su brothers were on the list has not yet come, and Mrs. Cheng died, and the Su family's father and son hurriedly returned to their hometowns for funeral. Su Xun buried his wife in Lao Weng Spring, and wrote the memorial text "Since the death of his son, he has lost a good friend", "Chiseled into two rooms, and the same period as his son", "The soul is not lost, and he will return in the future", promising that he will be buried with his wife after his death, and the depth of the relationship between husband and wife can be seen.
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