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My name is Xiaohong, I am 25 years old this year, and I have been married to my husband Xiaoming for a year. We live in my husband's house, a small two-story building. My mother-in-law, Aunt Zhang, has always been very good to me, and always said that my daughter-in-law is a relative who has entered the door.
In the early days of our marriage, Xiao Ming and I lived in the master bedroom upstairs, and Aunt Zhang lived alone in the second bedroom downstairs. Aunt Zhang said that such a young person has a private space, and she will not disturb us as an old man. I often feel how lucky I am to have such a kind mother-in-law.
A year after marriage, Xiao Ming's parents said that they wanted to come to their hometown to live for a while. They have been working in the field for many years, and the house there has long been rented out. I offered to give the master bedroom to my parents-in-law, so that we could move to the attic temporarily. Aunt Zhang disagreed at first, saying that the attic was in poor condition, so Xiao Ming and I continued to live in the master bedroom. But I insisted that my parents-in-law live in the master bedroom so that it would be convenient for them to get older. Aunt Zhang saw that I insisted, so she had to agree.
On the day my parents-in-law came, I started preparing early and cleaned the whole house. Aunt Zhang was also busy preparing their favorite dishes in the kitchen. Xiao Ming went to pick them up at the station and came back at noon.
"Mother-in-law and father-in-law, you are welcome!" I greeted me with a smile and gave my parents-in-law a big hug.
"Daughter-in-law, I haven't seen you for a year, you look more beautiful!" The mother-in-law said happily.
"Let's go, I'll take you to the master bedroom. The view is better there and the sun is abundant. "I took my mother-in-law's hand and took her upstairs.
"Xiaohong, it's inconvenient for you and Xiao Ming to sleep in the attic, right?" The father-in-law said, "We can live in the second bedroom, but you young people should live in the master bedroom." ”
"Father-in-law, you are a guest, of course you want to live in the master bedroom!" I smiled and said, "The attic is a little smaller, but it's big enough for us." You and your mother-in-law can live here. ”
"Good boy, know respect
After lunch, my mother-in-law said she wanted to take a nap, so I took her upstairs to the master bedroom.
"Mother-in-law, do you see that this quilt is soft, do you need me to add another blanket?" I asked with concern.
"It's good to don't have children. The mother-in-law nodded with satisfaction, "By the way, where is the bathroom?"
"It's right next to the bedroom, I'll show you. "I helped my mother-in-law to the bathroom, carefully demonstrated to her how to use the faucet and bathroom, and checked that the hot water was working properly.
"Mother-in-law, if you need anything, call me, I'll help Aunt Zhang cook downstairs." I said.
"Good boy, go get busy, I can do it myself. The mother-in-law smiled and waved her hand.
I gently closed the door for my mother-in-law, silently praying in my heart that my mother-in-law would enjoy it.
After dinner, I took the fruit to the master bedroom to see my mother-in-law. "Mother-in-law, are you resting well? I peeled some fruit for you. ”
"I slept very well, the bed was very comfortable and the bedroom was quiet. The mother-in-law said with a smile.
"That's good. Xiao Ming and I are also very Xi to living together. I smiled and replied, "Mother-in-law, how long are you and your father-in-law going to stay here?"
"The exact time has not been determined, maybe it will take a year or two. The mother-in-law said, "Our old couple has no house outside, so we can live in our son's house for a long time." You young people still have to work, so it shouldn't be convenient to live in the attic, right?"
I was a little embarrassed, my mother-in-law lived with them for a year or two, which really had a great impact on me and Xiao Ming. But I can't directly say that I hope they move out as soon as possible, so I can only deal with it temporarily: "Mother-in-law, it's good to stay for a while, it's great that you and your father-in-law can come." The loft was ok for us though. ”
"yes, I'm glad to see you every day. I laughed.
"It's okay, I can take care of my mother-in-law. I said, "However, they plan to stay for a year or two, and it will affect us quite a lot." ”
"Well, I don't think I can stay long. Xiao Ming frowned and said, "I'll discuss moving out with them as soon as possible." ”
I nodded, and I had a bottom in my heart. I hope Xiao Ming can mention this to his in-laws as soon as possible, and we can also take back the master bedroom as soon as possible.
After a few days, Xiao Ming still didn't mention moving out to his in-laws. I saw that he was a little hesitant and decided to speak on his own.
