The warm, handsome, and sunny Ma Long can be regarded as the idol of thousands of girls, and the fans of the mother's generation are even incarnated as mothers-in-law, thinking that he is the standard "national son-in-law", and some people even say that Xia Lu was Ma Long's life-saving benefactor in his last life? Otherwise, how can I marry him in this life! A talented and beautiful woman, an enviable couple! But the Ma Long we know is a "full slam" Ma Long, and everyone will think that marrying him is infinitely beautiful, but if you throw away the blessing of the champion halo, he is just a "workaholic" obsessed with his career Ma Long, you may not be happy if you marry him!
Reason 1: Malone is a typical "big man" with a gentle appearance and a strong heart!
In Qin Zhijian's words: "Why do you think Ma Long is well-behaved, is it from the physiognomy?" Ma Long is a man who is gentle on the surface but strong on the inside, to be precise, he is a typical machismo in his bones!
The Dragons left home and joined the team early, and their character was shaped by the national table tennis team, the perfect champion mold: calm and resolute, comprehensive and meticulous, and extremely win-seeking,-- above is limited to professionalism. Outside of his profession, from the mate selection criteria he himself mentioned, it can also be seen that he doesn't care about a soul mate, and he doesn't have any need for deep communication, as long as a beautiful and sweet female companion, doesn't Miss Xia fully meet it?
He is a very enterprising man, has a great love for table tennis, and attaches great importance to his reputation; he is not very confident in his character, he will think a lot, all kinds of torture in his heart, especially when he wants to achieve the goal has not been reached, it will be very painful, he is a perfectionist who has high requirements for himself, and will continue to work hard to pursue his career, fortunately, he succeeded in the end, I think he is very difficult; he is also a low-key and humble person, low-key people usually pay attention to privacy, as far as his love marriage is concerned, he should not consider people in the sports circle, he does not like to be concerned about his private lifeInsiders will affect his focus in his career, and he is the kind of person who needs to put his whole heart on the ball and not be distracted by other things, so he chose an outsider.
Reason 2: Malone is a typical career maniac, and marriage is not a necessity for him
Liu Guoliang once said that after a Kong Linghui and a Ma Long went on the court, even if they didn't remember what their father's name was, they remembered how to play the ball! Ma Long has a sensitive personality, and embarking on the road of competitive sports amplifies his character, so if he wants to win, he must also win, otherwise it will be difficult for him to forgive himself, he has pushed himself to the limit in his career, he does not have too much energy and time to pay attention to his family, he himself said that during the competition, he does not video with his family, so marrying Ma Long has to endure the loneliness that ordinary people can't bear, and accept this "widowed" marriage from the heart! In Ma Long's concept, career first, career in the sky, his love for table tennis is far greater than his family! For Ma Long, he is cultivated by the national table tennis according to the standard champion template, his life follows the normal law of development, fall in love at the age of falling in love, get married at the age of marriage, he doesn't need to be so earth-shattering love, just a virtuous wife, a stable family!
In his bones, he is a typical machismo, and his other half needs to support the big rear, and he can't be distracted, so that he can devote himself wholeheartedly to training and competitions! After all, every year, except for closed training and competitions, he will not spend more than 20 days at home! So, choose Ma Long, you must be able to endure loneliness and suffering while enjoying the glory of the championship! Although you are married to a world champion and national idol, you can't enjoy the most ordinary marriage, and he may not be able to accompany you when you have the most uncomfortable morning sickness and the most painful birth!
Reason 3: Malone can't give the girl the love and romance of her dreams
It doesn't matter whether Malone is a romantic person or not, the important thing is that Malone cherishes his feathers very much, and he will not let any of his private life be exposed by the media, so in the years when he was in love with Ma Long, their relationship cannot be made public! Ma Long needs a wife who is a woman's all-round dedication to the family, giving up her career, and wholeheartedly focusing on the family; he needs his wife to be absolutely low-key, not to hype up in his name, and not to show off a little private life and affection!
Now table tennis is becoming more and more "rice circle", and the gentle, elegant and handsome Ma Long has many, many young girl fans! In the face of the bold show of love from fans and the slander of black fans, his other half must always maintain emotional stability, but whenever you have a trace of remarks in cyberspace, it will be infinitely amplified, or even taken out of context! Some people even do not delve into the truth for the sake of traffic, but will only infinitely enlarge the vague points to win attention! After getting married, Xia Lu turned off all social media and washed her hands and made soup with peace of mind, after all, if you want to be a woman in Malone, you must first learn to forbearance and be a transparent person!
Therefore, marrying Ma Long can only be a dream, and it is really not as easy as marrying an ordinary person to get plain happiness! If you like an athlete, you should pay more attention to their performance on the field, don't snoop on their privacy, leave room for them, and we also enjoy our ordinary life with our hearts! After all, plain is pure joy!