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I've seen something outrageous, but I've never seen anything so outrageous.
If it weren't for being bullied and cornered, how could a man make such a family ugly public?
According to media reports, on the morning of December 28, the Dexing City Court in Jiangxi Province held a trial of an unusual divorce case.
In the course of the trial, the defendant Mr. Chen presented new evidence in court that his wife had cheated on him and gave birth to a fourth daughter a year ago, proving that the father of this daughter was not him, but Wu Moumou, who had an improper relationship with his wife.
In other words, the wife not only cheated, but also gave birth to a child with her lover.
In the eyes of any normal man, this is absolutely intolerable.
But even more outrageous is yet to come.
Mr. Chen said that he and his wife have been married for 16 years and have three daughters.
In order to support his family, he worked outside all the year round, and it was very hard to be exposed to the wind and sun, and most of the money he earned was given to his wife.
But what he never expected was that after he accidentally discovered that his wife was cheating last year, he came up with the idea of doing paternity tests for several children.
Who knows, if you don't do it, you don't know, and if you do it, you'll be shocked:
Of the three daughters, none of them were born by themselves.
And, just before the divorce case was ready to go to trial, he heard from others that his wife gave birth to four more children in November last year, and this daughter was not his.
Mr. Chen came from the bottom of his heart, a dignified seven-foot man, who could only silently wipe his tears in front of the camera.
He thought that after the incident, his wife should give him an explanation and even apologize, but his wife not only refused to admit her mistake, but also said with an arrogant attitude:
The children have called you dad for more than 10 years, and you still go for a paternity test, what is the difference between it and livestock?
I don't think I'm cheating, blood relationship is that important?
There are so many families who have adopted children in this world, aren't they still living well?
It's really a scoundrel who is reasonable, and what he said is ruined.
What's even more ruined is still to come.
Not only was his wife arrogant, but after knowing that Mr. Chen had made her public and wanted to sue her, she also waited for an opportunity to take revenge.
Together with her current lover, at around 0:00 a.m. one day, she sneaked into Mr. Chen's house with two 36-ring, arm-thick firecrackers, and installed a "delayed ignition device" on the bathroom window with mosquito coils.
Just after they left unconsciously, mosquito coils lit firecracker fuses, and in the middle of the night, the loud blasting sound continued to shatter the glass of the bathroom, and even the police station two miles away could hear it.
Mr. Chen's 80-year-old father was suddenly awakened by a loud noise while he was sleeping, and was admitted to the hospital with acute stress disorder and heart disease.
Seeing this, I really want to say: You are bullying honest people for an end?
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Although Mr. Chen has been away from home for so many years and does not care enough about his family and wife, he can be regarded as diligent in fulfilling his responsibilities as a father and husband.
If the couple has a conflict, they can sit down and say frankly, even if there is no love, they can also agree to divorce, there is no need to do this kind of thankless, harmful and self-harming thing.
Moreover, Mr. Chen's wife didn't know how to stop when she made a mistake, and she made mistakes again and again, so that Mr. Chen stupidly helped others raise children for so many years.
Not only did he invest a lot of money, but he also poured a lot of emotion.
When he knew the truth, what he couldn't let go of for a long time was not his years of dedication, but these three heavy loves for his daughters.
After so many years of writing about too many bloody marriages, I can understand Mr. Chen's feelings at this moment.
An honest person can be bullied, can even be wronged, and can take a step back to fulfill everyone.
But Mr. Chen continued to cheat on him for 16 years from before marriage to after marriage.
I think that even if one of the four daughters is his, he will not be so desperate, and it is impossible for an honest person to bring the bright green hat to the noses of the people of the whole country.
He chose to expose this matter on the Internet, which means killing 1,000 enemies and losing 800 to the end.
He said his appeal was simple:
The first is divorce, the second is compensation, and the third is to hope that the court will investigate the criminal responsibility of the wife's gang of wounders.
He also wants to seek justice for himself and let his wife be ruined.
Of course, the consequences of this also made him feel painful.
Because of this, he suffered from severe depression and had to get drunk to sleep every night.
Once his three "daughters" were also instigated by his wife to ignore him.
Not only that, but he was also cyberbullied by some vicious netizens, ridiculed, and his dignity was trampled on the ground and rubbed.
It's hard to see the people angry.
Do honest people deserve to suffer?
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In the past few days, there is also a hot search, which also makes me uneasy.
The anti-transferor of this incident was unexpected and unexpected, and it really chilled the hearts of countless good people.
The beginning of the matter has to start from October.
A group of post-00s college students in Anhui met a homeless old man under the Qianbaiyi overpass in Fuyang.
The old man told them that he was 70 years old this year, and after unfortunately being replaced with liver cancer and lung cancer, he was kicked out of the house by his family, and could only wait for death under the bridge silently.
A group of college students were worried about his health when they saw the weather getting colder day by day, and after hearing about his life experience, they were moved by compassion, and after some discussion, they decided to take turns to take care of him.
Every day, they would go to deliver three meals a day to Grandpa, and take video recordings and bits and pieces of Grandpa.
