Preamble:
In his 16-year marriage with his wife, he has been raising children for others for 15 years?
A marriage destined to end in tragedy, what really happened between them?
What kind of outlook on life and values do the woman's actions reflect, and how should we look at these secrets when they are exposed to the sun?
初识: Mediocre Boys and Girls
On an ordinary summer day in 2007, Shangrao, Jiangxi.
Under the scorching sun, the earth dries up and cracks, and the garbage on the roadside emits a sour smell.
The anxiety and absurdity hidden in the city make people want to escape and find their own habitat.
Chen Zhixian is an ordinary young man from the countryside, with a pair of rough and dry hands covered with traces of labor.
He is introverted and wooden, earns a living and labors, and is simple-hearted.
Chen Zhixian's biggest dream is to find a partner who can be entrusted with him for life, and live a lifetime of life under the sun with her - very hard but very down-to-earth, very bitter but very sweet.
This year, Chen Zhixian met Yu through a blind date.
Yu is a few years younger than him, and his appearance is mediocre, but he is docile and considerate.
She is not good at talking, but she is dedicated to taking care of her half-paralyzed old mother.
Yu's strong and introverted personality made Chen Zhixian appreciate it very much.
More importantly, Chen Zhixian saw his own shadow in her eyes - simple, kind, and hardworking.
After meeting several times, the two couldn't wait to decide to enter the palace of marriage.
Chen Zhixian was excited, feeling that he had found a soulmate with whom he could spend his life.
It all started naturally and naturally.
Soon after marriage, Chen Zhixian had to leave his hometown and work hard in a strange big city to make a living.
Yu plays the role of wife and mother, taking care of the elderly and children at home.
This should have been an ordinary family.
Marital life: the alienation and re-incarceration of long-distance life
Soon after getting married, Chen Zhixian embarked on the road to work in the south.
In order to earn a little more money, he chose a construction site in a remote town.
The heavy work, the hard environment, and the rude and incomprehensible accents of his companions all tested this young man who had just left his hometown.
But he never complained, just buried his head in hard work.
The money he earned bit by bit became his biggest motivation to leave his hometown.
And in his hometown, thousands of miles away, Yu also lived a difficult life.
She faced the baby waiting to nurse, her father-in-law who had been blind for many years, her half-dead old mother, and the old abandoned house.
During the day, she worked hard to take care of the old and the young in the house; At night, she tossed and turned, missing her husband, who had been displaced from home.
Living in a different distance has caused a rift in the relationship between the two, but the burden and responsibility of life force them to maintain this marriage.
In particular, when one child is born, the couple seems to be even more unable to afford the price of separation.
So they communicate like this, word by word, maintaining a superficial harmony under the constraints of life.
Fortunately, Chen Zhixian will take time to go home every two years.
Those brief moments together made the tired two hearts find solace again.
Yu will carefully prepare the hometown dishes that her husband likes, and Chen Zhixian will also bring back some souvenirs from the city.
They will bathe in the warm sun together, talk about those ordinary but warm little things, and feel the joy of reunion after a long absence.
The family sat around the dilapidated dining table, as if the home was once again complete.
Until one day, a phone call broke this hard-won warmth - Chen Zhixian called, his voice was strange and indifferent.
"I'll just get back in the car. ”
Overwhelming evidence of "cheating": The woman is right, and the hidden truth behind it is a mystery
Turning point: The wife and her lover were arrested on the street
One day in 2022, Chen Zhixian suddenly came home, but bumped into his wife walking out of a hotel with another man.
This scene was like a thunderbolt from the sky, which made Chen Zhixian stunned.
He didn't even have time to think about it, so he instinctively rushed forward.
"What the hell are you doing?!" He shook Yu's thin shoulders vigorously, and her eyes widened in horror.
The man wanted to slip away, but Chen Zhixian chased after him with an arrow and grabbed him by the collar.
"I have a business relationship with your wife, and I have a family...... "The man denied in a panic.
"Don't give me this set!" Chen Zhixian was furious.
The people around were pointing, some laughing, and more sideways.
Only then did Chen Zhixian realize that he was angry on the street, and immediately let go of his hand.
The man took the opportunity to flee and was embarrassed.
There was a dead silence.
Chen Zhixian stood still, full of despair.
What kept replaying in his mind was the scene of his wife and the man walking out of the hotel.
How many days and nights have he been displaced in a foreign land; And his wife actually spent a good night at home.
This comparison is simply cruel.
Angry with deep despair, Chen Zhixian stepped forward to question, but he didn't expect his wife to file for divorce directly.
Chen Zhixian's whole world was wiped out, and he felt cold, numb, and deeply hopeless.
This move is undoubtedly worse.
Chen Zhixian even began to doubt the biological father of his three children.
He took his daughters for a DNA test and then stood stiffly in the lab for four hours, waiting for the report of life and death.
