This afternoon, I made an appointment to meet my future mother-in-law, Xiaofang. She had been haunted by the problem with my house, and I thought this meeting should solve this thorny problem. She said she was going to meet at home, so I arrived at her house early and knocked on her door.
"Aunt Xiaofang, I'm here. I politely knocked on the door and shouted.
"What about Xiaofang? why hasn't she opened the door yet?" I secretly guessed in my heart, and after a while, the door was opened, and Xiaofang smiled and let me into her house.
After sitting down, I opened the conversation: "Aunt Xiaofang, I know that you have been worried about me and Xiaoqiang, and today I came over to have a good talk with you, hoping to solve this problem." I spoke firmly, looking into Xiao Fang's eyes.
Xiao Fang also replied firmly: "Xiaoyun, you and Xiaoqiang are both responsible for this matter, the problem now is the problem of the house, and your father and I both think that this matter is inappropriate." You transferred the house to your father before marriage, which means that we will be old in the future, and Lang will have the feeling of going with the flow and feel unsteady. There was a hint of displeasure in her tone.
Hearing this, I tried my best to control my emotions and said, "Aunt Xiaofang, I know your and uncle's worries, but the matter of the house should really be explained to you, in fact, Xiaoqiang and I also have our own plans, and Xiaoqiang and I have already discussed this matter." "
Before I finished speaking, Xiao Fang preemptively said: "Xiaoyun, when I see you this time, I just want you to give us the transfer of the house." You can write your and Xiaoqiang's names on the house again, and your father and I think this is the most reasonable. "
I couldn't help but get a little angry, but I still tried to control my emotions, took a deep breath, calmed down, and then said to Xiaofang: "Aunt Xiaofang, I hope you can understand our thoughts, this house belongs to my father, he transferred it to me, this is his heart, we really don't want to transfer the house to other people." However, don't worry, Xiaoqiang and I will not treat you and your uncle badly, we will honor you well, and will never let you have any dissatisfaction and uneasiness. "
Hearing me say this, Xiao Fang subconsciously frowned, but immediately regained her expression: "Xiaoyun, in fact, I want you to think about it, after your father is old, you are not around, he may be alone, and if your name is written on the house, it is also to let him have a place to live." "
I felt a little incomprehensible about Xiao Fang's words, and I was still very uncomfortable in my heart, but I knew that this problem could not be solved at once, so I could only seek some opinions first, so I said to Xiao Fang: "Aunt Xiao Fang, I have to discuss this matter with Xiao Qiang, and we will find another time to talk to you." "
Xiao Fang listened to my words and nodded a little dissatisfied.
"Well, since you want to discuss, let's discuss. But I hope you'll seriously consider our ideas. After Xiaofang finished speaking, I had no choice but to say goodbye and leave her home.
Back at home, I told Xiaoqiang about the meeting. After listening to this, he was silent for a while, and then said: "We have to think of a solution, and we can't let this problem remain unresolved. "
So we started talking about how to deal with it. We understand that this is not only a material matter, but also a matter of emotion and responsibility. We don't want to have any grievances on both parents, and we want to find a solution that will satisfy both parents.
After a few days of communication and thinking, we finally came up with a good solution to the problem. We decided to surprise both parents by buying a small but comfortable new house for them together, with their names written on it, as a retirement home for both parents. In this way, we can not only meet the living needs of both parents, but also express our respect and filial piety to both parents.
When we went to announce this decision to both parents, they were very surprised and moved. They unanimously said that the arrangement was very thoughtful and considerate. As a result, the relationship between the parents is more harmonious, and they no longer worry about real estate issues.
But just when we thought everything was settled, an unexpected happened. Xiaoqiang's sister suddenly offered to add her name to our new title deed, citing the desire to have a home to raise her children in the future. This unexpected proposal made us feel very troubled, and for a time we were caught in a new dispute.