One day after dinner, I went to see my mother-in-law with fruit and peeled apples for her as usual.
"Mother-in-law, you have lived with your father-in-law for more than a week, but are you still Xi here?" I asked with a smile.
"Very good, I can't bear to move away from your house. The mother-in-law sighed, "We have a month's pension for the old couple, and it is really unbearable to rent a house outside." ”
When I heard my mother-in-law say this, I knew in my heart that they probably weren't going to move out. Now I have to take a stand, or I'll never be able to live in the master bedroom again.
"Mother-in-law, I can understand that you don't want to spend money on rent. But as you know, the master bedroom was originally my room with Xiao Ming. As a young couple, it was really inconvenient for us to live in the attic. I tried to say, "I would like to ask you and your father-in-law to consider moving outside and renting a room for a long time in two months, is it okay?"
"What?" The mother-in-law's face immediately became ugly, "We've only lived for more than a week, and you drove us away?"
"Mother-in-law, I didn't mean to rush you. I explained, "I just hope you understand that the master bedroom is important to me and Ming." We can't live in the attic for long. ”
"Then you can just find another house!" The mother-in-law said unhappily.
"But this is Xiao Ming's home, and we also have the right to live in the master bedroom. I said firmly, "Mother-in-law, I will give you two months, and I hope that you will be able to move out and rent a house when the time comes." ”
"No way!" The mother-in-law immediately blew her hair, "We are old, where we live is not good, we have to squeeze you, can't you be considerate of our old people?"
"Mother-in-law, I respect you, but please respect us too. I struggled to control my emotions, "The master bedroom has to be retracted, that's my bottom line." Let's talk about it in two months. ”
With that, I stood up with a fruit bowl and walked briskly out of the master bedroom.
In the evening, I told Xiao Ming what happened. He seemed very embarrassed, saying that his parents were old and it was indeed inconvenient to rent a house.
"But we can't be forced to live in the attic forever!" I said dissatisfiedly, "You can go talk to them too, my mother-in-law is very angry with me right now." ”
"Okay, let me think again. Xiao Ming hesitated.
After a few days, Xiao Ming still didn't talk to his in-laws about moving. I saw that he always shirked it, and decided to bring it up again.
One day at lunchtime, I plucked up the courage to say to my mother-in-law and father-in-law, "Father-in-law, mother-in-law, I have already mentioned to you before, and I hope you can move out and rent a house within two months." It's been a week, do you have any plans?"
The father-in-law and mother-in-law looked at each other, and the mother-in-law's face immediately became unsightly: "Xiaohong, not long after we came, you urged us to leave, and our old man felt very shameless." ”
"Yes, we don't want to be crowded with you young people all day. The father-in-law said, "It's just that renting a house is too expensive, and our pension is really not enough." ”
I continued to patiently explain: "Father-in-law, I understand your difficulties, but the master bedroom is really important to me and Xiao Ming. We've been married for a year now, and it's not appropriate to live in the attic for a long time. I have given two months and hope you will understand us. ”
"The two of them should have lived in the master bedroom when they lived together, so you should let it go. Xiao Ming also persuaded.
"Then where do we live?" The mother-in-law said dissatisfiedly, "You obviously gave up the master bedroom at the beginning, but now you regret it?"
"We had to let it out in the first place. I explained, "Now that you've been given enough time, it's time to take back the master bedroom." Xiao Ming and I can help you with the rent, but we have to move out within two months. ”
"No way!" The mother-in-law directly patted the case, "We just don't leave, the master bedroom is ours, it's not so easy for you to take it back!"
After saying that, the mother-in-law went upstairs and went back to the room angrily. The father-in-law shook his head helplessly, and also went upstairs to persuade his mother-in-law.
In the evening, I told Xiao Ming that the matter was getting worse and worse, and I had to find a way to solve it.
"But my parents are old and don't want to spend money on rent. Xiao Ming was embarrassed and said, "Or, you can bear with it any longer, and it's not too late to move when they figure it out themselves." ”
"I've been putting up with it for a month!" I was unhappy and said, "They don't respect us at all, and you're too weak." If I want to turn my face with my mother-in-law, I can do it, and the master bedroom must be taken back!"
"Don't get excited, let me think of another way
Seeing that Xiao Ming was always procrastinating, I decided to turn my face directly with my mother-in-law, and be sure to take back the master bedroom within this month.
