For many men, building a family and a business is undoubtedly an important goal in life, and it also forms the core measure of male success. In the traditional values of the Chinese nation, a successful man should have a complete and stable family structure and a prosperous career foundation. If a man can create a harmonious and happy family environment and have outstanding achievements in the field of career, then he will often be regarded by society as a competent husband and a person of extraordinary talent.
As key figures in the head of the family, men are expected to take on the important task of raising families and sustaining their livelihoods. This inner sense of responsibility is one of the first qualities that a man should possess. They need to be engaged in an active work process to create a stable and comfortable living environment for their families, as well as solid material security. It not only covers the needs of maintaining the daily expenses of the family, but also has a comprehensive plan and preparation measures for the future life. A responsible man will pay close attention to the dynamic needs of the family and strive to achieve the vision of a better life that the family expects.
In the actual trajectory of life, there are some men who do not fulfill this responsibility. For various reasons, they may choose to shirk their family responsibilities and not shoulder the responsibility of providing for their families. These men either lack precarious occupations or lack the motivation to advance their careers, making it difficult for them to provide adequate financial assistance to their families. Some men are even overly dependent on the income of their spouses or family members, without the slightest willingness to take financial responsibility themselves. What is even more worrying is that some men, despite their physical fitness, have no intention of working and rely on the support of their families to survive. They may be mired in bad habits such as video games and gambling, and lack any substantial contribution to their families. Such a man not only fails to fulfill his responsibility to raise the family, but also puts a heavy burden and endless pressure on the family.
On the other side of the Internet, a woman is telling netizens about the melancholy and bleak married life she has experienced. Her husband has become a heavy source of financial pressure for the family, and since their marriage, he has lost his enthusiasm and desire for work. Every day, he curls up in the comfort of his bed, immerses himself in the virtual world on his phone screen, or sits in front of his computer, desperately immersed in the world of the game. To make matters worse, he was completely indifferent to other family matters or responsibilities.
Due to the husband's failure to fulfill his responsibilities, the originally comfortable and peaceful family environment has gradually entered a state of chaos. As a wife, she not only has to work hard to make ends meet, but also has to deal with tedious household chores on her own, and even has to take care of her husband's daily diet. She is like a never-ending spinning top, physically and mentally exhausted, but she has never been able to find the right person to listen to. She had tried to have in-depth conversations with her in-laws in the hope that they would be able to convince her husband, but it had apparently had little success. This kind of life made her feel extremely depressed and helpless, and she never understood why she would encounter such an irresponsible husband.
When many netizens watched this video, they stood up and expressed their deep sympathy for her. Not only did the husband fail to fulfill his responsibilities as a husband, but he also behaved in a way that was completely contrary to the qualities expected of an aspiring and ambitious man. He chose to run away from the family and instead chose to hang his head and leave all the pressure behind him to his wife.
One netizen commented in sharp terms: "It is not easy for him to find a wife and get married! Another person said: "This kind of man has no ambition at all, even if he chooses to lie down and live, at least he must have basic living security." He chose to lie flat when he didn't do anything, undoubtedly transferring the pressure to his wife. "Not everyone holds the same view, and some believe that everyone has the right to choose their own way of life. Perhaps, this man has fully realized his own limitations, so he decided to give up the struggle and choose a comfortable life. However, this does not mean that he is a qualified husband or worthy of such a sensible and considerate wife.
"Heaven rewards hard work" is a belief that flows in the depths of everyone's heart throughout the ages, and everything in the world follows its inherent laws, just like the plants and trees that grow on the earth, all of which are the life trajectory from birth to extinction. During this period, the core values emphasized by the Way of the Gentleman are the spirit of perseverance and never-say-die. Especially for their male compatriots, who are congenitally responsible for the expectations of their families and society, they are regarded as the pillars of the giants, and even the backbone of the hearts of all their loved ones. However, the road of life is not always smooth sailing, and men can also encounter various setbacks and difficulties. In this process, the strength of courage and perseverance is particularly important.
However, it is worth noting that adversity in life does not mean that men can easily forget their original intentions and go with the flow and paralyze themselves in the quagmire of failure. On the contrary, true men should show the fighting spirit to become more and more courageous, they should have the determination to defeat again and again, and write their own life chapter with the spirit of swallowing mountains and rivers. Only in this way can you win the admiration of others, and at the same time, you can make your life more colorful and meaningful. Suppose that a man loses motivation in life for various reasons, in fact, this is tantamount to making a self-denying decision. For those who give up on themselves easily, they are like Liu Chan, the queen of Shu in historical stories, who lost the ability to control their own destiny. It is also reasonable for a female spouse to choose to leave as a result. After all, no woman wants to lock her future into a man who lacks ambition and ambition.
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