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Text: Fei Xiangshuo
Editor|Fei Xiangshuo
Old iron, when do you think a man is the most moving? Is it when he is reckless and free when the spring breeze is proud? Or when he is still indomitable in the face of dismal failure? In my opinion, the most respectable moment of a man is that he is willing to give everything for the sake of his beloved, not hesitating to violate his own principles.
What I'm going to talk about today is my good brother Zhou Yiwei. He has been withdrawn since he was a child, and he wants to live in seclusion in the mountains, away from the world. But in middle age, due to fate, he met a woman, and since then he would rather hit the south wall by himself than polish all the light on his body for her. That's my buddy and a role model for all men to learn Xi.
Wandering around the world, he finally became a man who knew his fate and kept it
The story of me and Zhou Yiwei starts with our acquaintance at the Beijing Film Academy.
At that time, Zhou Yiwei was still a hairy boy who had just turned 18 years old. But what struck me was that his character was far older than his peers. Zhou Zhouwei doesn't like to talk, and it's hard to mingle with strangers. I guess it had something to do with his upbringing.
Zhou Yiwei is a native of Xiangxi, and his parents are both working hard in the literary and artistic circles, so he has been running around and wandering everywhere since he was a child. Later, his parents brought him to Beijing to live, but what he missed most was his hometown. may be because he has been drifting since he was a child, and his personality is becoming more and more withdrawn and introverted.
He even often ridiculed that he was as upside down as Su Dongpo. I advised him not to think nonsense, but he told me in a serious manner that when he met someone who didn't fit in, he would only see this one side in his life. Zhou Zhouwei is extremely picky about his friends, and if it weren't for 100% of the match, he would definitely not have dating.
However, after meeting Zhu Dan, Zhou Yiwei, who originally adhered to his principles, suddenly became enlightened. He has always been withdrawn and silent, and began to take the initiative to encourage Zhu Dan and cheer her up. Unexpectedly, this encouragement made him completely moved.
I still remember that when I first fell in love, Zhu Dan was deceived by a friend of nearly 20 million, which was a huge blow to a girl in love. Many boys have already chosen to leave when they encounter this situation, but they don't have one week. Not only did he not leave, but he also firmly told Zhu Dan that we will pay back the money together, and we will definitely be able to pay it off.
I am impressed by the sacrifice of a boyfriend who has just confirmed his relationship and is willing to unconditionally help his girlfriend pay off a huge debt.
I have lived in seclusion in the mountains, but I have gone out of the mountains and entered the city for you
Knowing Zhou Zhouwei for so many years, I have always felt that he is a very principled person.
For example, he has some social phobia and is very socially resistant. For example, he has a low-key personality, and even if he is an actor, he will not show his head. Another example is that he has his own rules of conduct and will never change himself in order to cater to others.
I once advised Zhou Zhouwei to stop being so opinionated and learn to adapt to this era. But he told me that he had no interest or ability to cater to everyone, and just wanted to be an actor quietly, and he didn't want to be swayed by the outside world.
But if you want to be an actor, it's a matter of time before you make an appearance. I could see Zhou Zhouwei's entanglement, but I didn't think that one day, he would really choose to go against his principles for the sake of a woman.
2023 is a turning point in Zhou Yiwei's self-proclaimed life. This year, in order to accompany Zhu Dan, he participated in a variety show with her and made his private life public.
This is tantamount to a huge leap forward for the always low-key Zhou Yiwei. He knew that he was introverted and hated deliberate publicity, but he still stood in front of the camera shy and brave.
I believe that Zhou Zhouwei is also extremely uncomfortable with this. But he still mustered up the courage to do so, because "Zhu Dan has no halo on him", and he can't watch his lover leave in disgrace.
You and I have nothing to do with each other, I am willing to hit the south wall for you
Seeing Monday's performance on the show, I knew how challenging it was for him.
He either looked left and right, or hid behind Zhu Dan and snickered, or buried his head in eating, completely in a socially phobic look.
But I can understand that this is already the limit of his self-violation. Even if his performance in the show is not satisfactory, in my heart, Zhou Yiwei is already a man who is obedient.
I still remember that Zhu Dan was moved to tears during the show and said to Zhou Yiwei: "If it weren't for me, you could have been your quiet actor all the time, but for me, you chose to face the camera and violated your own principles, and I feel guilty." ”
Zhou Zhouwei told her seriously: "In love, we don't need to say sorry, because we have held hands, which means accepting everything from each other." As your significant other, I am willing to do anything for you. ”
The sincerity of these words touched my heart directly. Once upon a time, my brother would also be so gentle as water for a woman?
I know that it is precisely because of Zhu Dan that Zhou Yiwei is getting better and better. I believe that their stories will serve as an example for all to learn Xi love.
In the midst of the controversy, I only hope that you will return to your old face
After the story of Zhou Yiwei and Zhu Dan was exposed, it quickly sparked heated discussions on the Internet.
Some people praised Zhou Zhouwei for being a good man who was responsible for his love. But some people also questioned whether Zhou Yiwei was sincere, just using Zhu Dan to enhance his popularity.
Some people also believe that Zhu Dan should be cautious from the beginning to avoid being cheated of huge sums of money. Did she do her homework enough for Zhou Yiwei to take over her mess?
However, more people say that we should not be harsh on the person concerned, but should appreciate the spirit of a man who gives for love. As Zhu Dan said, love needs to support each other, which already says it all.
I believe that we should not speculate about the truth or falsehood of other people's feelings, because love itself is difficult to express in words. The important thing is that a person who can sacrifice his ego for the sake of his lover deserves to be respected.
In my opinion, love is like a spiritual practice. We need to learn to understand, tolerate, and fulfill each other in love. Monday gave us this realization.
You and I have not met in front of the mountain, but we have become confidants behind the mountain
The most precious thing in life is to meet a confidant.
My friendship with Zhou Yiwei began with a chance encounter many years ago. At that time, we were all ignorant teenagers, full of doubts about the world.
Zhou Zhouwei always looks old-fashioned and serious, and I often jokingly call him "old soul". He also always discussed life with me seriously and shared his childish philosophy.
We encouraged each other and worked together through the lost adolescence. Now that I think about it, everything is so bumpy and beautiful.
Just when I thought we would always walk side by side like this, a girl appeared and changed him.
He was originally full of distance from life, and began to sincerely pay for a person. He was originally indifferent to others, but gradually learned to be gentle.
I know that love affects everyone differently. It turned Zhou Zhouwei into a better person and allowed me to see the aura on him.
Life will not be smooth sailing, but with someone by our side, we can overcome all difficulties. I sincerely wish my good brother, and I also wish all lovers in the world to become married!
At the same time, we must also cherish every confidant in our lives. Thank God for letting us meet and let us have a wonderful time. I hope to grow old with you and continue to walk side by side!