In the next few days, Xiaoqiang and I were busy working, but we always had this problem on our minds. Until one day, Xiaoqiang came to me and said, "Xiaoyun, I talked to my parents, and they insisted that the house should have our name written on it, and they said that this was an explanation of my father's future life." Our family members are also relatively strong, and it is difficult to convince them. But I'll try to explain it to them again. ”
After listening to this, I was also anxious, after all, this is not only a problem for our husband and wife, but also involves conflicts between families. I thought about it again and decided to find a suitable time to meet Xiaofang again and communicate with her properly. Hopefully, through my efforts, we will be able to reach a proper solution.
Xiao Fang and I stood opposite each other, a hint of displeasure flashing across her face. "Xiaoyun, I hope you can deal with this matter as soon as possible, after all, this is also related to the future of you and Xiaoqiang. She spoke firmly.
I was restless, and I didn't know how to tell Xiaofang what I had discussed with my father. At this time, I suddenly came up with an idea that might solve this contradiction. So I said, "Aunt Xiaofang, I have thought of a solution. We can have my parents and my names written on the house, which will solve your worries about my father's loneliness and not go against my parents' expectations of me. "
Xiao Fang raised her eyebrows slightly after hearing this, and seemed to hesitate about this suggestion. "This ...... That's a good idea, but you'll have to discuss it with your dad. She said with a slight hesitation.
"Okay, I'll talk to my father about it and I'll get in touch with you. "I hope that all of this will be resolved satisfactorily.
After leaving Xiaofang's house, I hurried back home. I nervously told my father about my meeting with Xiaofang and the solution I had proposed. Father's face was embarrassed, and he hesitated for a moment before saying, "Xiaoyun, this issue needs to be thought about. I have only one house in my life, which I and your mother have worked hard to provide, and we can't lose it. And you and Xiaoqiang have to plan for your future, don't wronged yourself for me. "
I don't know what to do, and I can understand my father's concerns. I have mixed feelings in my heart, this thing is really difficult to do. Perhaps, there is really only a compromise solution.
Before I knew it, time was ticking, and I still hadn't found a solution to my problem. On this day, Xiaoqiang called, and he said that he and Xiaofang had already negotiated and were ready to continue to ask for his and my names to be written on the real estate certificate, and he hoped that we would solve this problem as soon as possible.
Listening to Xiao Qiang's words, a trace of anger ignited in my heart, why did Xiao Fang do this? Doesn't she understand the hardships of me and my father? This question really makes me in a dilemma. I didn't know what to do, I needed to think about how I could find a way to finally solve the problem.
I breathed a sigh of relief and looked at Xiaofang and smiled reassuringly. Our conversation was not a good one, but it was a good one. The advice I got from Xiaoqiang was to have a good talk with Xiaofang and try to make her accept and understand our ideas, so I think this meeting was quite fruitful. I got up and said goodbye to Xiaofang, but I didn't completely let go of this matter in my heart. The transfer of the house to my father before marriage left me in a boundless tangle.
However, the next blind date event disrupted the peaceful rhythm of my life. After Xiaofang learned the news, she started calling me and brought up the topic over and over again, she thought that there was no need for us to go on a blind date, and we should focus on solving the problem of the house. Her anxiety made me feel a little irritated, and I couldn't understand why she was so obsessed with it.
"Aunt Xiaofang, why are you here?" I asked curiously.
"I want to see who you're blind date, I can't let you choose your partner so hastily. Xiao Fang replied dissatisfied.
I was a little embarrassed by her words, but there was no more explanation. Just then, my blind date came over and greeted us politely. Xiao Fang looked at her provocatively, turned to me and said, "Xiaoyun, is such a girl worthy of you?" "
I smiled a little embarrassed and didn't respond. This unexpected encounter made the whole blind date process awkward. I don't know what to do.
After this incident, Xiaofang was even tougher on me, calling me every day to force me and Xiaoqiang to talk about the house again. Her attitude seemed to be becoming more and more extreme, leaving me feeling very frustrated and confused. It's hard for me to understand why she's so obsessed with a house issue and that she doesn't show any respect for our relationships and decisions. The torment and entanglement during this period made me feel extremely tired, and I really didn't know how to make a decision that would not hurt my parents and Xiaoqiang, but also satisfy Xiaofang. It all seems to be incomprehensible.
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