To be honest, I envy the friends around me who have the help of their parents, either to buy a house to help with the down payment, or to help buy a car in full, and there is not much pressure after getting married and having a baby, and the parents will also subsidize the family.
My best friend, Lingling, grew up under the protection of her parents since she was a child, and she has been gnawing at old age since she graduated from school.
After graduating from university, Lingling never went to work for a day, because her father was afraid that she would not be able to adapt to society, and that she would work too hard and too tired, so he let her do what she liked at home, reading calligraphy and painting, playing the guzheng, and learning flower arrangement.
Today, Lingling is 40 years old, her father pays her a salary, walks around her father's factory every morning, and can do what she likes in the afternoon.
Lingling's father's career is developing well, her husband is an employee of her father's company, her father introduced her, and her daughter has been responsible for various expenses from birth to school.
It can be said that Lingling is the happiest girl I know, and in her, I understand that girls are taken care of by their parents and can really enjoy life without worries.
Look at yourself again, there is no one to rely on, and now people are still in middle age, with mortgages and car loans, and their lives are exhausted.
Seeing the comment area, many parents and friends left messages saying that now children are generally under pressure, and it is not easy to work, and they have worked hard for most of their lives.
1 netizen said: The two of us have bought a lot of insurance for the girl, she can receive it until she is 70 years old, we are a teacher, a stable job, there is a high probability of a retirement salary, welcome the girl to gnaw.
2 netizens said: I belong to the passive gnawing of the old, originally after having a child, I can also be self-sufficient, my parents have to give me 8000 a month, let me raise a baby, I don't want it, the old lady is not happy.
3 netizens said: My wife said that I am still very confident in gnawing at the old, my grandparents are more than 10,000 a month, and my parents have almost 250,000 a year, I haven't worked in the past few years, and my wife has been working since last year, 4500 a month.
Next year, my mother will give me 4,000 a month to take care of the children, and in a few years, my grandparents will give me a few thousand more to take care of them. Even if you don't go to work, you can have 7000 a month.
4 netizens said: My family belongs to a small gnaw, my parents gave a down payment on the house, I also paid a loan, I usually help, the child is 7 years old, there are no friends around to gnaw, many of them are still single.
5 netizens said: My parents' pension is more than 3 times my salary, and I am not motivated if I don't gnaw.
6 netizens said: I am a girl, 35 years old, my parents are still willing to give me money to spend, my daughter is not good at learning Xi, I told her not to have pressure, just gnaw the old in the future.
7 netizens said: My girl will struggle if she wants to struggle in the future, if she doesn't struggle, her family's house will be rented, and the land in the countryside will be rented, and she can lie flat. It's good for girls to find an easy job or open their own shop.
8 netizens said: My mother gave me 2000, my father gave me 2000, my milk gave me 2000, I myself 3500, my daughter-in-law 3000, there are about 12000 a month,
In my mother's words, I have suffered in the first place in my life, just to let you enjoy the last, and if you have to continue to endure hardship, then what is the meaning of my life.
9 netizens said: When I resigned from the system, my father enlightened me, don't be too anxious if you can't find a job, you just don't do anything, our family can support you for 10 years.
10 netizens said: My dad gnawed my father, I gnawed my dad, I can have a house and a car to settle down in the city, I can't imagine what I am doing now without the support of my father.
11 netizens said: My dad thinks that as a child, he should gnaw at the old, even if he is just a farmer.
12 netizens said: There is no one around me who does not gnaw the old, my parents buy a house and a car, and they have to pay for the baby. My parents gave me a down payment, I paid the mortgage, my parents don't have a baby, help 4,000 yuan a month, I want to say that it's good to have an old man, I don't feel any pressure! My concept is that if I have money, I will let my baby daughter gnaw.
Seeing the gnawing experience of so many netizens, I have to say that Xiaoyan is really envious.
I heard many parents say that they have worked hard for more than 30 years, and in the future, they will kick their legs, and everything will be left to their children?
Although most people, like Xiaoyan, do not have strong and wealthy parents to gnaw on the old.
But in any case, young people must be self-reliant, everything has to rely on themselves, or hope, everyone can grit their teeth, work hard, the future can be expected!#Article Launch Challenge#