Drinking alcohol is harmful to others and oneself
Qin Weidong, who has lived in the military camp since he was a child, seems to have come into contact with the unique wine culture of the military. The wine that was indispensable for my father to entertain guests all year round became the norm if he was not careful.
Qin Weidong, who has grown up, drinks very well and is not ashamed of alcoholism at all. At present, it is in the rising period of his career, coinciding with the prime of youth, and the ambition of spending thousands of dollars at the banquet is the envy of others.
However, no matter how good the amount of alcohol you drink, it is difficult to get rid of the side effects of excessive drinking. No matter how good the physical fitness is, people will gradually show signs of exhaustion in long-term immersion. Alcohol is extremely addictive, and his film and television career has made alcohol an indispensable element in Qin Weidong's life.
The breakdown of the two marriages is inextricably linked to Qin Weidong's lingering drunkard. In fact, his two wives are very understanding and supportive of his career, but they can't stand Qin Weidong's indifference to his family like wine.
The appearance of swallowing clouds and spitting fog day after day is so dazzling and embarrassing in their eyes.
Perhaps many people will think that the two women are stingy. But it's no wonder they left when they thought about the erosion of alcohol, the countless sleepless nights, and the repeated verbal quarrels.
Every relationship deserves to be treated well, and family members should not be victims.
The gap between the stage and reality
Qin Weidong's acting skills are remarkable, especially good at portraying various honest characters that make people laugh through his appearance and expressions. No matter how many scenes he plays, he can vividly interpret the characters.
However, this excellent acting is difficult to reflect in reality.
has been working hard all the way to the north, but Qin Weidong has never been able to occupy a place in the film and television industry. Perhaps he is too focused on acting itself and ignores packaging and marketing methods, or perhaps he lacks sufficient network resources, his acting career has been tepid.
There was always a sense of anxiety about being ignored by his peers.
As we all know, the entertainment industry is a place with a strong appearance association. Qin Weidong's tall and burly body shape and cute appearance make it difficult for him to create a character rich in connotation.
In fact, this is also related to his congenital lack of acting skills, and the stereotyped interpretation that has been the same for decades is really annoying.
Faced with the helplessness of reality and pressure from all sides, Qin Weidong gradually developed an inferiority complex. He began to numb himself by drinking heavily, but he paid a heavy price for it.
The failure of both marriages is related to his passive attitude. The gap between reality and ideals caused him to suffer a great deal of mental torture.
A turning point in life caused by pityriasis rosea
In 2011, Qin Weidong was diagnosed with pityriasis rosea by a doctor. This is the result of a continued deterioration in the physical condition due to long-term dependence on alcohol. The torture of the disease made Qin Weidong experience great pain, and it also made him have to face up to the serious consequences of his years of alcoholism.
It begins with excruciating, severe itching in the arms and legs, which gradually spreads to all parts of the body. During the day, he tried to endure it, but at night, he could no longer hold it back, and could only scratch his skin vigorously until it was drenched in blood.
The pain and insomnia tortured Qin Weidong's life as if he were dead, and after the scratched skin healed, the itching struck again, and this pain seemed to be endless.
Self-blame and guilt also tormented Qin Weidong at the same time. Years of alcoholism not only ruined two marriages, but also put one's health at risk. Faced with the double blow of illness and family, Qin Weidong's whole person fell into an unprecedented trough and depression.
While his life was threatened, he had to re-examine the direction of his life. Perhaps this is a warning from heaven to him, another turning point in his life.
After two months of illness, Qin Weidong finally made up his mind to quit his addiction to alcohol and not repeat the mistakes of the past. For the sake of his family and himself, he must regain his strength and say goodbye to the past.
The pityriasis rosea attack saved him from years of alcohol dependence, and this was a turning point and a hope, and he must not give up.
The third marriage brings a stable life
Qin Weidong, who has experienced two failed marriages, has lost confidence in his relationship. He devoted all his energy to the treatment of pityriasis rosea and no longer had any expectations for love and marriage.
However, the appearance of his old friend Zeng Bin finally broke the ice of the frozen heart.
Zeng Bin saw not only the efforts that Qin Weidong has made in his career over the years, but also the various unsatisfactory things he has experienced. She unconditionally took on the heavy responsibility of taking care of Qin Weidong and was willing to act as his personal caretaker.
Over time, the two lonely hearts found resonance in caring for each other.
At first, Qin Weidong didn't dare to face his true feelings because of the experience of being deceived by love many times. He feared that this would be his third doomed marriage, and he did not want to go through the pain of parting again.
But Zeng Bin's tolerance and thoughtfulness finally touched him and encouraged him to believe in love and marriage again.
10 years have passed, and Qin Weidong and Zeng Bin's lives are still sweet and happy. Qin Weidong finally quit drinking and devoted more time and energy to his family.
Every day, I am busy taking care of the children, making a pot of fragrant tea and tasting life with Zeng Bin. As the sun sets, the two walk through the park arm in arm, enjoying their own peaceful time.
Maybe this is the stable life he dreamed of.