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I am a 50-year-old married woman named Li Xiaofen. My husband's name is Zhang Li, and we have been married for more than 20 years. We have a daughter who is already in college.
Although there have been ups and downs in the married life of the past 20 years, it is generally quite happy. My husband and I both work for a foreign company. He is the general manager of the company and I am the head of the personnel department. We all have a good income and relatively comfortable living conditions.
But recently I found out that my husband seems to be having an affair. He often worked late hours and sometimes didn't come home for a week. One night, I called him and asked where he was, but he refused to tell the truth. I was very angry and asked him directly: "Zhang Li, what are you busy with so late to come home? Could it be a woman?"
He sighed heavily on the other end of the phone and said, "Xiaofen, you can believe me, I have absolutely no affair." I've been working on a big project lately, and I need to work overtime, so I often don't go home at night. Give me some time, and I'll explain it to you when the project is over. ”
Still angry, I raised my voice and said, "What project requires you to stay up all night? We've been married for so many years, and you just don't care about me like that?"
I listened to his sincere tone, and I couldn't bear to embarrass him again, so I could only say, "Okay, I'll believe you again." But after that, I had to find time to go home for a day or two a week. ”
Hanging up the phone, I sat on the edge of the bed depressed. Over the years, I feel that our relationship has faded a lot, and it is not as sweet and touching as before. Could it be that I'm old, so he's out looking for a beautiful young woman?
A month later, a phone call suddenly came from the company saying that Zhang Zhang had an accident and was taken to a nearby hospital. Frightened and frightened, I immediately drove to the hospital. I saw him lying on the hospital bed with a plaster, and it turned out that he accidentally fell down the stairs and broke a leg.
I reproached him distressedly: "You fool, you always don't pay attention to safety, now it's okay, your leg is broken, who will support your family in the future?"
I took his hand in distress and asked softly, "What kind of stairs did you fall from?" and you haven't told me about the mysterious project you're working on. ”
My eyes widened in surprise: "What? 25th anniversary, but it's only been a few months since our wedding anniversary?"
"Yes," he smiled and nodded, "I plan to start preparing five years in advance, find a magnificent venue, invite our relatives and friends, and add some programs to give you an unforgettable surprise!"
My eyes instantly turned red and tears welled up in my eyes. It turns out that my cranky husband has been working hard not for other women at all, but is painstakingly planning a gift to surprise me!
"Honey, I'm sorry, I've been questioning you and arguing with you this month, I'm so sorry for you!" I said with tears in my eyes.
He stroked my hair and said softly, "It's me who is wrong, I shouldn't have prepared this from you." I know your temper too well and should communicate with you more to reassure you. It was indeed my own carelessness to break my leg this time. ”
I clenched his hand, tears still flowing: "No, it's me who is not good, I shouldn't be suspicious, I don't believe you wholeheartedly! From now on, I will take care of you, trust you, and spend the years to come hand in hand with you!"
Since then, I have started to take care of my husband wholeheartedly. I would call him from time to time and ask him what he wanted, and when I got home from work, I would immediately cook what he liked. We also often chatted in the hospital bed, and gradually regained the sweetness and romance of the beginning.
After more than a month of getting along, I feel that our relationship seems to be deeper than ever. How I regret it, it turns out that I frequently suspect him of infidelity, everything that is noisy. Now I am very sure that as long as we work together on the emotional road, we will definitely be able to grow old together!
Five years later, on my silver wedding anniversary, my husband took me to a grand ballroom. The moment I opened the door, more than 100 relatives and friends congratulated me! The scene was splendid, and a famous singer sang a congratulatory song to me. I threw myself into my husband's arms with excitement.
"My dear, I wish us a happy 25th wedding anniversary! He whispered softly in my ear.
I was so excited that I couldn't speak, so I could only nod my head with red eyes. I lifted the bouquet and turned around in the crowd to see bright smiling faces. At this time, I understood that life may not always be smooth sailing, but with this considerate man by my side, and with the help of these old friends, I am no longer afraid of great difficulties!
I was so excited that I burst into tears when I saw the silver wedding surprise gift that my husband had prepared for me. We've been through so many ups and downs over the past 25 years, and I'm so happy that he's still willing to take the trouble to surprise me.
My husband stroked my hair and said softly, "Xiaofen, I'm sorry for worrying you." Over the years, you have been by my side and take care of my daughter and me. I want the best for you, but I keep them busy from you, I'm really stupid. ”
I shook his hand and said with emotion, "Honey, no, it's me who is bad. For 25 years, you have given me so much love, and I still suspect you of being unfaithful. I really, really regret it. From now on, I will definitely trust you and love you with all my heart. ”
"Come on, don't talk about that today. He smiled and wiped away my tears, "Let's enjoy this party for you." ”
So, with the blessings of family and friends and wonderful performances, we had a great time at the party, as if we had returned to the years of love. With my husband and I firmly on our fingers, I am once again convinced that as long as we understand and trust each other, our marriage will go further and further.
After the party, my husband suddenly got down on one knee and said to me affectionately, "Xiaofen, thank you again for being by my side for 25 years. Would you like to continue to walk hand in hand with me through the rest of your life?"
