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On the day of the blind date, my palms were sweaty with nervousness, but Li Mei chatted with me very casually. She said that she likes literature and music, and usually likes to read quietly by herself. This fits my personality very well, and I'm also a steady person who likes to read. We chatted for two hours, and I made her laugh a few times in between. When she left that day, Li Mei took the initiative to leave her mobile phone number.
Then we started to keep in touch more often, going out to eat at least twice a week. Li Mei works in a primary school in a poor mountainous area, and her life is very simple. Her greatest interest is reading. I found myself getting more and more attracted to her. A month later, I plucked up the courage to confess to her. To my surprise, Li Mei agreed to date me.
Our relationship is getting closer. Li Mei told me that her parents died two years ago and now lives with her younger brother, Li Gang. Once, Li Mei invited me to her house as a guest. I brought a gift with me. Li Gang warmly welcomed me and praised me for being a good person.
Since then, I have been going to Li Mei's house often. In order to please her, I often give her flowers, buy her favorite books or music albums. Maybe I was too attentive, and within a few months, Li Mei agreed to marry me. I couldn't be happier that someone was willing to spend the rest of my life with me!
I happily said to my mother, "Mom, I'm getting married!" The other party asked for a bride price of 180,000 yuan, what do you think?"
My mom hesitated for a moment and said, "It's not a low amount, but if you really like it, go ahead and do it, and your dad and I will support you." ”
On Li Mei's side, her younger brother Li Gang is also very supportive of this marriage. "I think Zhang Zhang is a good person, if you have a good relationship, go and register, and I'll solve the bride price. ”
After the parents agreed to the marriage, Li Mei and I officially confirmed the wedding date. We decided to have an engagement ceremony in a month and a wedding in six months.
On the day of the engagement ceremony, the scene was lively. Li Mei was wearing a lilac evening dress, which was particularly beautiful and moving. When she exchanged rings, she had tears in her eyes and my hands trembled with excitement. After it was over, Li Gang said happily: "Brother, I'm really happy for you." From now on, you will be a part of our Li family. ”
After getting engaged, I began to notice that Li Mei had some not-so-good Xi. She often goes to high-end shopping malls to buy brand-name clothes, and she also buys the most expensive cosmetics. Once, we went to the supermarket to shop, and she piled up her cart with imported food, and I emptied my entire wallet at checkout.
Once, we had a big fight over money. Li Mei insisted on buying a brand-name handbag worth 20,000 yuan, but I felt that it was too wasteful and wanted to persuade her to change to a cheaper one. She scolded me for being stingy, and I got angry and said she didn't know how to be temperate. This was the worst argument we had in a year of our relationship.
I was distressed, so I consulted with Li Gang. I said, "Why does your sister spend a lot of money lately, she didn't do this before?" Li Gang sighed: "Actually, my sister has always been like this, she just attaches importance to enjoyment, you may not know much about it before." There's something wrong with her personality. ”
After much deliberation, I decided that I had to talk to Li Mei in person to see if we should break off our engagement.
One day, Li Mei came to my house as a guest. I plucked up the courage to say to her, "Meimei, we need to talk about some of your recent behaviors. I find that your spending Xi is too unrestrained, which is not quite in line with my philosophy. What do you think we're going on?"
Li Mei frowned: "I spend the money I earn myself, I don't need you to take care of it, do you?
"I didn't want to control you," I explained, "but I just felt that if I had a different philosophy of life after marriage, there would definitely be more conflicts in the future." Do you say?"
"Zhang Li, I think you regret giving me such a high bride price! Didn't you agree some time ago? You are a debt!" Li Mei raised her voice, anger in her tone.
"You listen to me first," I tried to keep my composure, "I really loved you at the time, and I accepted your offer." But now it seems that our way of life is so different. I'm afraid we're going to have a hard time going for long. What do you say?"
Li Mei was silent, and after a long while, she sighed: "Maybe what you said makes sense." I like to enjoy, and you value frugality more. This can really be a problem. ”
I saw that her attitude softened, so I proposed, "Why don't we cancel the engagement, and think that we have tried and made mistakes during the relationship." Do you think you can?"
I was also sad, but knew it was the right decision. We agreed that we would go together in a few days to tell our parents that the marriage would be cancelled.
Sure enough, both parents were shocked and saddened to learn that we were going to cancel the engagement. Li Mei's parents insisted that I pay the bride price, but my parents thought that Li Mei was at a loss. We argued for a long time, and in the end, under the mediation of Li Gang, we reluctantly reached a consensus that no one needed to pay liquidated damages.
In this way, my marriage contract with Li Mei was officially canceled. When parting, Li Mei said to me with red eyes: "I'm sorry, Zhang Li, I will remember this lesson." You're sure to find a girl that's more suitable for you. ”
"I also wish you to find true love soon. Goodbye, Li Mei. I said softly.
Looking at the back of her leaving, my heart couldn't calm down for a long time. To love someone, in the end, you have to see her essence. It looks as beautiful as a flower, and its fragrance can be known; The depth of affection depends on its sincerity. I believe that Heaven will let me meet my true soulmate. Until then, I still have my own business to work on and my life to manage carefully.
After canceling my engagement, I fell into a low mood. I am always absent-minded when I work, and I often think about the bits and pieces with Li Mei.
My colleague Xiao Wang noticed that I was not in a good mood and asked me with concern: "Lao Zhang, have you been thinking about anything lately?
