What can be done, it is impossible to lose and possess it by oneself - Yiling's father.
The anti-cancer baby Yiling passed away, and her father sent Yiling up the mountain, saying: "Baby, Dad is gone, Dad doesn't dare to look back, Dad is too uncomfortable."
Perhaps, Dad can only hold the phone like this, reluctantly look at the camera, look at the place where you were left forever, just take a look at you behind you, Dad is afraid of turning back, so he doesn't want to go forward.
Many netizens can't accept such a reality, wasn't it okay a few days ago? Why did they suddenly disappear, their story made countless netizens teary-eyed.
Netizens turned into Yiling and told Yiling's father: Don't cry, be strong, you have done everything you can, Baby Yiling no longer needs injections and medicine, you have to take a good look at the world for her.
Netizen @一倒不刘said: Dad, don't cry, your tears will extinguish the candle that I will go to heaven to guide.
Netizen Jia said: Dad, you have worked hard in this life, and I will repay you in the next life.
Netizen Pudding said: From now on, she watches TV at home when you go to work, and she plays downstairs when you go home, she will always be there, but they will never see each other again.
Yes, as netizens said, the liver has also been cut, and the disease has also been seen, you are a qualified father, how many people can't do it, you have done it, may heaven have no disease.
The world says that if you can exchange a life for a life, then the rooftop of the hospital must be full of mothers.
But I forgot that the father who was always serious and tall, the father who was not good at expressing himself, they loved themselves far more than we imagined, and they would too.
Many netizens said that there is really a father who loves his baby so much.
Yi Ling's father became a single parent when she was two years old, and Yi Ling became a single parent child when she was one year old, in their world, she only has her father, and her father only has her.
Netizens said that as soon as Yiling baby left, he immediately closed the window, and it turned out that everything was to save his daughter.
Open the window, even if it's not for yourself, it's for Yiling, you just had surgery, you can't do heavy work, you have to live a healthy and good life.
After reading this father's experience, many people said: "I'm sorry, I only brushed you now, and I will definitely do my best to help you earlier." ”
An audio and video of Yiling's father began on October 14, 2022, in the car, a cute little girl was doing gesture dancing along with the music, and her father said with the text "Even if we are sick, we are very happy".
Xiao Yiling's parents met through friends, held a wedding on January 31, 2017, and had their own baby after marriage.
On June 30, 2018, Xiao Yiling was born, and at that time, her parents had a good relationship, and they would come together to breastfeed and burp, and her mother would also take pictures happily with Yiling.
But in March 2019, due to relationship problems, he embarked on the road of divorce, and since then, his father has lived alone with his children and slowly learned to be a superhuman father.
In June 2022, the kindergarten called and told Yiling's father that the child's stomach was very painful, so the father took his daughter to the county hospital for an examination.
Yiling's father could only go to Chongqing for examination, and finally arrived at Chongqing Medical University by bus and high-speed rail.
After a whole body examination, bone puncture, and then a liver biopsy, Yiling cried inside, and her father cried outside, it hurt too much that day, the child did not eat, slept for a day and a night, and woke up the next day, crying and shouting "It hurts".
The father is full of confidence to save his daughter, from cute to pitiful, from happy to difficult, from long hair to short hair, it feels like a dream, as long as he persists, he believes that he can go back to the past.
Maybe it's because the child is a single parent, so he is very sensible, and he goes back and forth in the hospital like this for a month.
On July 31, 2022, he was diagnosed with severe liver fibrosis, and after a consultation with experts, he said that he needed a liver transplant to live, and his 27-year-old father also turned white overnight.
Yiling's father was very guilty, a person began to bring up the child for a few months, blamed himself for not taking good care of the child, hated himself for not discovering the child's abnormality earlier, during the time of diagnosis, Yiling's weight and appearance changed rapidly.
However, they were lucky, Yiling's father and child were successfully matched and could be used as Yiling's qualified liver donor, and at that moment, Dad was very happy.
A few months later, when he was going to enter the warehouse for transplantation, Yiling's father bathed the child, brought a cute little hairpin, dressed up beautifully, and started the road of fighting cancer with hope.
On November 2, 2022, it took 17 days for Xiao Yiling to finally be transferred from severe to general ward, and the doctor said that the child was lucky and timely, and looked forward to a good prognosis.
And Yiling's father said: I still remember how scared I was when I had the operation, and I was afraid that I would be separated by yin and yang in the blur.
Slowly the child is getting better, he is no longer picky, his appetite is also up, and the naughty little eccentric finally returns to Dad, and Dad really feels that everything is worth it.
On November 23, 2022, Xiao Yiling was discharged from the hospital, returned to a warm and familiar home, began to chase and play with her father, and began to dance to the music.
On September 14, 2023, Yiling's father restarted his account and said that he was sorry for taking up traffic again, but when life began to calm down, accidents always came so quickly, but God didn't plan to let my girl go.
After a sudden high fever in June, the doctor suspected that there was a problem with the hematopoietic system, Yiling's father did not dare to delay, and quickly took the child to the big hospital in Chongqing.
In the hospital, Yi Ling re-endured the huge pain of bone piercing, underwent repeated examinations, and was finally diagnosed with lymphoma slow live hemophilia, and started the difficult road of chemotherapy.
They rented a small house of 6 square meters near the hospital, which became their home in Chongqing, although it was simple, but it was enough for the family to be together, the little Yiling was still very brave and sensible, and Yiling successfully passed the first phase of chemotherapy.
It's just that Yi Ling can't hold on anymore, this time, she doesn't have to have injections anymore and she won't be in pain.
At 12:03 on December 26, 2023, Xiao Yiling left.
She left very suddenly, and everyone seemed to be still staying at Xiao Yiling, who had recovered her health after a liver transplant, but she didn't expect that when she brushed it again, she had lost this cute little girl forever.
Everyone lamented the impermanence of life, just like Yiling's father said, "What can I do, I can't lose or have it."
A netizen said, "Baby Yiling remember to go to this big brother, you call him Brother Jie, he is my sister's boyfriend, he died during a police trip, he loves children very much, he will definitely love you, he is gentle and kind." ”
"If you meet him, tell him that his sister really misses him, and let him come to see me in his sister's dreams more often. ”
From netizens
I think if there is a sound in Miss, heaven must be noisy.
But we really miss them......
The lovely Yiling must have been a little angel, and later, the low mound of dirt grew small grass, and as soon as you passed, it shook gently.
From netizen @Dalang