Beijing ophthalmologist Tao Yong asked his daughter to wash dishes on her 12th birthday, which sparked heated discussions among netizens, and Tao Yong responded that the original intention was to educate her daughter to take on family responsibilities] On December 26, Beijing ophthalmologist Tao Yong shared a family life on his daughter's 12th birthday on Weibo, which mentioned letting his daughter wash dishes after the birthday party, which caused widespread discussion and controversy among netizens. In response, Tao Yong explained that he and his wife have always hoped that their daughter can develop in a balanced way and grow freely, and do not overemphasize achievements, but focus on cultivating her daughter's health, optimism, courage and self-confidence, and ability to take care of herself and others. He admitted that on the child's birthday, letting the child wash the dishes may ignore the child's feelings, and expressed his willingness to accept the suggestions of netizens and constantly revise his education methods. The doctor big V "Ophthalmology Superman Lao Liang" posted a long article in support of Tao Yong, saying that he was his senior brother, not a father-like man. Hello everyone, two days ago on my daughter's birthday, the child was 12 years old, and I wanted to share, as usual, I wrote a small composition record, but I didn't expect the child to wash the dishes This caused a storm on the Internet, and there are some false news spreading, so I will respond here. My parents have a good relationship, they respect each other equally, I am the only child in the family, and the family is not poor. My wife and I grew up in a harmonious and free family atmosphere, and we always wanted our only daughter to grow up in a balanced and free way. We try not to put pressure on her grades, but the important thing is that she is healthy, optimistic, brave and confident, and has the ability to take care of herself and others. At the birthday party, I asked her to pick up vegetables for the elders and wash the dishes after dinner, which was intended to let her know that she was a year older and had to learn to take on more responsibilities at home, but I ignored the feelings of the little birthday star. I thought the humorous words and pictures caused a storm and made me reflect. On the child's birthday, it is indeed inappropriate to deliberately create this so-called "sense of growth ritual" and make ridicule. The education of children is not only in terms of concept, but also in whether every communication and behavior is effective and appropriate. In a family life full of fireworks, everyone is alive. There is no 100% experience of parents, and there is no standard family model to refer to. My family and I are also exploring a suitable parent-child education path and relationship mode, but no matter which path it is, it is accompanied by love. Netizens suggested that I buy a dishwasher, I think it's very good, welcome to recommend. Thank you again for your attention and suggestions, I will continue to revise and strive for improvement.
Judging from this news, Beijing ophthalmologist Tao Yong's behavior of letting his daughter wash dishes on her daughter's birthday sparked heated discussions among netizens. Dr. Tao said that his original intention was to educate his daughter to take on family responsibilities, but it has sparked widespread social discussion. Behind this incident is to highlight some problems in modern family education. Nowadays, many parents pay too much attention to academic Xi and performance, but neglect to cultivate their children's independence and family responsibility. Although Dr. Tao's approach is well-intentioned, it has also caused people to think about parent-child education.
Family education is not only about academics, but more importantly, about cultivating a child's character and sense of social responsibility. In modern society, many children lack independence and housekeeping skills, and they are more protected and pampered. Therefore, Dr. Tao's approach is debatable, but it is also worth learning Xi. In the process of nurturing children, we should not only pay attention to academic Xi performance, but also educate them to learn to take on family responsibilities, which is a process of all-round development. School education and family education should work together to produce a healthy, independent and responsible next generation.
From another point of view, Dr. Tao's approach has also caused people to think about gender education. In today's society, the idea of equality between men and women has been promoted, but in practice there are differences in the way boys and girls are educated in some families. This patriarchal mentality is not conducive to the all-round development of children, and parents should give their children equal attention and education, and should not be prejudiced against their children because of their gender.
Finally, we should maintain a tolerant attitude towards such family education events. Each family has its own way of educating children, but the focus is on allowing children to grow up in a healthy and happy atmosphere, developing their independence and sense of responsibility. I hope that Dr. Tao can find a more suitable way to become a good guide for her daughter in the future education process.