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Text: Fei Xiangshuo
Editor|Fei Xiangshuo
Li Shuxian's life is full of ups and downs. She could have become a first-line actress in Hong Kong, but she quit the entertainment industry because of love. The failure of two marriages ended up causing her to accumulate too much trauma and choose to end her life.
Lai's experience reminds us that success is the norm in life, and we need to learn to be tolerant of others, but we must also learn to love ourselves. When circumstances make you miserable, be brave enough to leave.
Lai Shuxian's growth path
Li Shuxian was born in Foshan, Guangdong Province in 1977, with a sweet appearance and a tall figure. In 1995, she participated in the Hong Kong Asian sister contest and won the runner-up with her height of 173cm and charming smile. This opened the door for her to enter the entertainment industry.
In 1997, Li Shuxian played the role of "sister-in-law" in the movie "Crazy Boy 3", and became famous in the Hong Kong film circle with this role. For a time, the career was thriving and popular all over the country. At that time, she was full of energy and had a bright future.
Marriage changes life The road is bumpy
In 1998, Li Shuxian met the popular martial arts actor Lu Huiguang in the crew of "Crazy Boy 3". The two fell in love at first sight, and three years later, Li Shuxian gave up her acting career for love and married Lu Huiguang. However, after marriage, Lu Huiguang's feelings became very ordinary, and he often became openly entangled with other women.
For this reason, Li Shuxian took the initiative to file for divorce after enduring it for 8 years. After the divorce, she remarried a plastic surgeon and hoped to start over. But the second husband was also quite inappropriate and often cheated. This has caused great trauma to Lai.
Depression is incurable for life, and you choose suicide to get rid of it
Two failed marriages have left Lai's wounds incurable. Despite her glamorous appearance, her inner depression has always accompanied her.
What made her even more painful was that her ex-husband Lu Huiguang also forbade her to visit her two sons after marriage. Under the accumulation of all kinds of anxiety and trauma, Li Shuxian chose to end her life. She could have lived a better life, but the weight of life eventually crushed her fragile heart.
Opinion analysis
This incident quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens on the Internet, and some netizens believed that Li Shuxian should not commit suicide and should take care of his life. Some netizens think that Lu Huiguang is too indecent and should review himself.
Some netizens think that Li Shuxian's second husband is also deeply traumatized by her. Overall, everyone sympathized with Lai's plight and thought it was understandable that a woman would suffer from two failed marriages.
My advice
Lai's experience reminds us that success is the norm, setbacks are inevitable, and we should not be defeated by difficulties. At the same time, we must also learn to be tolerant of others and not only have hatred in our hearts, so that we can live a happier life.
When circumstances make you miserable, be brave enough to leave. Give yourself time to heal and life go on. The wound will heal slowly, as long as you are willing to give yourself a chance. Finally, please cherish each other, give support and encouragement, so that our society can be warmer.
To sum up, Lai Shuxian's life experience is very embarrassing and regrettable. It reminds us to cherish life, love ourselves, and take care of those around us. How do you think we should view what happened to Lai, and how does her experience inspire us in our future lives? Feel free to discuss with me in the comments section.