One day, my mother-in-law went to the supermarket to buy groceries, and I took advantage of her absence to knock on my father-in-law's door.
"Father-in-law, I have something important to tell you separately. "I put it bluntly.
My father-in-law asked me to sit down on the edge of the bed, and said with a smile: "Xiaohong, you can say it, don't hold it in your heart if you have anything." ”
"Father-in-law, I have mentioned it to you and my mother-in-law a few times before, and I hope you can move out of the master bedroom as soon as possible. I said seriously, "Two months have come, and I really hope you can understand that the master bedroom is very important to me and Xiao Ming." Can you agree to move out within this month?"
The father-in-law sighed and said, "Xiaohong, I understand you, but my mother-in-law has a stubborn temper, and she now believes that the master bedroom is ours, and I can't persuade her." ”
"Father-in-law, I have given you plenty of time and reminders. I said firmly, "The master bedroom has to be taken back this month, that's my bottom line." Please be sure to advise your mother-in-law that we can provide moving expenses and two months' rent. But if my mother-in-law doesn't agree, I can only turn my face with her. Please also understand my position. ”
"Father-in-law, I need a clear answer. "I don't back down," I have to move out by the end of this month, it's an ultimatum. Otherwise I will take legal action. ”
"Okay. The father-in-law sighed, "I'll do my best." ”
Please convince my mother-in-law. I got up to leave, "I'll confirm ownership of the house with the landlord, and you have to move out of the master bedroom." ”
At this moment, the mother-in-law came back with the dishes. As soon as she saw me come out of the room, her face immediately changed.
"What are you doing in the public house?" The mother-in-law asked.
"Mother-in-law, I'm just asking my father-in-law again that I want you to move out as soon as possible. I looked my mother-in-law in the eye and didn't flinch.
"I said a long time ago that if I don't move, I won't move!" The mother-in-law roared angrily, "The master bedroom is ours, no one wants to drive us away!"
I said coldly, "In a month's time, I will have a lawyer confirm with you." Please prepare in advance. ”
After saying that, I turned and left, leaving my mother-in-law standing there and speechless.
This time I had to turn my face with my mother-in-law. I've tolerated them occupying the master bedroom for two months, and I can't back down any longer.
After I had a falling out with my mother-in-law, the atmosphere was very bad at home. My mother-in-law hated me so much that she never spoke to me again. I also refused to communicate with her.
Two days later, when I passed by the door of my mother-in-law's room, I heard the voices of my mother-in-law and Aunt Zhang talking inside.
"Aunt Zhang, Xiaohong, this woman is too much, she rushed people after only a few days of our stay, and said that she wanted to find a lawyer. The mother-in-law said indignantly, "This house is yours, don't let her succeed!"
"Alright, I'll go talk to her. Aunt Zhang persuaded.
When I heard this, I was stunned. It turns out that this house belongs to Aunt Zhang, and my mother-in-law has been lying to me!
I immediately found Aunt Zhang and asked her seriously: "Aunt Zhang, please tell me the truth, whose name is the property right of this house?"
Aunt Zhang hesitated for a moment before saying, "This house is indeed mine." But Xiao Ming is also my son, so you can stay. ”
"Aunt Zhang, I can't accept the fact that I was deceived by my mother-in-law. I stressed, "Since the house is yours, I have the right to know the truth." Since my mother-in-law is in your name, she is not qualified to occupy my room. Please support me and I will find a lawyer to solve it as soon as possible. ”
"Okay. Aunt Zhang nodded, "I understand you and will support you." ”
"Thank you, Aunt Zhang. I'm going to contact a lawyer right now. ”
So I immediately found a lawyer friend and told her all the ins and outs of the matter. The lawyer said that this kind of "occupancy" case is very common, and she can help me solve it through legal means.
That night, I went directly to my mother-in-law and asked a lawyer friend to video her on video.
"Mother-in-law, I have contacted the lawyer. I said mercilessly, "This house belongs to Aunt Zhang, and since you live in someone else's name, you have no right to occupy my room." I'll give you two last options: either move out voluntarily within the week, or I'll sue you and enforce the court decision. It's up to you to decide. ”
My mother-in-law was so forced by me that she couldn't speak. After a long time, she said sullenly: "I know, I'll move out in the next few days." But don't think about it!"