After the child is born, the most feared thing for parents is that the child is abducted. Every time I read the news about the child being abducted, Wenwen's father felt worried.
A while ago, a grandmother in the community patronized a mahjong game and forgot to pick up her grandson after school at 4 o'clock.
Halfway through, he was tricked away by a middle-aged woman with a toy puppy. When the family saw the surveillance, they were so anxious that they were at a loss, and the grandmother blamed herself so much that she slapped herself.
Fortunately, the police were called in time, and with the full search of the police, the child was quickly found. But after losing a child, the parents' worries and grandmothers' self-blame are something that many people can't empathize with.
You must know that the routine of human traffickers is not only to use toys to lure children, but their tricks are also escalating, and parents and children should be careful alike.
01. New types of deception have been exposed, and parents and children must see through it
In order to abduct children, the tricks of human traffickers have escalated, and there is really nothing that only parents can't think of, and there is nothing they can't do.
As soon as I walked out of the school gate to pick up my daughter from school, a woman in her 40s got out of a car. He asked a boy not far in front of us, "Children, do you know where so-and-so elementary school is?"
The little boy enthusiastically pointed to the elementary school not far away, and said, "Right there, you go over here, just turn the corner at the intersection."
When she heard this, she asked, "Can you take me there?" I'm afraid I won't find my way!
The little boy was stunned for a moment, stood still and did not speak, and the woman said, "Don't be afraid, I am a teacher, teaching English." Then he handed the child a bottle of water and said thank you as a gift!
When the little boy heard that it was the teacher, he immediately relaxed his vigilance, took the water and replied very warmly, "Okay!" and then the woman urged the child to drink water.
The little boy was about to follow him to the car when her mother came to pick him up and shouted from afar. When the boy saw his mother, he ran to his mother as fast as he could, and followed her.
Seeing this scene, it was difficult for Wenwen's father not to suspect that this woman was a human trafficker, and I told my daughter on the spot that she should never believe in the identity made up by strangers, do not drink the water handed by strangers, and do not get on strangers, it is very likely that as soon as you get in the car, you will not see your parents for the rest of your life.
In order to prevent children from being abducted by human traffickers, many kindergartens have started various "anti-abduction Xi", but the results have worried many parents.
Take the kindergarten where my daughter attends, for example, every time a parent, security guard, or police officer who plays the role of a "human trafficker" only needs a lollipop, a toy, or even a sentence of "let's go take the little train", they can easily get it.
Someone once did an anti-abduction test, and it only took 45 seconds to easily abduct a child! There are even human traffickers who are rampant: there is no child they can't abduct.
02. Parents should know the 3 routines of human traffickers
A senior kindergarten teacher said that in order to prevent children from being deceived, kindergartens will conduct anti-abduction drills every year, but the success rate of abduction is still very high.
In her words, no matter how hard teachers tell children to "don't go with strangers", many children still fall for tricks.
Wenwen's father has sorted out 3 kinds of abduction routines commonly used by traffickers, and parents who have time can practice with their children at home, which can enhance their children's awareness of anti-abduction.
(1) Tempt children with toys and candy
In the anti-abduction experiment in the kindergarten, the "human trafficker" played by Wenwen's father "tricked" several children with just one sentence: "Little friend, my uncle has prepared a gift for you, it's very fun, do you want it?
This type of method is also commonly used by traffickers, mainly using candy, toys, etc. as bait to coax children by taking advantage of their curiosity.
Similarly, some traffickers will take advantage of children's fear and fear to intimidate children, such as "Kid, you just broke my phone, you have to come with me!"
(2) When the street is robbed, the thief shouts to catch the thief
Wen Wen's father once saw a mother share on the Internet that she took her child to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, and was slapped by a man as soon as she walked to the door, and then shouted, "Where do you want to take the child, you trafficker, return the child to me", shouting and snatching the child.
This kind of crime is generally committed in a group, and while the man is robbing the child, there will be a person who pretends to be the child's grandmother, scolding and helping to rob the child.
At this time, Bao Ma immediately shouted the words "they are human traffickers" and tried to get help from the people around her.
(3) Disguise your identity
Some traffickers will pretend to be acquaintances of the children's parents, claiming that "I am your mother's good friend, she has something to do at this time, let me pick you up first, and then go to her", many children will believe it when they hear that they are good friends of their mothers and want to go to their mothers.
There are also traffickers who impersonate specific staff members, such as couriers, property owners, or even police officers, and then make up random stories to coax children to open the door.
03. The New Year is approaching, and it is very important to teach children to protect themselves
Wenwen's father often wonders what skills she should teach her child to help her cope with the escalating scams of human traffickers. Although her parents pick her up on the way to and from school, it is inevitable that Baimi will be neglected, and it is impossible for her parents to follow her 24 hours a day.
After thinking about it, I feel that improving my daughter's safety awareness and self-protection ability is the most important thing. Some parents may say: My child is still so young, there is no concept of human traffickers at all, and I can't understand her!
Here, Wenwen's father suggests that parents can make good use of the little helper of picture books!
For children in kindergarten, they lack social experience and lack of self-awareness, and they cannot understand abstract concepts such as personal safety. But picture books can be imitated to help children understand concepts such as human traffickers and abduction.
In the picture book "No, I Don't Go With Strangers", the protagonist Ma Le is picked up by a good friend who claims to be his father after school. In order to gain Ma Le's trust, he also told important information such as Ma Le's father's phone number, their home address, and the company where his father worked.
Ma Le gradually believed the uncle in front of him and got into the car with him, but soon after getting in the car, Ma Le found out that he had been deceived, do you know how he was rescued in the end?
This set of picture books not only teaches children how to recognize strangers, but also vividly tells children from the perspective of family members that as long as they are not parents, they cannot go with anyone.
My daughter was separated from her parents when she was visiting the supermarket, and her mother and I were anxious to look for her, and finally heard the radio shouting, and then went to the service desk to find my daughter.
It turned out that after the daughter found out that she was lost, she imitated Ma Le's rescue method in this set of picture books, and after asking the waiter for the tally, she found the service desk of the supermarket and asked the aunt at the service desk to help find her parents. It's hard to imagine that if her daughter hadn't read this set of picture books, she would still be able to find her parents?
There are 6 picture books in this set, my daughter started reading when she was in middle school, and after reading these 6 books, the child knows why he can't go with strangers, why he can't lose his temper at will, what kind of secret can't be kept, how to refuse to be kissed?
【Waiting for the Wind】Anti-abduction and anti-deception children's self-protection Complete set of 6 volumes ¥68 Purchase
It is recommended that parents spend dozens of dollars to buy a set to put a "shackle" on their children's safety, improve their children's self-protection ability, and prevent the occurrence of trafficking tragedies.