Finally, the results are in.
He shuddered and opened the envelope and saw the cold lines.
The DNA report is full of brutal truth: none of the three children are his flesh and blood.
For 15 years, he has been raising children for others! This is tantamount to a stab in his heart, and blood is dripping.
At that moment, he really felt that his life was falling apart.
What's even more incredible is that after the incident spread, Yu and his mother not only had no remorse at all, but justifiably excused themselves.
They do not seem to feel at all that their actions hurt the feelings and dignity of others.
Their violent words whipped Chen Zhixian's heart fiercely.
"After being with him for so many years and giving birth to so many children, does blood relationship still matter?" is simply absurd.
"I've been with him for more than ten years, why can't he give birth?" The blaming tone made Chen Zhixian's depression reach its peak.
Faced with the reporter's questioning, they took it for granted, as if Chen Zhixian was the culprit of the family's problems.
These remarks undoubtedly completely destroyed Chen Zhixian's last trace of luck and self-esteem.
He could no longer find his place in the relationship.
Can a man continue to live? When he poured a big sip of stuffy wine, the bitter taste went straight to his heart.
He walked in the dim alley in a daze, unable to shed tears.
Blood-red neon lights smeared his decadent figure, and the city was cold and bustling, as if mocking his embarrassment.
Why, why did things turn out like this? He couldn't find the answer.
Rather than the complex inner world, we want to know: what is it that supports their mother and daughter to cheat and have children again and again, but they can still be so confident? What is this woman thinking?
Reveal: Why did she give birth and what was she expecting?
Afterwards, Chen Zhixian revealed that the second and third children were both strongly requested by Yu and were not in his plan.
Then the question arises: why would a married woman insist on having children with another man despite her husband's wishes? The answer can only be that she loves that man deeply and has illusions.
According to the speculation of netizens, Yu is likely to want to give birth to a son to his lover.
If she really achieves her wish, then she has hope to climb to the throne of the main house.
The possibility is chilling.
How far can a woman go for the sake of desire? She ignores the solemnity of marriage, disregards her husband's feelings, and even uses her own flesh and blood as a tool—this is already madness.
But what kind of life experiences and frustrations are hidden behind this? Why would a mother embark on such a road of no return?
Perhaps, it is her extremely blind obsession with love that drives her to go further and further down the wrong path, until she is doomed.
Perhaps, it is her invisibility of inferiority and vulnerability that needs a man's commitment to fill it.
And the price she paid was: three daughters who were not needed.
It's a pity that all three children are daughters.
This undoubtedly shattered her beautiful plans and made it difficult for her to hold on to her hopes.
Maybe this is retribution, the way of heaven is true, and the bitter fruit must be swallowed by oneself after all.
When she looked at the weak life in her swaddling clothes, did her heart bleed?
Punishment: Woman detained for setting off firecrackers in the middle of the night
What's even more unbelievable is that Yu set off firecrackers late at night to retaliate against her husband, and was administratively detained by the police.
This bad news hit Chen Zhixian like a hammer.
He sat blankly on the cold bench of the police station, the cigarette butt in his hand burning to his fingertips.
Dirty, pungent smoke rises, and the voices of police and lawyers come and go.
"This kind of thing can only be used as an administrative punishment.
It's hard to file a criminal complaint. ”
The language of the law was so stiff that it had nothing to do with the pain in his heart.
He knew that even if his wife was detained, her heart would have already flown away.
And that man, who will only be more stealthy, will not really pay any price for their actions.
They continue to live together, while Chen Zhi first has to face a broken life.
Seeing his wife being escorted into the police car, Chen Zhixian's heart was like ashes.
He stared at her departing back in a daze until he disappeared around the corner.
Only the cicadas chirped endlessly, the whole world was silent, and he lay alone on the ruins.
That day, he understood that the relationship between them would only be a piece of chicken feathers from now on.
Moreover, it is reported that there was another man who colluded with her at that time, which undoubtedly proves that the two had an improper relationship.
In the face of such absurd facts, we are more sorry.
Why did a woman who could have lived a simple and happy life go down such a wrong path, and what kind of life would she face?
New development: Someone else's child is not enough, and a fourth child is born
After quickly calming down, Chen Zhixian decided to sue his wife for divorce at the end of 2022 and demanded compensation for years of child support.
This is undoubtedly a counterattack for him to rise from despair and regain his dignity.
It was a sunny morning, and the golden light was shining through the window lattice.
Epilogue:
In the face of interests and selfish desires, few people can always keep the bottom line.
Therefore, when the rules fail and morality collapses, our entire society will face great risks.
We must keep this lesson in mind.
Perhaps in the near future, these seemingly solid "rules" will be self-defeating.
Where do we go from here? I believe everyone has the answer in their hearts.