One spring 14 years ago, Fu Seoul and Lao Liu became legally married at a grand wedding. With only each other in their eyes, they believe that they have found the other half of their lives, and it is their expectation to grow old together.
In order to fulfill their family life, the two decided to move in with Fu's parents-in-law and their own parents. At the beginning, Fu Seoul was very much looking forward to this kind of big family life, she felt that her children could be cared for by many elders, and she could also have parents to help take care of the children and reduce the burden.
Lao Liu, an easy-going man, can also get along well with his parents on both sides. Everything was so beautiful and peaceful. Fu Seoul often leans on Lao Liu's arms, and the two of them talk about a bright future, and the laughter is endless.
Life is supposed to be so simple and happy. However, a good life is always short-lived. When Fu Seoul put all his mind on work, the undercurrent of the big family surged. The life Xi of his in-laws and parents became more and more different from his own, and Fu Seoul began to feel stressed.
She could often hear her mother-in-law and mother chattering and complaining, saying that she didn't know how to do housework and didn't take care of Lao Liu and the children. A hint of displeasure flashed across Fu Seoul's face, and she began to reflect on whether she was really suitable for such a big family life.
After work, she would lie in bed tossing and turning, her mind full of the nagging of her in-laws and parents and the crying of her children, and she felt more tired and irritable than ever. Sometimes she feels that her in-laws only use her as a free babysitter and childcare machine, rather than a flesh-and-blood person.
She doesn't want to live under the supervision of her parents every day anymore, she needs to be free. Fu Seoul confided in Lao Liu with red eyes, she really couldn't stand such a noisy and tense environment.
Lao Liu looked at his wife helplessly, and it was difficult for him to choose who to stand on. A storm is brewing, and Fu Seoul must make choices about his lifestyle.
After careful consideration, the child has grown up this year, and Fu Seoul finally mustered up the courage to make a difficult decision - to move out of his hometown and live with Lao Liu and his children.
She needs a space of her own, not surrounded by her in-laws and parents.
In fact, for so many years, Fu Seoul has been shouldering the burden of this big family, she is busy with work, often needs to go out for business, and has no time to take care of the family. She thought that she would live a happy life after getting married and having children, but she didn't expect that she would become the pillar of this family.
She had to work hard to earn money to support her family, and she had to endure pressure from all sides. Fu Seoul seems to be a strong woman with a successful career, but her heart has long been shattered.
Fu Seoul also realized that Lao Liu, an ordinary man, was not capable of giving her more spiritual support. She needed an arm to lean on, and Lao Liu could only watch her work hard with a smile on his face.
Fu Seoul's eyes were red, she really wanted to have a place to talk about her thoughts, but there was no one around to listen.
"I'm really tired, tired, and I want to live just for myself. Fu Seoul muttered to himself. For so many years, she had forgotten what kind of life she really wanted.
She is no longer the girl who was full of fantasies about love back then, she has changed, and she needs to live for herself.
After moving out of his hometown, Fu Seoul finally felt the silence he had not felt for a long time. No longer hearing the nagging of her parents and mother-in-law, and the noisy voices of her children, she sat on the balcony, blowing the evening breeze, and her heart was at peace like never before.
She can finally live her own life, no longer being dictated by her parents, she can eat what she wants to eat, do what she wants, and don't need to consider anyone's opinion.
Fu Seoul was in a good mood, and his face was filled with a relieved smile. She began to enjoy this relaxed and laid-back pace of life.
and Lao Liu are getting along more and more harmoniously, without the disturbance of their parents, which makes their feelings warm. The two would hold hands while watching TV series, and occasionally talk about the romantic love of the year.
Fu Seoul felt as if he had returned to the days of love back then, and life was so beautiful.
The children also come back to visit on weekends and the family is happy. Fu Seoul will carefully prepare a hearty dinner for the children, and the children will also tell her interesting stories about school and friends.
Looking at the happy smiling faces of the children, Fu Seoul felt extremely relieved and satisfied.
But the calm life also gave Fu Seoul more time to reflect and relax. When she no longer spends all her time occupied by family and work, she has the opportunity to really examine her life.
She suddenly realized that she had carried too much of this family, and she didn't want to be the pillar of this family anymore, and she had hardly reaped her own happiness after so many years of hard work.
She began to inexplicably resent Lao Liu, an ordinary man, feeling that he was not capable of giving her more emotional and life support. After many years of marriage, she has paid far more than she gains, and her life is not complete.
Fu Seoul's eyes were red, she was still young, beautiful, and capable, and she deserved to live better. She didn't want to spend her life like this, she wanted to experience another life.
So, Fu Seoul filed for divorce. She thinks she needs a new life and doesn't want to be overwhelmed by the weight of reality anymore. She knew that this choice would be painful for many people, but it was her only way out.
Even if the world doesn't understand her, she has to live for herself once.
"It's time for me to let go. Fu Seoul thought. Fate gave her a fresh start, and she didn't want to miss it again.
She believes that the future will be better and that she can still live the life she wants. After the divorce, Fu Seoul lived a free and easy single life. No longer bound by anyone or anything, she can live her own life.
She goes out shopping with her friends and can buy whatever she wants, regardless of her family. Occasionally, she will also participate in some high-end cocktail parties to meet successful people and expand her network.
Fu Seoul loves this rhythm of life, and she loves the feeling of only living in the moment. Occasionally, she would think of Lao Liu, but she knew she had made the right choice.
She no longer sacrifices for anyone, she wants to love herself. Although she is occasionally lonely, Fu Seoul believes that as long as she works hard, she will be able to live a life that satisfies her. This is a new chapter in her life.
Fu Seoul's story is thought-provoking. As an ordinary person, it is not easy to maintain a long-term marriage, and both parties need to cherish and pay together.
As a woman, don't just live for your family, learn to love yourself and give yourself a free space. Everyone should have the right to choose the lifestyle that suits them best and live life to the fullest.
In fact, true happiness does not lie in the external living environment, but comes from inner peace and satisfaction. Therefore, we must learn to filter out the noise of the outside world and listen to the inner voice in order to find the meaning of life.
Love and marriage need to be maintained by both parties, and it is difficult to last without the dedication and dedication of one party. So, it is still necessary to cherish the present moment and spend every good time with your loved ones.