Recently, a sister in Beijing asked to withdraw 300,000 yuan from her family to help her younger brother complete the purchase of a wedding house. Unexpectedly, her request was strongly rejected and angrily criticized by her husband. This incident reflects the inherent contradictions in many families and is worth pondering.
According to reports, the younger brother of the Beijing sister is preparing to get married, and there is still a gap of 300,000 yuan in the wedding room to pay off. She offered to withdraw 300,000 yuan from her own savings to her younger brother to help him complete the house.
Unexpectedly, her husband immediately showed strong dissatisfaction and bluntly refused. He said that he made some money by doing business, and the woman's family used to ask for money, and always used him as a free bank. This time you must not ask for it again, my younger brother has the ability to solve it by himself when he gets married.
In fact, no normal person would want their hard-earned money to be used to support other people's families. The same goes for this husband. He hopes that his wife can also think from the perspective of "two people", instead of just staring at his own family every day.
This incident is also a wake-up call for married women who like to help their families ask for money endlessly. A family, a small family should be the first thing to consider. The family's money and resources must first ensure that their husbands and children have a worry-free life, and then they can consider supporting their families outside.
If you always use your husband's money to support your family as you like, it is not only easy to cause conflicts between husband and wife, but also makes outsiders misunderstand that the husband cannot "discipline his wife" well. All this is extremely detrimental to the stability and harmony of a family.
In fact, a family's money and resources are limited. As a wife, it is only natural that she should prioritize the needs of her husband and children. If you always use your husband's money to support your family outside, you will inevitably encounter your husband's disgust and dissatisfaction.
Family harmony must be based on mutual respect and understanding. As a member of the family, everyone should consider the problem from the perspective of "wholeness", and not only look at their own personal interests or the interests of one party.