My wife and I went to a special cultural experience where we came to an old courtyard and saw a traditional opera performance. The actors' singing voices are graceful and the performances are very exciting. The whole event made me feel the charm of traditional Chinese culture, and my mood became happy.
When I got home, I noticed that my wife's face was not very good-looking, and I asked her what was wrong, but she didn't say a word. After a while, she finally couldn't help but erupt: "If I don't give your brother a suite, I will smash your car, my daughter-in-law will not be noisy or noisy, and my mother-in-law will regret it." I was surprised when she turned away from the living room.
I quickly chased after her, took her hand, and asked her why she was so angry. She told me that her brother had always wanted a house for our family, and that the recent pressure on us was too much for her to bear. As I heard these words, my mood became a little bored. We didn't speak all the way, and when I got home, I started thinking about how to solve the problem.
The next day, I found my wife's brother and had a good talk with him. I told him that our house was a hard-earned savings and that it wasn't something that could be transferred to him casually. I hope he understands our position and stops pressuring me and my wife.
After listening to my words, my wife's brother was silent for a while, and finally agreed with me. I breathed a sigh of relief that the dispute was finally resolved. When I got home, I told my wife that everything was settled, and she was relieved that the smile finally reappeared on her face.
However, in the days that followed, I could still feel that my wife's attitude towards me had changed somewhat, and it seemed that I was still a little sad because of this incident. I know that to completely change this, it will take not only time, but also more communication and care. Hopefully, the relationship between us can be repaired soon.
After a while, the conflict between my wife and I was not effectively resolved, but became more and more serious. One night, I came home from work to find my wife sitting on the couch in shambles, and my wife was sitting on the couch sobbing. I hurriedly stepped forward to inquire, and she told me that she had a big conflict with her mother-in-law recently. It turned out that my mother-in-law always felt that her daughter-in-law did not give birth to a son to pass on the family lineage, and the blame fell on me and my wife, and even the words were very ugly.
I know that this is a very big blow to my wife. I comforted her and told her that we didn't need to care about other people's opinions, and that my mother-in-law's words were just momentary words and did not represent real thoughts. But deep down, I also know that this incident has a great impact on my wife and our relationship.
In order to deal with this awkward atmosphere, I decided to find a solution to the problem. I had a good talk with my wife, and I told her that we have to be strong in the face of all the negative emotions, and also give my mother-in-law some time to hope that she can calm down. At the same time, I realized that I shouldn't run away from this problem all the time, and we need to find a long-term solution.
I decided to talk to my mother-in-law once, hoping that she would understand the situation between me and my wife, and understand that we didn't mean not to have a son, and that having children is a godsend, and we can't control it. In the face of my challenge, my mother-in-law finally accepted it silently, and I could see a little understanding and tolerance in her eyes. After leaving my mother-in-law's house, I felt a sense of relief and hoped that this conversation would improve our relationship.
However, when she returned home, her wife did not feel relieved by this incident. Her attitude towards me became colder and her words became meaner. I felt helpless, I tried to solve the problem, but nothing seemed to help.
I hope that we can repair the relationship between us as soon as possible and find a long-term solution.
I feel a little helpless that my wife has been in a bad mood because of my brother's house incident. Soon after, my father fell ill and was in very serious condition. I immediately rushed to the hospital and saw my father lying on the hospital bed, looking sick, and I couldn't help but feel worried and distressed. At this time, my wife also hurried to arrive, and I felt a little comforted to see her. However, my wife said to me, "Your brother has been very busy and has little time to go home to visit his father, but this time he came immediately, and he really has a stronger sense of responsibility for the family than you." ”
I was a little unhappy, although I was busy with work, every time I went home, I would spend as much time as possible with my parents and honor them. But my wife's words made me feel as if I wasn't doing enough. This made me dissatisfied, I was already under a lot of work pressure, and now I had to deal with my wife's dissatisfaction.
During my father's hospitalization, the stress left me with little time to worry about family conflicts. I took my phone and papers back and forth between the hospital and work. My wife's dissatisfaction with me became more and more obvious, and I gradually felt that there were more and more conflicts in my life, which also made me a little overwhelmed.
My father's condition finally improved, and he gradually began to recover. And I felt like I was finally able to catch my breath. But dealing with my wife's grievances and conflicts has become something that bothers me even more. I hope that these issues can be resolved as soon as possible and that our family can return to a state of normal harmony.
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