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My name is Li Mei, I am 38 years old and I am a junior high school Chinese teacher. To be honest, my marriage can be described as "bumpy".
"Wang Qiang, can you go out to drink less and go home early to accompany me and the baby?" One day, I couldn't help but say.
"It's not easy to make money to support your family, and social socialization is a must. You can take care of your children at home. Wang Qiang said impatiently.
In this way, we are getting farther and farther apart. It wasn't until 5 years ago that Wang Qiang had an affair with a young and beautiful woman, which completely shattered my last illusion about this marriage.
"I'm really tired. Divorce, I will raise the children. I said decisively.
So, Wang Qiang and I divorced. I am raising our daughter Xiaohua alone. Fortunately, with the help of my parents, I didn't have to have too hard a time.
Two years ago, I met my current husband, Zhao Ming. He is an architect, talented and unobtrusive. We got to know each other slowly and finally came together. Zhao Ming was very kind to me and Xiaohua, and I felt that I had finally found something to rely on.
Not long after we got engaged, Wang Qiang suddenly called and said that he wanted to meet Xiaohua. I didn't want him to meddle in our lives, but thinking that Xiaohua also needed a father, I agreed to let him come and see her.
On the weekend, Wang Qiang came to my house on time. Seeing him appear at the door, I still had some difficulty getting used to it. "Meimei, you look good. Wang Qiang said with a smile.
"Wang Qiang, come on, Xiaohua is in the room. "I'll be brief.
"Daddy!" Xiaohua saw Wang Qiang and happily threw herself into his arms. I stood aside, my mind mixed.
At this time, Zhao Ming also returned. "Who is this?" He looked at Wang Qiang suspiciously.
"Zhao Ming, this is Xiaohua's biological father, my ex-husband Wang Qiang. I was a little embarrassed to make an introduction, "Wang Qiang, this is my current boyfriend Zhao Ming." ”
"Hello, I'm Xiaohua's father, thank you for taking care of her all these years. Wang Qiang took the initiative to stretch out his hand.
Zhao Ming hesitated, but still shook hands with him: "Hello, I will continue to take care of Xiaohua." ”
"Let's have a meal together, and we can get together. Zhao Ming proposed. I could tell he was trying to defuse the embarrassment.
So we went out for a meal together. Wang Qiang was still so talkative, and chatted with Zhao Ming about the topic of architectural design. I just ate silently, glancing at the excited little flower from time to time.
After eating, it was getting late. Wang Qiang said: "It's not early, I want to stay with Xiaohua, is it okay?"
Zhao Ming and I looked at each other. It feels strange to let your ex-husband stay overnight, but it's not good to refuse outright.
"If Mei Mei agrees, I have no opinion. Zhao Ming said.
So, it was decided to let Wang Qiang stay. I cleaned up a room for him. "Just let me know if you need anything. I said.
"Thank you, Meimei. I miss Xiaohua a lot. Wang Qiang said.
I nodded, turned and went upstairs. This night, I tossed and turned, unable to sleep for a long time.
"I want to talk to you alone," Zhao Ming said to Wang Qiang.
Wang Qiang nodded, and the two came to the balcony. I looked at them nervously, for fear they would get into an argument.
"Wang Qiang, I know you still love Meimei. But now she has a new life. Zhao Ming said straight to the point.
Wang Qiang sighed: "I don't deny it, I haven't been able to really let go of Meimei." Just the sudden loss of her and Xiaohua, I felt very self-reproachful and sad. ”
"I understand your difficulties. But you also have to understand that Meimei has started anew, and she has the right to live her own life. Zhao Ming said in a calm tone.
Wang Qiang was silent, and only after a while did he say, "You are right, it was my failure to fulfill my responsibilities as husband and father that caused us to separate. I should let go and stop disturbing Meimei's life. It's only the occasional glimpse of a small flower, and I'm satisfied. ”
Zhao Ming nodded: "I will let Xiaohua contact you often." You also have to relax, we can be friends in the future. ”
"Thank you, Zhao Ming. I can see that you really love Meimei. Last night also made me realize that I shouldn't bother you anymore. Wang Qiang finally showed a relieved expression.
"Let's talk about how we spend Christmas?" Zhao Ming proposed.
"Come on, I'll just go back to my hometown. In the future, I will not participate in your important day. Wang Qiang said.
"Then let's make an appointment in a few days, and you can take Xiaohua out to play. Zhao Ming said.
Wang Qiang nodded. I saw them shake hands and finally breathe a sigh of relief.
After Wang Qiang left, Zhao Ming came to me.
"What were you talking about?" I asked casually.
"Nothing, just a friendly conversation between two men. Zhao Ming smiled and hugged me.
I leaned into his arms and was moved to tears. "Thank you for always understanding me like that. ”
"Fool, you are my home. Zhao Ming said softly.
On Christmas Day, our family of three celebrated warmly. I looked at the smiling little flower and felt like the happiest woman in the world.
I know that with Zhao Ming, my life will get better and better. I will also try to make amends to him and be his best wife.
After that, I began to be kind to Zhao Ming wholeheartedly. I learned to cook his favorite dishes and often prepared surprises for him. Zhao Ming also loves me very much, and will go out with me and Xiaohua whenever he has time.
One day, Zhao Ming suddenly said, "My dear, let's get married." I want to officially start a new life with you. ”
I was so excited that I burst into tears: "Okay, I want to marry you too!"
