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Yishu once said: There is no need to resent an unworthy person, when you resent him, you are also punishing yourself.
In the face of hatred, stupid people will be indignant, and smart people will maintain a calm state of mind.
The so-called revenge does not necessarily mean that the finger is pointed at each other, it will only hurt both sides.
The best way is to completely open up the gap with him, become someone he will never reach, and make him afraid of the bullying that he once bullied you.
Specifically, it is really wise to do these things secretly.
01: Stay calm and choose to ignore
Rabindranath Tagore once said: "Life is an endless struggle in the face of difficulties, a battle in which the outnumbered are outnumbered." ”
Where there are people, there will be endless fights, and we cannot avoid disputes, but we can choose how to deal with ourselves.
Many times, it doesn't matter what others hurt us, such as his occasional taunt or a roll of his eyes.
If you don't care, it will pass by like a gust of wind, and if you take it to heart, its power will be magnified countless times until it destroys you.
For inconsequential evaluations and behaviors, you don't have to pay attention to them at all, your indifference just makes him lose his offensive power.
Those who have to find you unhappy, seeing you so calm, think that you are not interesting, and at this time you have completed the counterattack.
It is impossible to have smooth sailing on the road of life, and there will always be countless difficulties and many bad people.
Their harm to you depends on how you deal with it, first live yourself, and then look down on everything, you will find that there is nothing in the world, only mediocrity disturbs itself.
02: Improve yourself and face it bravely
Some people's injuries are light, we don't have to take them to heart, but there are also some injuries that are imprinted in our hearts and can never be forgotten for a lifetime, so we must learn to protect ourselves.
In the TV series "Dark Glory", the heroine Moon Dong-eun was bullied when she was young, and her original flower-like life was destroyed in this way, and she can only live in the dark from then on, trembling every day.
In order to take revenge on the person who once bullied him, Moon Dong-eun worked hard to learn Xi, found a stable job, and saved up a sum of money and had a powerful helper.
She worked hard for half her life, and finally let the wicked be punished.
Unfortunately, this is just a TV series, and in real life, it is even more difficult to complete revenge.
Many of the people who cast ill will towards you are more powerful than you in terms of status, status, money, and ability, and we are so small that we have no power to resist it.
But in any case, relying only on the strength of the time to touch the egg with the stone will not help, and it will make yourself bruised all over your body, the best way is to silently accumulate strength like Moon Dong-eun and wait for the future to bloom.
Believe in karma, and one day you will stand on a higher ground and take revenge on all those who have bullied you, and then we will truly be worthy of ourselves.
03: Live hard and live yourself
Anyone who has caused you harm does not want you to be better off than he is. Sometimes we are hysterical and ruthless in revenge, just to make the other party happy, he just wants to see you rotten in the mud like himself, and you can't turn over from now on.
If you don't care about the other party's harm, try to grow, and live a proud and brilliant life, it reflects the other party's cowardice and incompetence.
One day, when the two sides are not on the same level and the quality of life is thousands of miles apart, he will no longer be your opponent and you will forget about it completely.
The opponent can no longer be on their toes no matter what, and that's the best counterattack you can give them.
Mo Yan once said: People live for a lifetime, and they shouldn't live for people who don't like themselves.
In just one life, we have to live for a happier version of ourselves, for those who love us, and those who have hurt you and bullied you should be left behind.
I believe that when you are stronger and better, everyone's damage will be broken, and you will eventually live a better life.
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