Soon, the video made some splashes on the Internet, and more kind hands reached out to them, hoping that they could take their grandfather to see a doctor.
This group of college students also lived up to expectations, using the money raised to bring their grandfather to eat and drink well, and also bought him a lot of new clothes to celebrate his birthday.
Even Tiananmen Square in Beijing, which Grandpa always wanted to go, was arranged without saying a word.
In the matter of treating grandpa well, they can be said to have paid 100% patience and sincerity.
Later, in the process of taking my grandfather to the hospital for a follow-up, I learned that my grandfather's illness was misdiagnosed, and he did not have cancer at all.
As soon as the news came out, both this group of college students and the kind netizens who have been paying attention to grandpa on the Internet are very grateful to God for his favor.
I thought that this matter had come to a successful end.
The elderly can finally go home to their families, and the kindness of the university students deserves to be praised by everyone.
Who knows, it didn't take long for this group of students to wait for not good news, but an epic reversal that extinguished all the seeds of kindness in their hearts.
The police told them that "Grandpa" was not 70 years old, and his real age was only 56 years old.
He was also not abandoned by his family, but lived with his brother all the time.
And what he said about "being penniless" and "wandering under the bridge" is not true, he has a subsistence allowance, which is enough to ensure that he can eat enough every month.
If he wanted to, he could improve his life by his own labor.
What this group of college students didn't expect was that he also had 13 years of prison experience.
Being sentenced for such a long time is enough to show that he is extremely guilty.
Therefore, he is not a vulnerable group worthy of help, but a sinister villain who is lazy and full of lies.
He used his superb acting skills to deceive a group of honest college students who lacked social experience.
not only failed their kindness, but also used the meanness of human nature to teach them the first lesson in life.
Let this group of kind and honest children chill their hearts from now on.
They removed all 28 videos with "grandpa", leaving only this text:
I don't know what's the point of doing that, why do we do this good, I try my best, I can't go on......
Although disappointed, although their kindness was fed to the dogs, they did not let the netizens who were honest and deceived like them pay.
While saying sorry to netizens who had helped their grandfather, they began to refund them.
The rest of the donations, they returned to everyone one by one.
The part that grandpa used, they said, they would return it to everyone if they went to work themselves.
The honest people suffer losses, the unscrupulous people are proud, the public order and good customs of society are destroyed in this way, and the conscience in people's hearts is extinguished in this way.
04
In the past few years, every time we see one after another avoidable tragedies happening like this, we can't help but shout:
Why didn't anyone go up and give it a hand?
Why didn't anyone call 120 in the first place?
Why is everyone so indifferent and spectatory?
Now I know that the terrible thing is not the thing itself, but the terrible thing is that after the kindness is let down again and again, and the honest people are bullied, the conscience of the society has slowly become cold.
Peng Yu back then was a kind and good person, right?
He saw an old lady waiting for the bus at the bus stop and unfortunately fell, so he stepped forward to help him without thinking about it.
As a result, this support not only did not help me to be grateful, but even turned my life upside down.
The old lady and her family insisted that it was Peng Yu who hit it.
In that era when cameras were not yet popular, Peng Yu was speechless and entangled in lawsuits.
Even at the trial, the judge asked him this:
You didn't hit him, so why did you help her?
No, just because Peng Yu is an honest man.
This sentence not only cooled Peng Yu's heart, but also cooled the hearts of many honest people who originally wanted to do good deeds.
After that, Peng Yu lost the lawsuit and lost 4,000 yuan.
Although the truth was found out in the second trial, people's hearts have been hurt, and it is not something that can be smoothed out with a sentence of "I'm sorry, it's a misunderstanding".
Many people still remember that the most famous case affected by the aftermath of Peng Yu's case was the tragedy of two-year-old Xiao Yueyue.
After Xiao Yueyue was hit by a van while playing, if someone helped her call an ambulance, call the police, or move her to a safe place within 7 minutes, or even alert her family, then Xiao Yueyue would not lose her life.
But in this not short or short 7 minutes, more than 10 people passed by, but they didn't lend a hand, and poor Xiao Yueyue was run over for the second time, and finally died of serious injuries.
I don't know if these people will feel guilty when they think about it many years later, but the decision at that moment must have been chilled by something similar, afraid of getting themselves into trouble.
So, do you say honest people should be bullied?
The answer, of course, is no.
Honest people should not only not be bullied, but should even be treated kindly.
Because they are the most tolerant and reasonable people in this society.
They abide by the bottom line of this society and the rules of this society all the time.
Just like Liu Yuanyuan said in "Super Speaker":
The meaning of the existence of an honest person lies in guarding the background of social kindness.
But often honest people are often "looked down upon" and "bullied".
When you think about it, in fact, we used to be honest people, but after being whipped by society, we pretended to be very smart and powerful.
After wearing the mask for a long time, over time, I really thought it was my face.
We clearly know that bullying honest people is just to anger the cowardly and timid self at the beginning.
We also know that it is not the honest people who are at fault, but the despicable villains who take advantage of them.
Therefore, not bullying honest people is actually treating their original selves well.
Otherwise, forcing honest people to stop being honest is the greatest sorrow of this society.
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