I burst into tears of emotion and agreed without hesitation. Our fingers are clasped together, as strong as our marriage.
I hugged him as he woke up, tears of happiness in my eyes. He is the most precious pearl in my life, and the luckiest thing in my life is to be with him.
Another 5 years have passed, and it is our diamond wedding anniversary. In these 35 years of married life, we have experienced too many bits and pieces. Although there will be occasional quarrels, our relationship has grown stronger and stronger, as clear as a diamond.
On the day of the diamond wedding, we took our daughter's family on a trip. That night, while we were watching fireworks at the beach, my husband suddenly got down on one knee and proposed to me! I was surprised and delighted, and nodded my head again and again. My daughter was cheering us excitedly.
It was the happiest moment of my life! Even after 35 years, my husband still sweetly proposed to me, and I knew it represented his unchanging love for me. With such a considerate man to accompany me, I have no regrets in my life!
In 35 years of married life, we have experienced too many bits and pieces. Although there are occasional quarrels, the relationship is getting stronger and stronger, and it shines like a diamond.
It was our diamond wedding anniversary, and we took our daughter's family to the beach for a vacation. In the evening, the colorful glow of the sun shines on the quiet sea, creating brilliant colors. The three of us sat by the sea and chatted about our experiences over the years.
"Mom, the relationship between you and Dad seems to have returned to when you were young, so sweet that it makes me envious of my single!" The daughter said jokingly.
I smiled and nodded, and looked at my husband beside me gently: "Yes, after 35 years, your father's feelings for me have not weakened at all, but have become deeper and deeper." ”
"Actually, the relationship needs to be taken care of by two people, and it needs to be watered and fertilized like a flower. My husband held my hand and whispered, "Over the years, we have supported each other to go further and further." ”
At this moment, the sky in the distance suddenly burst into brilliant fireworks. I was watching intently when my husband suddenly knelt down on one knee beside me and said to me affectionately, "My dear, after 35 years, I still love you as deeply as I did back then." Will you marry me again?"
I cried tears of joy, nodded excitedly, and threw myself into his arms. My daughter applauded happily and made a vow of love for us again.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, we have been married for 40 years. On this day, my grandson suddenly came to me and mysteriously told him that he had asked him to take me to a place. Puzzled, I followed him to a nearby park.
I saw that the big trees in the garden were full of our love photos and wedding photos. There are flower petals on the floor, and my favorite snack and a big cake are placed. My husband was standing under the tree waiting for me, with a happy smile on his face.
Life is a long road, and it's good to have you by your side. In the days to come, let us continue to work hand in hand to witness every good time in life!
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, we have entered old age. Although my body is not as good as before, every time I look into my husband's eyes, I can still see the love and affection of the past.
One day, we sat on a bench by the lake and watched the sunset. My husband held my wrinkled hand and said softly, "Honey, we have been together for decades, and you have worked hard. ”
I shook my head, my eyes full of tenderness: "The time with you has never felt hard, but full of joy. The right decision in my life is to marry you. ”
He smiled and kissed my crumpled cheek. At sunset, his hair was all white and his face was wrinkled, but what I saw was still the young man who was chasing me.
We are all old, but the red thread that connects the two hearts has not faded at all.
"My dear, I love you. He whispered in my ear. The weight of these eight words is heavier than the vows we made when we were young. I know that this is the most important thing he wants to say to me for the rest of our lives.
With tears in my eyes, I clenched his crumpled hand: "I love you too." Let's stay with us until the end of our lives. ”
He nodded, stroking my long gray hair. We sat quietly by the lake, letting the setting sun warm our white and naughty bodies.
That winter, I had a high fever and my husband stayed at my bedside every day. My organs were failing so badly that my daughter was crying and urging her husband to prepare. But he just held my hand quietly, his gaze as gentle as when he was young.
In my last moments, my husband hugged me and said "I love you" over and over again. I smiled and closed my eyes as his tears dripped down my face. I am happy in this life, thanks to his caring partner.
Life is a long road, and it's good to have you by your side. I have no regrets for the rest of my life, I am only grateful to grow old with you.
I am getting old, but the affection in my husband's eyes and words has never diminished.
It was a crisp autumn weekend and we walked hand in hand in the park. The dappled sunlight of the forest shone on the ground, and the leaves rustled softly. I smiled and said to my husband, "It's good that we're going to have a leisurely life like this after that!"
He nodded, took my hand and said, "The days are still long, and having you by my side is the best time in the world." ”
It was getting dark, and we went to the bench to rest. My husband took off his coat and put it on me, and patted my hand to soothe the chill. I looked at him with emotion, and time could not erode his care for me.
In the setting sun, his hair was gray and his face was full of wrinkles, but he could not hide the love for me in his eyes. I know that even though the years have ruthlessly robbed us of our faces and bodies, his affection for me is still the same.
I clasped his hand and whispered like a vow I had made by the lake many years ago, "Let's grow old together, hand in hand." A smile welled up in his eyes and he nodded.
The sun hung in the treetops, and we sat quietly on the benches. The golden light jumped on his wrinkles, and I stroked his white hair with a lot of emotion.
Life is a long road, and it's good to have you by your side.