In a remote rural corner, Yang Suo was born into an ordinary and poor family. His father, Yang Jichun, was an ordinary farmer in the village, who had worked hard all his life, but he was ridiculed and pitied by the villagers because he had no children for a long time.
Mother, gentle but suffering from infertility. In the sixteenth year after their marriage, in the spring of 1986, Yang Suo was finally born, bringing long-lost joy and hope.
The birth of Yang Suo, for Yang Jichun and his wife, is not only a symbol of the continuation of the family bloodline, but also the crystallization of their love and the sustenance of life. In Yang Jichun's eyes, his son Yang Suo is the realization of all his dreams, the guarantee of stability in his old age, and the antidote to all hardships in life.
His love for his son is far deeper than the ordinary father's love. Every night, he would whisper to Yang Suo in swaddling clothes: "Suo'er, you are the pride of your father, and you will become the best person in the village in the future." ”
However, this deep love has gradually turned into an invisible shackle. In the process of Yang Suo's growth, the overprotection and doting of his parents became an inescapable burden on him.
Since he was a toddler, Yang Suo has never felt the texture of the soil and the warmth of the grass. His mother was worried that he would fall and get hurt, so she always carefully held him in her arms. Even walking has become a luxury wish.
As Yang Suo grew older, this protection only increased. His parents were worried that he would be hungry and did their best to get him meat at every meal, even on difficult days.
Yang Suo's tastes gradually became picky, and his family's economic conditions were tight, but under the doting of his parents, he never felt the hardships of life. His mother often said to herself: "Suo'er, as long as you are happy, your mother is willing to do anything." ”
Entering school age, Yang Suo's laziness and dependence began to manifest. In the eyes of Yang Jichun and his wife, Yang Suo is flawless. Even if he was disobedient and didn't learn Xi at school, they always found all kinds of reasons to justify him. They worry about his suffering at school and prepare hearty snacks for him every day, while Yang Suo gradually Xi this spoiled life.
His peers are learning how Xi to be independent, but Yang Suo has always lived under the umbrella of his parents. In such an environment, he gradually lost the opportunity to challenge himself and grow. His world seems to be only pampered by his parents, without the tempering of society.
Time passed like flowing water, and Yang Suo gradually grew up, but his mind and ability stayed in childhood. He lacks the ability to take care of himself, let alone face life's challenges. The doting of his parents, like an invisible hand, firmly held his growth, making it impossible for him to breathe and fly freely.
This way of life gradually planted the seeds of tragedy in Yang Suo's heart. In the eyes of outsiders, Yang Suo's life is full of the love of his parents, but in fact, this love has become a stumbling block on his growth path. Yang Suo's life trajectory, in this kind of overprotection and doting, slowly deviated from the normal track.
悲剧的萌芽：杨锁的逐渐堕落
Yang Suo's life began to show signs of abnormality. His laziness at home gradually evolved into an unbelievable way of life. The unconditional doting of his parents made him never feel the weight of life and a sense of responsibility. His daily life has become a series of comfortable experiences that do not require his own effort.
Yang Suo's room became his whole world. He began to resist any activity that required a do-it-yourself approach. Even the most basic things of daily life, such as eating and personal hygiene, became objects of avoidance. His mother, always by his side, continued to deliver everything he needed.
His eating habits Xi becoming more and more abnormal, as long as it is not his favorite food, he will refuse to eat and even lose his temper.
At a family dinner, his mother gently persuaded him: "Suo'er, eat more vegetables, it's good for your health." However, Yang Suo waved his hand impatiently, muttering, "I don't like it, I don't eat it." ”
As time passed, Yang Suo's lifestyle became more and more extreme. He began to resist Xi and any form of manual labor. The family's fields needed to be cultivated, but he never went to the fields.
Even at home, he just lies in bed and enjoys the meticulous care of his parents. In Yang Suo's room, there were always snacks and drinks piled up next to his bed, and he only had to reach out to reach for them. This lazy state of life gradually affected his physical health and social skills.
His parents, especially Yang Jichun, turned a blind eye to this. In Yang Jichun's heart, his son is an irreplaceable baby. He often said to his neighbors: "Suo'er just doesn't like to work, he is smart, and he will definitely be able to achieve great things in the future." But this kind of blind self-confidence can't hide Yang Suo's increasingly obvious problems.
The Road to the End: The tragic end of Yang Suo
As time passed, Yang Suo's life fell into a deeper predicament. His parents, Yang Jichun and his wife, were in deteriorating health due to old age and long-term hard work. However, Yang Suo seems to be unaware of this, continuing to wallow in his laziness and dependence, completely unaware of the challenges he is about to face in life.
One winter day in 1999, tragedy struck. Yang Jichun unfortunately passed away due to a recurrence of long-term liver disease. The blow was devastating for the family, but for Yang Suo, it was like a storm away from him.
His mother was physically and mentally exhausted after her husband's death, but she still struggled to make ends meet for the family while continuing to take care of Yang Suo. She often sighed: "Suo'er, you have to be strong, we have to get through this together." However, Yang Suo seemed to have no feelings about this, and still lay in bed every day, waiting for his mother's care.
In 2004, another tragedy struck. Yang Suo's mother finally collapsed due to overwork and psychological trauma. Yang Suo suddenly lost the support he had always relied on and faced unprecedented life challenges. However, due to long-term dependence and laziness, he has little ability to take care of himself. He tried to find a job, but he was unable to settle down in any job due to a lack of basic skills and work ethic.
The attitude of relatives towards Yang Suo gradually changed from sympathy to boredom. Occasionally, they would bring some food to Yang Suo, but that help became less and less.
Yang Suo's cousin, as the only relative in the family who is still willing to take care of him, tried his best to find a job for him, but repeatedly hit a wall. He said helplessly: "Suo'er, you have to learn to take care of yourself, we can't help you all the time." But Yang Suo turned a deaf ear to this and continued his lazy life.
Yang Suo's living environment deteriorated day by day, and he even began to defecate and defecate at will, completely losing his basic life order and hygiene Xi habits. His house had become filthy and full of smell and garbage. His physical health also declined dramatically due to chronic lack of exercise and an unreasonable diet.
In the end, on a cold winter day, Yang Suo's life came to an end. He died alone in his room due to prolonged hunger and bitter cold. His cousin found out about the bad news while bringing him food.
In his room, all combustible items, including furniture, were used for heating, and many expired meat and vegetables were placed in the cupboards, giving off a burst of rotting smell. Obviously, in his last days, he didn't even have basic living security.
Yang Suo's death caused a shock in the village. Many people feel sorry, and others think that it is the result of his own suffering. Local television even reported on the incident, triggering a deep reflection on doting education in society. A year later, a movie based on Yang Suo's story "Sin Love" was released, which became a wake-up call in the education community and society, reminding all parents: love needs to be moderate, and excessive spoiling will only harm children.
epilogue
Yang Suo's life is like the final revelation of a suspense drama, revealing a profound social reality. His story is not only a microcosm of personal tragedy, but also a profound reflection on modern family education.
In traditional Chinese culture, children are often regarded as the hope and future of the family, and parents' love for their children is undoubtedly deep and sincere. However, Yang Suo's example shows us that love, if given inappropriately, can become a destructive force.