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Text: Yu Dazui Booth
Editor|Yu Dazui Booth
The relationship between Wu Qianyu and Lin Feng once attracted much attention, and after the two broke up, Wu Qianyu fell in love with Shi Boxiong again, and successfully turned over and cleared the label of "fishing girl". And Lin Feng's various performances after marriage have aroused doubts from netizens.
Wu Qianyu's success inspired us a lot, and she proved with practical actions that a girl should rely on her own strength to win respect, not rely on her boyfriend. Her independent inner and low-key style has won the recognition of most netizens.
Wu Qianyu's self-confidence stems from inner independence
Although Wu Qianyu only has a junior high school education and an average family background, she never feels that she is not worthy of anyone. No matter what level of boyfriend she faces, she can be calm. This inner independence and self-confidence have made her what she is now. Even after breaking up with Lin Feng, her quality of life was not affected.
In contrast, Zhang Xinyue cared too much about whether she was worthy of Lin Feng, which led to the opposite effect. Therefore, Wu Qianyu's inspiration to us is that it is good to be yourself, and you don't need to deliberately please or prove anything, so that you can gain the recognition of others.
It's important to work diligently
Wu Qianyu does not rely on her boyfriend Lin Feng, and works very hard. Her work is busier than her boyfriend Shi Boxiong, and her financial independence gives her confidence.
Some people think that she is raised by Lin Feng, but it turns out that after leaving Lin Feng, her quality of life is also very high.
This is the foundation of her self-confidence.
Therefore, Wu Qianyu told us that in order for girls to make a difference in their careers, it is very important to be financially independent, so that they can truly be ice and jade.
Wider and better network of contacts
Wu Qianyu's circle of friends is very wide, and many first-line stars in Hong Kong are her friends. In addition, there are many well-known rich second generations who mix well with her.
This shows that Wu Qianyu has excellent communication skills and EQ. It is not easy to maintain such a circle of friends for a long time. Therefore, a wide range of connections is also one of the secrets of her success.
The most important thing is to keep a low profile and deal with feelings
After being labeled with various labels, Wu Qianyu has always chosen to keep a low profile. She never paid attention to the criticism of the outside world and remained silent. This style has won the approval of the public.
On the other hand, Zhang Xinyue expressed her feelings in a high-profile manner and constantly compared with the outside world, which resulted in disgust. Therefore, we must learn Xi Wu Qianyu's low-key style, and don't care too much about the eyes of others emotionally, so as to achieve happiness.
Self-confidence depends on strength, not on external conditions
To sum up, the reason why Wu Qianyu successfully turned over is that she is independent in her heart, low-key in the outside world, and self-confident without relying on external conditions. At the same time, she is also very hard working and has a wide range of contacts.
The lesson from this is that girls should be independent and independent inside, and don't rely on their boyfriends or external conditions. Rely on your own strength to earn respect, not rely on others. As long as you do your best, you will naturally be recognized.
This incident quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens on the Internet, and everyone had different opinions on Wu Qianyu's turnover. Some netizens believe that Wu Qianyu's choice to deal with this matter in a low-key manner proves her maturity. Success does not need to be deliberately performed, her low-key is the best performance, and some netizens believe that Zhang Xinyue is also a victim, her every performance is magnified and interpreted, and the emotional road is not easy.
Some netizens believe that Wu Qianyu's success has her uniqueness, but there is also an element of luck, she met the right Shi Boxiong and helped her reshape her image. Everyone's experience is different, and you can't simply compare who is right and who is wrong, but the important thing is to move forward steadily.
No matter how you look at it, Wu Qianyu's successful turnaround story brings positive energy to everyone.
Girls should be confident and not be defined by the outside world. Financial independence is important, and it is important to earn respect on your own ability. On the emotional road, low-key is the key. In the end, it is necessary to return to oneself and do oneself well, which is the last word. What do you think Wu Qianyu's story inspires us? Feel free to share your views in the comment area.