In this life, except for life and death, everything else is a trivial matter.
There is no doubt that life is precious, and money cannot buy it.
The question is, how can we protect our lives? Active exercise is one thing, but more importantly, we can see the truth about people and society.
Han Ying, a writer of the Western Han Dynasty, said: "People have three deaths instead of life, and they take it themselves." ”
As a human being, the most feared thing is to die unexpectedly, and you need to actively avoid it.
To live according to the law of birth, old age, sickness and death, to the end of life, life is smooth and smooth.
No matter how old you are, here are a few ways to save your life and be prepared.
01
Speechless, don't cause trouble.
As the saying goes, "Sickness comes from the mouth, and misfortune comes from the mouth." ”
The human tongue, like a knife and axe, can hurt people at every turn.
The person who was hurt by you will be angry, and in turn will hurt you, when will you be wronged.
During the Warring States Period, Han Fei, the son of South Korea, watched the decline of his country's power and wrote many letters to suggest, but King Han was not the same thing.
With disappointment, he wrote more than 100,000 words of works such as "Lonely Anger", "Five Worms", "Inner and Outer Reserves", "Saying Forest" and "Saying Difficult", telling about his Legalist thoughts.
After reading "Lonely Anger" and "Five Worms", King Yingzheng of Qin sighed with emotion: "Wow! ”
Once, Han Fei went on a business trip to Qin at public expense, and Yingzheng loved him very much and stayed to discuss the policy of governing the country.
Han Fei gushed about his thoughts and persuaded Ying Zheng not to attack South Korea for the time being.
When Li Si and Yao Jia, the powerful ministers of the Qin State, heard Han Fei's words, they said, "This person is nothing more than to protect Korea, not to help the Qin State. Reuse or destroy ......"
In the end, Han Fei was killed. He wrote in "Difficult to Say" that lobbying the king is a disaster, but he himself is still trapped in it.
No matter how smart you are, you can't escape the routine of saying too much and losing it. Only by keeping your mouth shut can you avoid the routine, after all, you will hide far away from the beginning.
The philosopher Plato said, "The wise speak because they have something to say, and the fool speaks because they want to speak." ”
Really smart people always think before they speak. Think about the situation and the consequences of speaking, and avoid getting around yourself.
When others are fighting with each other, you are reasoning, you are nothing more than turning yourself into someone else's enemy, and whoever you help to speak is offending people.
Some things can't be explained clearly, you have to be reasonable, and others think it's strong words.
When you meet a fierce person, you have to say a few words, it must be adding fuel to the fire, and people are angry, which is not good for you.
In the family, nagging is annoying, leading to alienation of the relationship, and even turning against each other.
In this life, people learn to speak in three or five years, and learn to shut up in one life, silence is golden.
02
Ignore, no profit.
Human eyes have more than 100 million pixels, but they can't see people's hearts clearly.
If you keep staring at others, you will trap yourself, and you will not be able to interpret the behavior of others 100% clearly, and even when you look at each other, there is a fierce light in your eyes.
If you are looking at profit, it is even more terrifying, because when you are watching, others are also watching, and there is no doubt that there will be a fight.
There are also people who put the interests in front of you and let you see them. If you care, you'll be led by the nose.
How many birds, because they covet a grain of feed, are locked in cages and can't get out for the rest of their lives.
How many tigers, because they coveted a piece of meat, fell into a trap and lost their dignity.
During the Zhou Dynasty, the kingdoms of Yu and Yu were allies and decided to deal with foreign enemies together.
After years of cooperation, both countries are safe.
One day, Jin Xiangong sent someone to send a BMW and jewelry, and arrived in Yu Kingdom.
The king of Yu was very happy when he saw the jewels and rode around on a horse. After all, the Jin Kingdom is a big country, and there are many rare treasures, and it would be even better if it could form an alliance with the Jin Kingdom.
The minister's husband Gong Zhiqi persuaded: "If you have no merit, you will not be allowed to go to the Three Treasures Hall if you have nothing to do, you must pay attention to it, the Jin Kingdom is not well-intentioned." ”
The king did not listen, believing that the ministers were too careful.
A few days later, the envoy of Jin Xiangong said, "We are going to attack the kingdom of Qiu, please make it convenient." Besides, the Kingdom of Qiu is destroyed, and the Kingdom of Jin is the biggest backer. ”
In the end, the State of Yu watched the Kingdom of Yu be destroyed, and then watched the Kingdom of Jin suddenly turn against itself and occupy the cities of the State of Yu, leaving behind the historical allusion of "False Dao Defeat".
Seeing interests and forgetting their own safety, such examples abound.
As the saying goes, people die for money, and birds die for food. When we only have interests in our eyes, we will forget human feelings and ignore dangers.
In places where wild fruits are fragrant, there are also poisonous snakes. Only without vision can you stay away from poisonous snakes.
03
No fighting, no winning.
Life is a process, and nothing is brought with us by life or taken away by death.
Depending on your position, if you are going to retire after the age of fifty, and you are reluctant to leave, then it will be troublesome. Someone knocked you down.
Even Wu Zetian was forced to give up the throne in his old age, and Tang Xuanzong also lost the throne during the Anshi Rebellion and had to be the emperor. The emperor has to give way, let alone ordinary people?
Lao Tzu said: "The way of heaven is to win without fighting." ”
If you don't fight, you can live in the moment and enjoy the moment.
The indisputable root is to show weakness.
Look at your teeth and tongue. In his later years, his teeth were gone, but his tongue was still there. The power of softness is immeasurable.
A person who shows weakness has the power of softness, and seems to have lost a lot, but in fact he has gained more.
There is no dispute between husband and wife, your weakness preserves love, so that you can accompany each other for a lifetime, and you can still have someone to take care of you when you are old, so that your life is protected.
Don't argue with outsiders, you take a step back, and people will pass. Then, you can pass by without a hitch. There is no need, thousands of troops go to squeeze the single-plank bridge, it is better to pass in turn, you cross last, it doesn't matter.
All the things that are in dispute are "points of interest and fire", which will lead to all kinds of confrontations and hurt themselves. Indisputable, for a lifetime, with a smile.
04
In this life, we can't manage others well, and the only one who can manage them well is ourselves.
If you want to protect your life, you should not hand over your life to others, but take it into your own hands.
The world is big, it belongs to me, it belongs to you, and finally it belongs to those who live long and live well.
The writer Yishu said: "Be quiet in everything, come quietly, go quietly, work quietly, harvest quietly, and avoid noise." ”
There is only one life, what to fight for, what to say, what to see?
As soon as you let go, everything is free.
Author: Cloth Clothes Coarse Food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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