Nowadays, there are many people in their 50s who remarry, and these men and women who choose to remarry in their fifties and sixties are they for their physical needs, or for each other to rely on?
I feel that men and women have different purposes on this issue.
First, most men are for physical needs
When men reach the age of fifty or sixty, although their bodies are going downhill, they still have physical needs.
Men of this age, if their spouses have passed away, or they are single for various reasons, they will want to find someone to remarry in order to meet their physical needs, so that they can live a normal married life.
When a man remarries, he likes to find a woman younger than himself, probably thinking that a woman younger than himself can satisfy himself better in some ways!
My eldest cousin is 56 years old this year, and just a year after his cousin-in-law died, he found a divorced woman who was eight years younger than him and remarried.
After the two got married, they showed their affection in pairs every day, and the cousin talked about the happiness on the face of the new cousin.
At a gathering of relatives, two cousins joked with him, saying that his cousin was a dead wood and it was spring again, and chased after his cousin to ask how the new sister-in-law felt.
My cousin smiled and said, "I'm tired and happy every day!" and made us laugh.
Second, 50-year-old women choose to remarry, mostly to rely on each other
When women reach their 50s, most of them are menopausal, and the body's estrogen decreases, and there is almost no need for physiology.
When women reach the age of fifty or sixty, their requirements for physical needs are very low, so why do they choose to remarry?
In fact, women choose to remarry at the age of 50, not simply for physical needs, but mainly for emotional sustenance and personal companionship in life.
What is the reason why a woman in her 50s remarries and likes to find a man who is a few years older than herself?
There are two reasons: one is that a man who feels older than himself will take care of himself like a brother, and the other is that a man who is older than himself is not very strong in some aspects, and the two will have more spiritual exchanges.
When my classmate Li Tao was 50 years old, she married a 65-year-old man, and her original intention of marrying this man was to get rid of loneliness and have someone to accompany her.
Li Tao divorced when she was 40 years old, and she was divorced for 10 years by herself with her son.
The son has his own small family, and Li Tao suddenly felt that his life alone was too lonely, so he was introduced and married to a 65-year-old grandson.
Li Tao and I are best friends, and I also quietly asked her, do you and Lao Sun still have that kind of needs?
Li Tao said: To be honest, I don't have any desire at all now, I just want to accompany each other and rely on each other with my grandson. Lao Sun wanted to be intimate for ten days and half a month, and in order to satisfy him, I had to cooperate.
Of course, I'm talking about the purpose and condition of most men and women in their 50s who remarry, and I don't rule out that some men do it for emotional sustenance, and some women do it for physical needs. But there should be very few such cases, right?
Life is just a few decades, and the elderly also have the right to pursue happiness, whether it is for physical needs or emotional needs, as long as they feel happy, society should be tolerant, and children should be supported. #Article Launch Challenge#