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My name is Li Mei, I am 38 years old, and I have been married to my husband Xiaoqiang for more than ten years. We are college classmates, we have always had a good relationship after we got married, my husband is very good to me, and we also gave birth to a lovely son, Xiao Ming. I have always done my best to take care of the family and be a competent wife and mother.
A few days ago, I found that my husband's mobile phone had the contact information of a strange woman, with the note "Xiaolan". I didn't pay much attention to it at first, thinking it should be a colleague from my husband's company. But then one day, I accidentally saw my husband receive a message from the woman: "Honey, I miss you, you must remember to come and see me at night." Seeing this message, my heart immediately sank, could it be that my husband really has another woman outside?
I tentatively asked my husband, "Husband, who is this Xiaolan in your phone?"
My husband looked a little flustered: "Oh, it's a new colleague in the company, and I have some work to contact." ”
My husband's face was ugly, but he still admitted: "It's a little private matter, but it's not serious, and it doesn't affect our relationship." ”
I was very angry: "A little bit of a private matter? You go to her house every day, how can I believe that it's just a little bit of a private matter? We've been married for so many years, how can you do such a thing?"
My husband said, "I'm sorry, I did something wrong, but it's not to the point of non-divorce." ”
I said, "I can't trust you now, I need to think about what we're talking about." ”
At this time, our son Xiao Ming came home. Seeing that the two of us had wrong faces, he asked with concern, "Mom, Dad, what's wrong with you?
I said to Xiao Ming with red eyes: "We have some problems, we need time to figure them out, and my mother may be very sad during this time." ”
Xiao Ming came over and hugged me and said, "Mom, don't be sad, if there is any problem, we will solve it slowly, and it will be fine." ”
I hugged my son and couldn't help but cry. I decided to divorce my husband, I
I decided to divorce my husband and I really couldn't trust him anymore. I called the lawyer to schedule a divorce consultation.
I was angry and said, "I've been sloppy with you for so long, and you were the ones who were unfaithful to me first!" I'm sad too, but our relationship has broken down and I really can't trust you anymore. ”
My husband said: "It's my fault to cheat, but it's not to the point where I have to get a divorce." Children need both parents, and you choose to divorce for this little problem, which is so irresponsible!"
I said, "Little problem, this is a huge hurt to me! I can't trust you anymore, I've been deceived by you for so many years, and I'm so pitiful." ”
While we were arguing, Xiao Ming returned. When he saw our fierce argument, he couldn't help but redden: "Mom, Dad, don't you quarrel, okay?"
I said to Xiao Ming distressedly: "Baby, I'm sorry, it's mom and dad who have some problems, don't worry, we'll solve it as soon as possible." ”
Xiao Ming cried and said, "I'm just worried that you will get divorced, so that our family will be gone, and I will be very sad." ”
I watched my son cry and felt sad. The husband left the house with an ugly face.
I was saddened, but I firmly said, "I will apply for custody of the child." You've done all this, and I can't trust him to live with you. ”
The husband was annoyed and angry: "Okay, then break up completely, I will let the lawyer fight with you to the end!"
That night, Xiao Ming looked at me crying, he said: "Mom, I know you are very sad, in fact, I have already thought about it, I will support your decision, you can rest assured that you will divorce, I will always be with you." ”
I was touched and gently hugged my son. I knew that Xiao Ming must have been in pain too, but he still chose to support me.
A few days later, Xiao Ming said to me: "Mom, I have earned a little money from my part-time job these days, and I will give you 10,000 yuan, and you can use it to fight a lawsuit or do what you like, don't be too sad." ”
I looked at my son and was thrilled.
I decided to think about it and not choose to divorce because of a moment of sadness.
I said to Xiao Ming, "Baby, Mom knows what you want." But Mom and Dad's affairs still need to be considered, and I will make a careful decision. ”
Xiao Ming nodded: "Mom, don't worry, you can decide after you figure it out." I will always support you. ”
I hugged Xiao Ming, and then went for a walk in a nearby park by myself to think about it carefully.
Maybe I went too far and asked for a divorce directly, without giving my husband a chance to explain. After all, the foundation of our relationship has been for so many years, and I need to give this family a chance to preserve.
The husband was a little surprised, but still said, "Well, we should have a good talk, the divorce is really too hasty." ”
I said, "I want you to be honest enough to explain to me what this Xiaolan means to you." Do you really still love me?"
My husband sighed: "I shouldn't hide it from you, Xiaolan is just a friend at work, and I somehow developed like this." I assure you, I really still love you and Xiao Ming deeply. ”
I looked into my husband's eyes, and there was apology and sincerity in them.
I said, "Then can you stop contacting Xiaolan in the future?
My husband held my hand: "I promise that I will only see you and Xiao Ming in the future." Let's start over, and I'll pursue you all over again, just like I did when we fell in love. ”
I nodded and decided to give my husband and the family a fresh start.
In the following days, my husband really changed a lot, and every day when he came home, he would take Xiao Ming and me out to eat delicious food and watch movies. Every night, we also find time to walk and chat together to regain the romantic feeling we had at the beginning.
I also began to reflect on whether I had been working too hard lately and neglecting to maintain our relationship. I decided to give my husband more attention and plan some family activities as well.
One night, our family of three went out for a night cruise on the Huangpu River, and the wind by the river was very gentle. Xiao Ming happily ran in front, and my husband and I held hands and walked slowly.
"Husband, I'm sorry, I'm in too much of a hurry during this time. I said.
"I'm also at fault, I broke my promise first. I will cherish you and Xiao Ming even more in the future. My husband said.