I replied with a wry smile: "My girlfriend and I have canceled the engagement, maybe I haven't fully come out yet, so don't look at me." ”
"Ah, are you engaged? Why did you cancel it all of a sudden?" Xiao Wang looked puzzled.
I briefly told him the reason for the breakup, and Xiao Wang said to me seriously after listening to it: "Lao Zhang, I think the decision you made is right." You have different philosophies, and there will definitely be more contradictions in the future. Separation is better for both of them. After a long time, you will be able to come out. ”
Xiao Wang's words made me feel a little relieved. I nodded and said, "Thank you, I'll be fine." ”
A month later, I gradually came out of the shadow of the breakup. The bits and pieces with Li Mei have become a part of my memory, but I know that only by letting go of the past can I welcome a new beginning.
One day, my mother said to me excitedly, "Son, your sister introduced you to a girl who was her college classmate, do you want to meet her?"
I smiled and said, "Okay, let's see you, but I'm not going to rush it." ”
So with the help of my sister, I met Lin Xiao. Lin Xiao is a gentle and virtuous girl, with a sweet appearance and a very low-key personality. I never feel embarrassed to chat with her, and the two have very good interests and hobbies.
After a party, I jokingly said to Lin Xiao: "I think we get along quite well, do you want to think about being together?"
Lin Xiao replied with a smile: "What you said makes sense, I think we can give it a try." ”
Since then, Lin Xiao and I have started a sweet relationship. This time, I didn't rush to discuss the big matter of marriage, but slowly developed a relationship with her. Now we get along very well, and I gradually see the beauty in her heart.
I now understand that love needs to be cultivated slowly and needs to be constantly honed in daily life. I will no longer be deceived by appearances, but will value the inner qualities of a person. Meeting Lin Xiao made me feel hopeful about love and life again. I believe that our relationship will grow deeper and deeper, and eventually bear the fruit of happiness.
After dating Lin Xiao for a year, I decided to propose to her. This time, I didn't put forward any more bride price conditions, but asked Lin Xiao directly: "I think the two of us are very suitable, are you willing to marry me?"
Lin Xiao smiled and nodded: "You're right, the two of us are very happy together." I am willing to marry you. ”
"Great!" I happily shook her hand, "Then let's get engaged." Do you have any bride price needs?"
Lin Xiao shook his head and said, "You don't need so much, you can give me a symbolic 10,000 yuan." I'm sure we'll be happy. ”
Hearing this, a warm current rose in my heart. Lin Xiao doesn't care about material things, only cares about our feelings, which touches me very much.
The engagement ceremony was held as scheduled, and Lin Xiao was wearing a pale yellow skirt and was full of energy. My family says we're a match made in heaven.
The wedding took place on a sunny weekend. Lin Xiao put on a white wedding dress, beautiful and moving. My fingers trembled a little because I was too excited, and Lin Xiao gently held my hand and exchanged rings with me.
After we got married, we lived a simple and happy life. Lin Xiao doesn't like shopping, and is as frugal as me. Every month we save money regularly to plan for the future.
One day, my colleague Xiao Zhang said to me, "Lao Zhang, I heard that you are married?"
I smiled and said, "Yes, my new wife is a good girl, and we are very affectionate." ”
"Then don't let her run away!" Xiao Zhang quipped.
"No, I've got the right person this time. I laughed.
The days with Lin Xiao were dull but sweet. We would do chores together, watch TV or chat together in the evenings. Occasionally, I go out to the movies to relax. Lin Xiao will take care of my daily life, and I will do my best to make her happy.
Now I am very grateful to God for letting me meet Lin Xiao. Appearance and condition are important, but true lasting love is still based on the fit of two hearts. After the lessons I learned, I am now much more mature than before. I believe that Lin Xiao is my confidant in this life, and we will go through the ups and downs of life hand in hand.
After five years of marriage, Lin Xiao and I have fully adapted to married life. We discuss big things together, and we support each other's causes.
One night, I said to Lin Xiao, "My dear, the company is recruiting people recently, do you want to come and work with me?" ”
Lin Xiao smiled and said, "This is a good idea, it just so happens that I also want to change the environment." Then you can help me talk to the leader, I will prepare my resume. ”
Through my introduction, Lin Xiao successfully entered my company and became my colleague. We would have lunch together at work and go home together after work. Colleagues say we are a model couple.
Xiao Wang said to me one day: "Lao Zhang, you and Lin Xiao have a really good relationship, and I have learned a lot of experience from you, and I will also find such a virtuous help in the future!"
"Haha, then you'll have to work hard!" I said jokingly.
In this way, Lin Xiao and I have a very happy life. In addition to work, our biggest interest is to raise our baby daughter Xiaofang together. She is 3 years old this year, very smart and clever, which is our pride.
On weekends, we will take Xiaofang to the park to play. Lin Xiao will dress her up beautifully. Looking at my daughter's innocent smiling face, I feel extremely happy and satisfied.
One day, Xiaofang said to me, "Dad, I want to marry someone as good as you when I grow up." ”
I laughed and teased her: "Then Daddy wants to check if he is really a good person, don't you know?"
"I know, what you taught me is not just to look at the surface, but to look at the sincerity!" Xiao Fang said smartly.
I laughed and rubbed her hair. I will pass on my experience to my daughter and teach her to distinguish between truth and falsehood and to experience true love.
On the road of life, I have experienced frustration and confusion, and I have also tasted painful lessons. But finally, I met my soulmate. After the wind and rain, you can see the rainbow. I am grateful to God for allowing me to find true happiness. I will walk through the rest of my life hand in hand with Lin Xiao and witness our old age together.