Text丨 Weisheng Xiaoyun
Editor丨Weisheng Xiaoyun
Preface
India and China are two countries that are relatively close to each other, so there will also be Indians in China to travel and settle down.
By chance, a friend met a pair of Indian sisters, one married to a Chinese and the other to an Indian.
However, when I saw the two of them, my friend was very emotional, saying that the gap between the lives of the two people was too big!
What is so different about their lives, and why do they feel so emotional?
China or India?
My friend is very fond of traveling, and has been to many places over the years, and he has also met many foreign friends.
One of the sisters made a deep impression on him because they were married to people from different countries.
At that time, a friend went to India on a business trip and accidentally met an Indian girl, Dia, and the two became very good friends.
Because friends often tell Dia that there are many delicious foods and interesting places in China, Dia came to China to play.
It was in this process that she met a Chinese boy, and the two fell in love at first sight.
Because Diya was going back to China, the Chinese boy was reluctant to go to India with her to discuss marriage with her parents.
My friend was very happy when she found out about it, and congratulated her on finding her happiness.
The Indian girl said that if it weren't for a friend's recommendation that China is very fun, she would not have thought of coming to China to play, and she would not have met this real man.
Dia's family did not agree at first, after all, they wanted to marry their daughter so far away in China.
Later, the Chinese boy made many assurances, and gave Dia's parents to see his salary card, saying that he would definitely give the girl the best life in the future.
Parents want their children to live a healthy and happy life, so Dia's parents had to agree.
Before Dia was going to marry in China, her sister kept pulling her sister and didn't want her to go, and the two grew up together since childhood, and now they are going to separate.
My sister married in China, and I don't know how long it will take for the two to see each other in the future.
Later, the Chinese boy bought his sister a mobile phone, saying that he would call his sister at any time if he missed his sister in the future.
The two of them reluctantly separated, and the younger sister cried more sadly than the mother, and it could be seen that the two sisters had a good relationship.
After Dia married in China, she worked hard to learn XiChinese, and her mother-in-law and husband were very good to her.
Knowing that Diya had come all the way from India to China, her mother-in-law was afraid that she would be homesick, so she tried her best to be kind to her.
As long as Diya quarrels with her husband, her mother-in-law always helps Diya speak, saying that it is not easy for her to marry so far away, don't let her be sad.
Diya feels that her mother-in-law is simply her second mother, and the relationship between the two is really like a mother and daughter.
However, during a phone call, Dia learned that her sister was also married, and her parents introduced her, so she wanted to go back to her sister's wedding.
However, on the phone, my sister was a little distressed, saying that her sister didn't have to come back, and she said that she was not happy about the wedding.
It turns out that although India is monogamous, this is not a rule for rich people at all.
The man she married was a rich man, and he already had two wives in front of him, and she was the third.
Because she is not young anymore, the Indian girls around her basically got married very early, and she is about to become a leftover girl at this age.
Thinking that if she couldn't find a partner again, she would only have a worse husband in the future, and Dia's sister agreed to the marriage.
I feel that it won't be worse anyway, the rich still have money, at least they won't have to worry about eating and drinking in the future.
After my sister got married, she called her sister more frequently than when she wasn't married.
The gap in life is a bit big
It turns out that there are parts of India where girls are not allowed to show their heads, especially married women.
And Dia's sister is very unfortunate to marry into a region with a stricter system, and she has to wear a veil every time she goes out.
Not only that, but sometimes when she wanted to go out shopping, she would be reprimanded by her husband's family, saying that a woman would do bad things when she went out alone.
When my sister wasn't married, she could go out shopping and play with friends as she wanted, but now that she's married, she can't go anywhere.
Only when the husband wants to take his wives out shopping, she can go out with them.
However, when she became pregnant, her husband refused to let her go out for the sake of her safety.
Not only is she pregnant, but her husband's other wives are also pregnant, but my sister is in a bad mood after pregnancy, so she also reacts a lot during pregnancy.
Diya was very distressed to see her sister so uncomfortable, but there was nothing she could do.
At this time, Diya was also pregnant, and after she came to China, she actually found a job, and the company gave her pregnancy leave.
Not only that, but Diya's Chinese husband also took time off to take care of her when she was about to give birth, and even accompanied her during confinement.
And Dia's sister is different, his husband prefers the wife in front of him, except for his sister who came to see her when she gave birth.
Then she arranged for someone to send her some supplements, and basically never came to see her again.
The same family came out, one of them married to China, the other married to India, but their lives are completely different, which is really amazing.
Seeing that my sister's life is so happy, my sister also feels that she is too disturbing to her sister by saying bad things every day, so she reduces contact.
Although my sister also realized this and told my sister that it didn't matter, and that she could call her at any time if she had something, my sister was still embarrassed to call often.
And there is another reason for this, it turns out that my sister's rich husband thinks she calls too much every day.
even suspiciously felt that she was calling other men, and in the end, she had to choose not to contact her sister often in the future.
And Dia's life in China is becoming more and more nourishing, and her Chinese husband has been promoted in the company and has made a lot of money.
The two attach great importance to the education of their children, and Dia is also a person who loves to travel, so the family often travels.
As the child gets older and older, Dia is almost thirty years old, but Diya's appearance has not changed much, and she is even more energetic.
It turned out that her parents offered to help her take care of the children, and she and her husband would fight hard if they wanted to fight for their careers, so they didn't have to worry.
Dia is very happy that she can marry and live a happy life in China, her husband is kind to her, and her mother-in-law is also very open-minded, treating herself like a daughter.
Once Diya and her sister hadn't been in touch for a long time, and both of them were taken aback by each other's appearance when they were video chatting.
It turned out that my sister was depressed all day long and could only take care of the children at home, although she didn't worry about eating and drinking, but she was unhappy.
Because India is a bit patriarchal, my sister gave birth to a girl after marriage, and the family didn't treat her very well.
And the other wives of the rich husband have given birth to boys, so life is better.
learned that Diya married into China and gave birth to a girl, but her Chinese husband and mother-in-law were very good to her, and her sister was even more sad when she thought of her situation.
It is said that mood affects appearance, and Diya's sister's face has not been very good-looking, although she wears makeup, she is still a little haggard.
When the two of them are compared, even the sister looks much younger than the younger sister.
It's just that the two of them have their own lives after all, and Diya can't help her sister much, so she can only persuade her to want to open a little.
Sometimes my sister often said that it would be nice to come to China with her sister at that time, and she also wanted to find a Chinese man who loved her.
However, there is no regret medicine in the world, and my Indian sister also feels that her life is not very good compared to her sister.
And in India itself, there are people who live worse than her everywhere, and her marriage to a rich man is already very good in itself.
epilogue
Two Indian sisters, one married to China and the other to India.
However, the situation is very surprising, but the Xi culture is different between countries, so we are not easy to judge.
I can only hope that they can live a happier life in the future and live happily.