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Recently, Wu, a woman from Hangzhou, inadvertently discovered on the short video platform that her husband Zhu was carrying her back and registered her marriage with two women, Chenchen and Wang Duoduo, and had a son and two daughters respectively. This "modern version of three wives and four concubines" incident that shocked women and society, while exposing the anomie of family ethics, also makes people have to think deeply: in today's materialistic world, the sacredness of marriage is gradually being eroded and disintegrated.
1. I stumbled upon my husband's "double opening"
Ms. Wu and Zhu have known each other for more than ten years, and their married life is plain but happy. Until one day, when Ms. Wu was watching a short video, she accidentally saw a wedding photo uploaded by a woman, and the groom turned out to be her husband Zhu!
Shocked, Ms. Wu immediately launched an investigation and soon found out that the woman was Chenchen, who was in her twenties. It turned out that Zhu not only registered his marriage with Chenchen in other places, but also had a son. In addition, after Chenchen, Zhu held a wedding with a Wang Duoduo in Hangzhou and gave birth to two children!
Zhu's one-sided announcement of "divorce and remarriage" is obviously a serious violation of the relevant provisions of the "Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China". Ms. Wu decided to take Zhu to court and demand that he be held responsible.
2. During the trial, the contradiction between the two juniors emerged
In court, Chenchen cried that he was a victim, was deceived by Zhu into marrying and having a child, and fell into the predicament of an orphan and widow. Ms. Wu also felt compassion and decided not to pursue the alimony transferred by Zhu to Chenchen.
However, the "gift" of up to 4 million yuan transferred by Zhu to Wang Duoduo was resolutely pursued by Ms. Wu. Wang Duoduo argued that this was the legal income of the two after marriage. This caused an uproar in the courtroom.
Through investigation and trial, the court finally determined that Zhu's behavior was the crime of bigamy and sentenced him to return 4 million yuan to Ms. Wu. Although Zhu and Wang Duoduo had two sons, the marriage was not legal, and Wang Duoduo could not claim any property rights.
In this case, the situation and fate of the two juniors are completely different: the impoverished Chenchen becomes a victim, while the shrewd Wang Duoduo claims "true love" to exonerate himself, but in the end he pays a terrible price.
3. Materialistic desires are difficult to maintain
The parties in this case all belong to the middle class of society, and the conditions are not bad. So, why did Zhu indulge in lust and engage in a "wife swapping game" when he knew that he had a wife?
In fact, in today's society, many people have begun to downplay the responsibility of marriage, and only see it as a material mutually beneficial relationship. Once they are materially well-off, they will replace their marriage as a consumer good, which is extremely dangerous.
In this case, after Zhu achieved financial freedom, he unscrupulously arranged his "women's freedom". It can be seen that such people are merely using marriage as a tool to satisfy their selfish desires. Women like Chenchen and Wang Duoduo also hope to quickly achieve class leapfrogging by building relationships with the wealthy. In short, driven by materialistic desires, marriage loses its sanctity and stability.
4. Punish bigamy and protect the sanctity of marriage
The outcome of this case shows that mainland law has adopted a severe attitude towards bigamy. To a certain extent, this can restrain those who treat marriage as child's play and maintain the stability of the marital relationship.
However, after all, legal means are a palliative rather than a cure. In order to fundamentally reduce the occurrence of such incidents, it is still necessary to start from the ideological and moral level, vigorously carry forward the fine tradition of respecting marriage and keeping loyal to each other in the whole society, so that people can form a correct outlook on marriage and love and ethical concepts.
Of course, strict legal punishment is also necessary. For a scum like Zhu who blatantly engages in cuckolding, in addition to settling him to pay economic compensation to his main wife and second wife respectively, it is recommended that he should also be investigated for criminal responsibility in accordance with the law and given a penalty of criminal detention or fixed-term imprisonment.
User Comments:
Some netizens said that Zhu is so rampant in front of his wife, he is simply a fighter among the scum, and he must be severely punished according to law. Some netizens also said that juniors like Chenchen and Wang Duoduo should also be condemned by the society, they ignore family ethics and start a relationship with a married man, this kind of behavior will be punished by God. Some netizens said that they can't simply point the finger at Xiao San, they are also victims of this incident. The main responsibility also lies with the garbage men who forget all ethics and morals in the face of beauty, and if they had not empathized with each other or even betrayed their family first, these tragedies would not have occurred.
To sum up, this incident must arouse a high degree of vigilance among the contemporary people: under the dual stimulation of material desire and carnal desire, marriage relations and family ethics are increasingly eroded and destroyed. In order to prevent the further spread of this phenomenon, it is necessary to start with self-cultivation and reverence for virtue and set strict demands on oneself; at the same time, it is also necessary to use strict legal means to severely punish those scum who trample on marriage. Only in this way can the marriage relationship not be degenerated into chaos.
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