I remember it was a sunny day when I went with my family to a suburban stadium for a special sporting experience – a family run race.
Before the race, the whole family was fully prepared, and my father, brother, and second uncle and I stood on the starting line with red race clothes.
Throughout the race, my dad was in the lead, while my brother and I were close behind, staying in second and third place.
The shouts on the field kept coming and going, and I suddenly realized that I had surpassed my brother and was getting closer and closer to my father.
On the field, I was able to express my joy at the victory, and my dad gave me a high-five celebration.
When I got home, I saw my second aunt after dinner, and she smiled and said, "Yo, this is your good day! Why don't I find a partner for you?"
Under the mediation of the second aunt, I met a tall man with a ruddy complexion, who was introduced to me by the second aunt on a blind date.
He seemed quite kind and could talk.
However, after meeting him a few times, I deeply felt that he was narrow-minded and had a stubborn attitude towards many things.
Just when I was hesitating, I suddenly received a call from my parents, who told me that a distant relative was coming to my city for work and was planning to rent a house with me for a few months.
Just when I was about to make it clear to my blind date, he actually proposed to break up, saying that he felt that there was no future between us.
In the eyes of my family, I am a gentle and considerate girl, but they don't know that once, when I was alone with my second aunt's blind date, he actually tried to hold my hand, I desperately broke free, and the whole person was in a state of panic.
I felt so aggrieved and angry that I didn't know how to tell my parents about it.
While I was hesitating, something happened that I didn't expect. That is, my second aunt suddenly became seriously ill and needed an expensive operation.
Faced with the second aunt's condition, the whole family seemed anxious and overwhelmed. Mom and Dad felt guilty for the suddenness of their illness.
Under the discussion of everyone, everyone adopted various methods in order to raise money. I also voluntarily gave up some of my own expenses to save as much as possible.
However, it was during this time that I suddenly received a strange phone call, who claimed to be my second aunt's doctor.
The doctor revealed that as long as he could come up with a certain amount of surgery costs, it would be possible for the second aunt's surgery to go smoothly.
During this time, I worked outside the home, working hard day after day. Time passed quickly, however, the money earned did not reach the amount required for the operation.
I think that's maybe a hope. So, I quickly contacted the hospital, and after learning that after passing the relevant procedures, the hospital really agreed to perform the operation first.
After a period of adjustment, the second aunt's condition gradually improved. And the entanglement between me and my blind date gradually faded.
During this period of time, I found that most of my second aunt's relatives were kind and simple people, and they were very friendly to me, which could not be compared with the blind date.
The plight and joint efforts of my family have made me more aware of the importance of family and the preciousness of family affection.
In the days when my second aunt recovered, I no longer thought about all the troubles of the past, but spent more time with my family.
At the same time, the inner contradictions slowly melted over time, and I began to face the difficulties and challenges of life more positively.
I deeply understand that family affection trumps everything, and the unity and support of family members is irreplaceable.
When I confessed to my parents, they all had angry expressions. Dad shook his head angrily, while Mom sighed.
However, after hearing about my blind date with my second aunt, they were also very embarrassed, after all, it was about the face and reputation of the family, and for a girl, such an impact was unimaginable.
Dad gritted his teeth and said, "It's a blind date again so soon, are you afraid that we're going to find you someone you don't like?" His voice was full of anger, and I knew that I had let them down again.
I had no choice but to grit my teeth and endure it all.
The atmosphere at home became tense, and everyone had a heavy expression on their faces, as if something trivial could cause a crisis in the family.
I knew that I had to make amends for my mistakes and fight for their understanding and forgiveness among my family. However, I am well aware that everything will not be so easy.
At the very least, I want to show my family that I am a responsible and reflective person. Next, I had to find a way to face this inner struggle, so that all the contradictions and disputes could be truly resolved.
After all, no matter what happens, my family will always be the most important supporter in my life, and I don't want to lose their trust because of the spur of the moment.
As time passes, I believe that I will find a solution to the problem, which will bring me to my family and bring harmony and happiness to my family.
For a long time, I didn't have the courage to face my parents, and I was tormented by the contradictions in my heart. I knew they would blame me for not telling them the true identity of my blind date earlier, and I really didn't know how to explain it to them.
I know that the appearance of the family does not mean everything, and the deep pain in my heart is only known to me.
After a few days, distant relatives did come, and during this time, I temporarily got rid of the harassment of my blind date, but I didn't really let go.
As night fell, I sat alone in the small garden of my home, quietly thinking about everything. At this time, the second aunt came over and asked gently, "Child, what have you been thinking about lately, why do you seem so annoyed?" I wiped my tears and told her the true face of the blind date.
The next day, the parents also learned what had happened. They were angry and heartbroken, and I had never seen them so emotional.
My mother also took my hand and said affectionately, "No matter what happens, you have to remember that we are always on your side."
After the blind date, the atmosphere in the house became a little heavy, and although everything seemed to be back to normal on the surface, I could feel the care and concern of my family.
However, I knew that the experience had become an unforgettable experience for me.
Time flies, and life gradually returns to peace. The love of my parents and family gave me the motivation to move forward, and I began to try to accept and trust others again.
This experience may become an asset on my way to growing up.
To this day, the victories and failures of that sunny day have made me appreciate the complexity and impermanence of life.
I don't know what the future holds, but I'm willing to face it bravely, no matter how many contradictions and challenges lie ahead.