We decided to work together to give this family a great new start. Looking at Xiao Ming's happy smiling face, I knew that we would definitely be able to get through this crisis and move on.
But just when our relationship was just getting better, I received a lawyer's letter, it turned out that my husband had already started to prepare for divorce, and his lawyer was still following up on the matter.
I went to my husband and asked, "Didn't you say let's start over? Why is your lawyer still dealing with the divorce process?"
My husband looked embarrassed: "This, maybe because I have already paid the lawyer's fees before, so they are still following up." But we're back together, so let's stop. ”
I was still a little skeptical: "Then you should quickly ask them to stop, so that there will be no chaos in the future." ”
My husband said, "Okay, don't worry, I'll go to a lawyer tomorrow and ask him to stop all procedures." ”
I asked, "Have you gone to a lawyer? Has the divorce process stopped?"
I immediately became angry: "So you didn't stop them at all, did you? You obviously still want to get a divorce!"
My husband said, "No, I just signed the contract, and it's not convenient to stop immediately." ”
I was sad: "I knew that you didn't really want to repair our relationship at all, you were just perfunctory to me!"
My husband said, "Mei, you calm down first, I just need a little time to deal with this matter." ”
"I'm so stupid to believe you're going to change! We could have started over, but you obviously don't mean that at all!" I cried.
At this time, Xiao Ming came home and saw that we were arguing again, he said with red eyes, "Dad, how can you continue to prepare for divorce?
The husband's face was ugly: "It's just a misunderstanding, I'll solve it, son, don't worry." ”
I knew I couldn't trust my husband anymore. I said to Xiao Ming, "Baby, I'm sorry, it's my mother's misjudgment." I'll reconsider our problem, don't worry about you. ”
Xiao Ming nodded and silently returned to his room. I looked at his emaciated back and felt very distressed.
That night, I slept alone in the living room, tears streaming down my face. I really miss the short time we had before, and I thought that the relationship could finally be rebuilt and we could be a happy family again. I remembered Xiao Ming's supportive eyes, and my heart was even more sad.
I really want to take Xiao Ming out of here and into a new environment where it's just our mother and son.
"Baby, get up. Mom invited you to go out today, just the two of us. I said to Xiao Ming.
Xiao Ming rubbed his sleepy eyes: "Mom, where are we going?"
"Let's go to the playground and play all day, and in the evening Mom will take you to eat your favorite hot pot!" I said.
"Okay!" Xiao Ming smiled happily.
Our mother and son had a happy day of playing, and Xiao Ming's laughter infected me, and my mood was a little lighter.
In the evening, we went to eat hot pot, and Xiao Ming said while eating, "Mom, I like to be with you the most." Shall we come out more often in the future?"
I nodded, tears streaming down my cheeks.
Xiao Ming looked at me with concern: "Mom, don't be sad. No matter what happens, I will always have your back. ”
I hugged Xiao Ming, and my heart was full of strength. I decided to divorce my husband and start a new life with Xiao Ming.
When I got home, my husband was there, and when he saw the two of us, his face was ugly: "You mother and son went out to play for a day? The child belongs to the two of us, you can't take him alone like this." ”
I calmly said, "I have the right to take my son out." I figured it out and would file for divorce as soon as possible. ”
The husband was furious: "You selfish woman, you only think about yourself, and you don't think about the feelings of your children at all!"
"I'm selfish, I've done so much for this family, and you have another woman outside!" I raised the volume.
"Don't make any noise!" Xiao Ming cried and said, "I support my mother, you did it first, don't blame your mother anymore!"
My husband's face was ugly, and he went straight back to the room. Xiao Ming hugged me and said, "Mom, let's go." ”
I gently stroked his hair and nodded.
I looked at my son and was very moved. I decided to accept Xiao Ming's kindness, and after the divorce, I would take him to a new place to live.
The divorce case was quickly opened, and I applied for custody of Xiao Ming. The judge ruled that Xiao Ming would be handed over to me for custody based on the circumstances.
The husband said excitedly: "This is not fair! Children need fathers!"
I calmly said, "What you did was not fair. I will
I will keep in touch with Xiao Ming, but he needs a responsible and loving home, and I will provide him with such a home.
After the divorce case was over, I began to prepare for moving to a new home with Xiao Ming. Xiao Ming looked a little melancholy, but he still kept encouraging me.
One day, he said to me, "Mom, you seem to be under a lot of pressure, and I want to surprise you and make you happy." ”
I patted his head and said, "As long as you're here, mom is happy every day." We will soon be able to start a new life. ”
A few days later, Xiao Ming said to me mysteriously: "Mom, my surprise is ready, I'll take you to see it!"
He took me to a beautiful neighborhood, pointed to a cozy little house and said, "Mom, look, this is my new home!"
My eyes widened, "What? How much does this house cost?"
Xiao Ming said: "I paid the deposit with the money I saved, and the rest of the installments will be fine." Mom, do you like it?"
I was so excited that I couldn't speak, so I could only hug Xiao Ming tightly. It turned out that the money he saved was not for me to live, but to prepare a new home!
Xiao Ming said: "Mom, you have suffered so many grievances in your hometown, I want to give you a new environment." We will be able to move in soon and live happily ever after!"
I burst into tears: "Baby, Mom is so touched! Mom feels very happy to have you." ”
A week later, we officially moved into our new home. The community has a beautiful environment and the house is warm and comfortable, which is prepared by Xiao Ming.
I kissed Xiao Ming's forehead, full of gratitude: "It was you who gave my mother strength and gave me the courage to start again." In the future, we will support each other to overcome all difficulties. ”