It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in a family is the most difficult, until I watched the communication between netizens to help mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It turned out that the fuse was here with the messenger.
The mother-in-law's rice is spicy, so let the husband and daughter-in-law say how much they can eat, and if they can't eat, just pour it. My husband passed the word, and my mother said that it was spicy, I love to eat, and I don't like to eat [crying silently] [covering my face] [covering my face]
Last time, I asked my husband to tell my mother-in-law to change a few dishes, and I couldn't eat potatoes every day, and my husband said, "Mom, don't cook potatoes anymore, she's tired of eating, and she will go out to eat potatoes again." "My God, the direct mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflict escalated.
Therefore, whether the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is good or not, the husband plays a great role, and many daughters-in-law say that the mother-in-law is not good, in fact, you blame the wrong person, and if you want to blame, blame the middleman
Even if it's the same thing, if the expression or tone is wrong, the words that come out can be understood by people to mean different things! [Covering face]
When I was pregnant, my back hurt, my mother-in-law gave me her pillow, but I couldn't smell the fragrance, my mother-in-law's pillow had the fragrance of shampoo, and I asked my husband to return it to my mother-in-law.
Husband: Mom, the pillow is for you, dy doesn't need it, she said your pillow smells [smile] [smile] [smile]
I asked my husband and mother-in-law to say, the child is too young, don't let the child eat snacks, the child can't digest it, my husband: Mom, don't let the child eat snacks in the future, my daughter-in-law said, it's you who let him eat snacks every day to go to the hospital every day [tears] [tears]
We were going to go to the movies, and he bought both tickets, and then he asked his parents if they wanted to go to the movies, and before they could reply, my husband turned to me and said, "You don't want them to go!"
My son was crying in confinement, my mother-in-law hugged for a long time, and I said to my husband at night, let my mother-in-law take a break tomorrow, don't hold the child, and then my husband ran to say: People told you not to hug tomorrow, my mother-in-law kept asking what's wrong, what's wrong, I heard in the room that my mother-in-law thought that I was not satisfied with her holding the child, I quickly ran out and said, Mom, I said that you are too tired to hold the child these days, and rest tomorrow
My mother-in-law was cooking at my place and was ready to go back, and then I thought to myself that it would not be easy for the elderly to cook, so let her stop cleaning and I would do it myself, but my husband said to my face that I disliked her, and she went back and I was going to clean up [smile] [smile] [smile]
I asked my daughter to tell her grandmother: quit smoking, I have a heart attack. My daughter said to her grandmother, "My mother told you to quit smoking, and if you don't quit smoking, you will die!"
Sometimes the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is poor, and a big reason is that the son not only can't play a reconciling role in the middle, but also stirs up all kinds of things in the middle
Originally, this was a funny video, but it made me cry, marrying a husband with a problem with emotional intelligence, can really hurt you for a lifetime, a word can make you a good person in the eyes of others, and a word can also make you a villain in everyone's mouth
No wonder the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarreled with their son and kept silent, it turned out that the pits were all buried by himself, which was too sinister