And just like that, we got engaged. At the engagement ceremony, I invited Wang Qiang to attend.
"Congratulations on finding new happiness. "Wang Qiang hugged me.
"Thank you. You're bound to meet the right people, too. I said with a smile.
"Wang Qiang, you are welcome to come to our house often. Zhao Ming also said enthusiastically.
"Okay, I will. You must be happy. Wang Qiang blessed.
On the day of the wedding, I put on a beautiful wedding dress and exchanged rings with Zhao Ming. "I do. We whispered the vow.
At the banquet, Zhao Ming got up and said, "I have to thank one person, that is Meimei's ex-husband Wang Qiang." It was you who made Meimei stronger, and also made me know how to cherish her more. Without you, we wouldn't be where we are now. I hope you too can find true love, and it's an honor to be friends. ”
The guests present applauded Zhao Ming's words. I saw Wang Qiang with red eyes and a glass to Zhao Ming.
After getting married, Zhao Ming took me and Xiaohua to live in his house. His parents were very fond of me and often praised me for my virtue and ability.
"Zhao Ming found a good wife like you, it is his blessing. My father-in-law said to me with a smile.
"Dad, I'm embarrassed when you say you. I said shyly.
"From now on you will be the daughter of our family. If there is anything you need, just mention. "My mother-in-law also loves me very much.
I felt like I had become a princess, surrounded by a warm family. I manage this family more diligently, hoping to give Zhao Ming happiness.
When our family of four was on a trip, we passed by a church. "Let's go and pray. Zhao Ming proposed.
I took Xiaohua's hand and walked into the church side by side with Zhao Ming. We knelt reverently in front of the idol and prayed for our family.
"Heaven bless this happy home. "I prayed in my heart.
As I walked out of the church, I exhaled deeply. It feels like God is really blessing us.
But shortly after that, I found out I was pregnant. The results of the examination were normal, and I was excited to surprise Zhao Ming.
Zhao Ming went home that day and saw me mysteriously. "Baby, you're in a good mood today. He laughs.
I showed him the pregnancy test: "I'm pregnant, we're going to be a dad!"
"Really? Great!" Zhao Ming happily picked me up and spun around, and then gently stroked my belly, "Our baby, Dad can't wait to see you." ”
During this period, Wang Qiang often came to visit Xiaohua and was also concerned about my situation. "Meimei, if you need anything, I will fully support you. He said.
I smiled and nodded, "Thank you, you have to take care of yourself too." ”
However, the good times were short-lived. In the 7th month of pregnancy, I suddenly fell into a coma with abdominal pain and was rushed to the hospital.
"Your fetus is not very stable and may need an early C-section. The doctor said solemnly.
I clasped Zhao Ming's hand and burst into tears. He hugged me distressedly: "It's okay, we can definitely get through it." ”
Outside the operating room, Wang Qiang also came. "Meimei, come on! We're all waiting for you. He said excitedly.
After 5 hours of surgery, our son was born safely. I hugged him wearily, not knowing whether to laugh or cry. "Our baby is coming. Zhao Ming was also so excited that he couldn't speak.
"Thank goodness!" Wang Qiang clasped his hands.
After I was discharged from the hospital and went home, I began to slowly regain my strength. Once, when Wang Qiang came to visit, I was breastfeeding my baby.
"Meimei, let me also participate in the baby's life. Wang Qiang suddenly said, "I want to make up for the debt I owe to you and Xiaohua." ”
I was a little embarrassed, but I still said, "Wang Qiang, I understand your thoughts. But Zhao Ming and I are now family, and you shouldn't interfere. ”
"You're right, I'm sorry. Wang Qiang's eyes were red, "I'm too selfish." ”
"You have always had a place in our hearts. I'll get you involved if you need it in the future. I comforted him.
Wang Qiang nodded and didn't say anything more.
After a while, the baby turned 100 days old. We decided to have a little celebration.
"I would also like to participate in the Baby's 100 Days. Wang Qiang said.
I looked at Zhao Ming, he thought for a while, and said, "It's okay, let Wang Qiang come." Today is a festive day. ”
On the same day, Wang Qiang appeared on time with gifts. He looked like he was in a good mood.
"Congratulations, baby is so cute!" Wang Qiang said with a smile.
"Thank you for coming. I said.
The baby's 100 days were a success. Wang Qiang also integrated very well and chatted happily with our relatives and friends.
At the end he said, "I want to keep in touch with you guys and don't want to miss any more important moments." ”
"Okay, we'll keep in touch as a family. Zhao Ming patted him on the shoulder and said.
After Wang Qiang left, I said to Zhao Ming: "Actually, I am quite grateful to Wang Qiang. If it weren't for him, we wouldn't be where we are now. ”
"You're right. Zhao Ming nodded, "We all need to be understanding and tolerant. ”
As the days passed, the children grew up. One day, Wang Qiang called and said that he was getting married.
"Really? Congratulations!" I said happily.
"Thank you, I've finally found true love. You and Zhao Ming must come to the wedding. Wang Qiang said happily.
"Definitely. I wish you a happy new marriage!" I say it from the bottom of my heart.
At Wang Qiang's wedding, I saw happiness on his face. The bride is also very beautiful and generous.
"I wish you all a long life!" Zhao Ming blessed.
"Thank you for coming, I will always remember your kindness. Wang Qiang said gratefully.
I know that we have all finally found our own happiness. At this moment, my heart was more grounded and satisfied than ever.