Recently, a reality show "Wife's Romantic Trip" that explores marriage relationships has been broadcast on the Internet, causing countless netizens to discuss. The show tells the story of four couples of different marriage ages who are invited together for a week-long travel interview.
The program team did not inform the specific destination in advance, and only asked everyone to prepare for travel in advance. The four couples are: Wang Xinjun and Qin Hailu, who have been married for 15 years; Chen Jianbin and Jiang Qinqin, married for 10 years; Lin Feng and Zhang Xinyue, newly married for 1 and a half years; and Zou Kai and Zhou Jie, whose marriage age is unknown.
The program team claimed that the trip was to interview their married life and relationship changes, but in fact, many obstacles were secretly set up in order to cause conflicts between husband and wife.
The tour lasts a total of 7 days. The program team first asked everyone to hike for several hours to reach an inaccessible mountain hut, which was an extremely difficult journey. They will then live in a humble environment and do a series of outdoor challenges and interviews.
The program team hopes to create conditions for these celebrity couples to expose their problems, so that the public can comment on them. The entire journey was heavily filmed and edited into 6 episodes of TV for online streaming.
This show caused a sensation as soon as it was broadcast, and the click-through rate and discussion volume increased steadily, becoming the hottest variety show topic at the moment.
Wang Xinjun and Qin Hailu are the representatives of the old husband and wife in this show, and the two have been married for 15 years. At the beginning of the show, they deliberately set up their relationship to be extremely sweet.
Before leaving, Wang Xinjun asked Qin Hailu with a smile if she had packed her luggage. To the audience's surprise, he affectionately called Qin Hailu "baby". Qin Hailu also looked shy, saying, "I'm afraid everyone won't be able to accept our love."
The two are as slimy as young boys and girls in love.
But in the subsequent introduction, Qin Hailu mercilessly pointed out that Wang Xinjun "can't take care of himself". This revelation makes people laugh dumbly, do the 15-year-old husband and wife still need to maintain each other's image? Their overly deliberate performance can only show that under the surface of this layer of sweet love, the real relationship between the two has long been indifferent.
Wang Xinjun needs to rely on Qin Hailu to take care of himself, and Qin Hailu is dissatisfied in his heart. This stark contrast bodes well for the problems they will have to face during this trip.
If there is still a superficial harmony between Wang Xinjun and Qin Hailu, then the relationship between Chen Jianbin and Jiang Qinqin will become clearer. The two have been married for 10 years, and they are already familiar old husbands and wives.
During this trip, Chen Jianbin cooked a dish for Jiang Qinqin. He rolled up his sleeves, washed and chopped vegetables, and looked like a virtuous and good man. But when he started stir-frying, Jiang Qinqin immediately took over the control of the scene, instructed Chen Jianbin every step and asked him to improve.
"You cut it bigger", "You can't use this pot", Jiang Qinqin gave the order without hesitation, and Chen Jianbin could only resign himself to doing it.
It is not difficult to see from the interaction between the two that in Chen Jianbin family, Jiang Qinqin's status is overwhelming. She had long been Xi to commanding and restraining her husband. Chen Jianbin also accepted his fate to play the role of an obedient husband.
This relationship pattern has been going on for 10 years, and it may seem a bit utilitarian, but is there a hidden problem lurking in it? This journey may make them face more problems.
If the old husbands and wives have more or less fallen into the dullness of life, then Lin Feng and Zhang Xinyue, who have been married for less than 2 years, are not the same thing at all. There is also a passionate fire of love burning in their relationship.
Lin Feng hugged Zhang Xinyue in front of the camera, and her movements were relaxed and loving. This intimate interaction between partners is passionate, possessive, and spoiled.
But when the two had a game duel, Zhang Xinyue's spirit immediately burst out. She easily defeated the helpless Lin Feng and became the winner and leader of the game.
This complete reversal of roles may reflect the pattern of the duo's daily lives, with Zhang Xinyue usually dominating, while Lin Feng maintains the warmth of the two with indulgence and submissiveness.
But it is difficult to say whether the passion of this first marriage can stand the test of time. This trip may also be a new challenge for them. We'll see what follows.
Finally, let's take a look at Zou Kai and Zhou Jie, the couple has been involved in an entangled relationship from the beginning. When packing her luggage before departure, Zhou Jie was busy urging Zou Kai to act many times, but Zou Kai still went his own way and played with his son leisurely.
After Zhou Jie packed her luggage, she specially helped Zou Kai pack some of it. However, hearing the sound of giggling in the living room, she still couldn't help the anger in her heart.
So she flipped all the bags she had just packed upside down to the ground in protest.
Zou Kai, who was disturbed, realized his wife's anger. He could only go into the room to clean up, and he was inevitably a little unhappy in his heart. This scene fully shows the differences and tug-of-war between the two.
Zhou Jie's resentment seems to have accumulated for a long time, and Zou Kai lacks timely understanding. There is a lack of communication between them, and the problem will only explode further during the journey.
By observing the setting of this program, we can clearly find the program team's good intentions. They used various means to deliberately create conflicts between husband and wife, in order to increase the discussion and popularity of the show.
First of all, they deliberately chose four couples of different marriage ages. The relationship between husband and wife varies according to seniority, which in itself can easily lead to comparisons and discussions. Secondly, the arduous travel route also increases the probability of run-in problems.
Steep mountain trails, exertion and inconvenience can lead to emotional out-of-control. What's more, the program team also designed topics that excavate the details of couples' daily lives to stimulate them to expose more negative emotions.
The program team is like a cruel director, directing the celebrity couples in the direction through a "trap". All the purpose of their premeditated plan is to create a topic and make the audience pay attention to these changes in the marital relationship, so as to increase the popularity of the show.
But the price is the hurt of the actors' real feelings.
By watching this show, we can deeply realize that even the sweetest couples will inevitably have disagreements or disputes in some details in their daily lives.
This is normal because everyone's Xi preferences are different. But the key is whether the couple has enough love and understanding to tolerate and tolerate each other's differences, and find a way to get along that is acceptable to both parties.
This requires the two to work together, and there can be no unilateral accusations. It takes more run-in and more communication between husband and wife to find a truly compatible lifestyle. You also need to learn to empathize and understand the other person's thoughts, rather than forcing the other person to be completely submissive to you.
Only in this way, the contradictions in life can be eliminated, and the marriage can become more and more stable over time.
Married life is like the ocean, there are calm and turbulent waves. But as long as both sides continue to work hard, they will definitely be able to steer the sailboat and finally reach the other side of happiness.
This requires mutual support and overcoming difficulties together, so as to go through the ups and downs of life and find your own longevity.
By watching this program that explores marriage, we can deeply understand that the superficial marriage relationship is just the tip of the iceberg, and the real problems are often hidden in the details of life.
The various contradictions and conflicts in the show are reminding us that marriage requires both parties to work together and accumulate understanding and trust every day.
We should not criticize other people's married life based on the one-sided impression of the show, because there is a broader world outside the surveillance camera. Instead, we can learn from the stories of these celebrity couples and reflect on how to build a deeper relationship with your significant other, resolve differences in your life, and find a way to get along that really suits us.
Love is like a rose, we need to care for it with our hearts, water it with love, and remove the thorns of life in order to bloom a bright smile. It takes the joint efforts and perseverance of two people to produce the most beautiful flowers.