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After 16 years of marriage, I found that my husband has low emotional intelligence, does not know how to be grateful, and loves to reason with his wife

author:Such as smoke language

This morning, Lao released my car and took me to work because he was going to drive to school in the evening to pick up his daughter home.

It was the morning rush hour on the road, and I told him to drive slower, but he didn't listen and kept honking his horn.

When we arrived at the three-way intersection near our factory, I saw the factory aunt riding a motorcycle in front of us.

I told my husband to slow down, but he honked his horn twice more to overtake from behind.

I told him that it was my colleague, my aunt who often gave us vegetables to eat.

My husband said disdainfully, you told her, don't give mustard greens next time, I'm tired of eating it, and I don't like it.

After 16 years of marriage, I found that my husband has low emotional intelligence, does not know how to be grateful, and loves to reason with his wife

I was very angry when I heard it, the vegetables given by my aunt were all grown by myself, no pesticides, natural and delicious, and I couldn't buy them with money outside.

I said that my aunt gave not only mustard greens, but also cabbage, white radish, cabbage, lettuce, shallots, green garlic, pickles, etc., and not long ago she also gave 2 grapefruits that she grew herself.

Every time my aunt gave me something, I was embarrassed to ask for it, for fear that I would owe someone a favor and I would not be able to repay it.

The aunt said, let me take it with peace of mind, she said that the vegetables she grows are good, and the children can eat them with peace of mind.

Recently, it happened to be the season when mustard was ripe, and my aunt planted a lot of mustard greens, and she picked a handful for me at two ends in three days.

After 16 years of marriage, I found that my husband has low emotional intelligence, does not know how to be grateful, and loves to reason with his wife

My husband has long had an opinion because he eats mustard greens every day, but I didn't have to let him eat them, and every time I stir-fried vegetables, I would make him some other dishes, but he was not happy when he saw mustard greens on the table.

This time, they quarreled with me in the car, saying that I should tell my aunt to send some other dishes in the future.

I was very uncomfortable when I heard it, I don't know why he didn't have a little gratitude, my aunt was kind, but it didn't end up with him.

I told my husband, your family is in the countryside, what do you want to eat for your dad to plant, I have never eaten the vegetables grown at your house, anyway, your dad is idle and has nothing to do.

When my husband heard me say this, he was not happy anymore.

The car just drove to the door of the company, and I didn't want to quarrel with him, so I opened the car door and got down.

To be honest, I have been married for 16 years, and I have lived with my husband for so long, I really didn't expect him to be such an ungrateful person, and his words are so ugly.

I thought about it again last night, when he saw me cooking, he put my phone on the kitchen counter, and said that I was always disobedient, why did he put my phone there every time.

I had been working for a day and had just come home, and I wanted to make him a soup in the evening, but when I heard him open his mouth and find fault again, I was in a bad mood, and I didn't want to make soup.

I silently put the lean meat, white radish, and eggs that I had just taken out of the refrigerator back into the refrigerator in the same way.

After 16 years of marriage, I found that my husband has low emotional intelligence, does not know how to be grateful, and loves to reason with his wife

Last night, before going to bed, he saw that I was still unhappy, so he said "I'm sorry" to me.

I said, after so many years, you know that I love to be angry, you still have to reason with your wife, even if you win, what if you win, you are happy, your wife is unhappy, is it really interesting?

I said, I like to take my phone to the kitchen, I have to look at it, can't I? It's like you take your phone to the toilet every day and stay for at least half an hour and 20 minutes, and I don't like it, but did I say anything about you?

Over the years with him, my personality has changed a lot, from a gentle and quiet girl to a female man who will quarrel with him.

To be honest, I hate this myself. I don't need to be coaxed, but I don't want to be angry every day.

Who would have thought that after going around for so many years, I have become what I once hated, I have to say, life is really full of unknowns and variables!#Article Launch Challenge#

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