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My name is Zhang San, and I work in a state-owned enterprise, and my leader is Minister Li Si. Minister Li Si and I can be said to have had a bad fate, and this started from ten years ago.
I thought to myself, this new leader seems to be good, and his attitude is very good. So I also actively spoke at the meeting, talked about some problems encountered in my work, and gave my suggestions for improvement. Minister Li took note of it carefully and said that he would study and solve it.
I was single at the time, and my biggest pleasure outside of work was to go out and see the scenery on the weekends. Once, I was walking in the park and ran into Minister Li's family, who were taking his wife and children on an outing. When Minister Li saw me, he took the initiative to greet me and introduced his family to me. I said, "Minister Li, it's good to go out on the weekend and relax." Minister Li said: "Yes, it is best to spend time with your family after work, and you should also pay attention to work-life balance." "I feel that Minister Li is sincere in what he said, unlike some leaders who are just empty words.
Later, I passed the company's internal examination and was promoted to department manager. I feel like I've reached a new level in my career and I'm excited. On this day, I was working in the office, and Minister Li came to inspect the work, and when he saw me, he said, "Manager Zhang, I heard that you have been promoted, congratulations! Young people should continue to work hard and contribute to the company." I immediately stood up and said, "Thank you, Minister Li, I will definitely work hard to achieve our business indicators better!"
I took the initiative to talk to Li Mei during the department party, and she was very polite but a little shy. I said, "Li Mei, you are welcome to come to our department, if you don't understand anything, you can come to me for help." Li Mei smiled and said, "Thank you, Manager Zhang, I am not familiar with it when I first came, I hope you will take care of me." ”
Later, Li Mei and I became more and more familiar, and finally mustered up the courage to confess. I asked her to walk by the river, and the atmosphere in the sunset was very beautiful. I said, "Li Mei, since I met you, my heart has been stirring like this river. I really like you, would you like to be with me?" Li Mei blushed and said, "Manager Zhang, I like you very much too." So we were officially together.
After Minister Li learned the good news that we were together, he also warmly congratulated me, and said to me with a smile: "Manager Zhang, you have to treat Li Mei well, and I will hand over my daughter to you!" I immediately said, "Minister Li, don't worry, I will definitely be good to Li!"
On the day of the wedding, Minister Li also brought two bottles of good wine from home to congratulate us on our new marriage. I was moved and said, "Minister Li, thank you for sending us blessings, I will always love Li Mei." Minister Li smiled and said: "It's true to live a good life, remember to understand and care for each other." ”
After getting married, the days were plain but sweet, and Li Mei and I lived very happily. Li Mei has a gentle personality and often cooks food for me. Every morning she would prepare a hot breakfast for me, and then smile and say, "Honey, work hard for a new day!"
I also try to spend as much time as possible with Li Mei after work. Once I took a leave of absence and took her to an amusement park. We were on a roller coaster, and Li Mei screamed so much that I took her hand and told her not to be afraid. After playing, I went to take pictures, leaving many happy memories.
Unfortunately, the good times did not last long, and Minister Li gradually changed later. He started to focus only on the result rather than the process, often working overtime to get us done. Li Mei and I have less time together because of this. Once when I was working on a project, Li Mei called and said that she hadn't seen me for a week and wanted to ask me out for dinner. I really couldn't catch up, so I could only say: "Meimei, I'm sorry, this project is really rushed, I promise to compensate you well next month!" Li Mei sighed softly on the other end of the phone: "It's okay, your work is important, I understand." ”
Not only that, Minister Li often had temporary meetings, and I couldn't shirk it, so I had to work overtime at night to complete my original work, which made me very tired. Finally, one day it was too hard, and when I reported on my work, I couldn't help but say to Minister Li: "Minister, there have been too many meetings and overtime recently, and everyone is a little overwhelmed, can you make appropriate adjustments?" Minister Li frowned and said, "Manager Zhang, the business is important, and the company's indicators need to be completed, do you know this?" I could only nod silently.
I came home tired that day, and Li Mei had already prepared a sumptuous dinner. Seeing that my face was not good, she said with concern: "Have you been working too hard lately, I see that you have lost a lot of weight, do you know that you have to pay attention to your body?" I reluctantly smiled and said, "Maybe it's a little more stressful at work, but it's okay, just wait for this time to pass." Li Mei looked at me quietly, her eyes full of distress.
This state of high-pressure overtime lasted for a long time, and the quality of life of Li Mei and I deteriorated significantly. In order to take care of me, Li Mei also reduced the party with friends.
One day, Minister Li suddenly called and said that he was coming to my house for dinner in the evening, and I immediately became nervous. Li Mei said anxiously: "There are not enough things at home, you go shopping for food and wine and come back, the minister must entertain well." I was really tired, so I said, "The minister is so sudden, let's do something simple." Li Mei said resolutely: "The minister has promoted you, can't you buy some good wine and food in advance to entertain you?" I nodded helplessly: "Then I'll buy it." ”
So exhausted, I drove to a large supermarket in the suburbs and bought a lot of vegetables and barbecue ingredients, as well as a few cases of good wine. I looked at the long bill and sighed at the checkout, and Li Mei was too serious.
In the evening, Minister Li's family arrived on time. Li Mei was busy entertaining. I barely bothered to brace myself and talked to Minister Li about work. Minister Li said while eating: "Recently, the company wants to promote a new project, Manager Zhang, you have to negotiate quickly and strive for a contract." I said weakly, "Yes, I understand." ”
After eating, Li Mei brought out the apple pie, and Minister Li said with a smile: "Li Mei's craftsmanship is really good, Manager Zhang should cherish it." I smiled perfunctorily. After sending Minister Li away, I cleaned up the mess with Li Mei. Li Mei said: "Today, the minister's face is good, it seems that he is very satisfied, you have to continue to work hard." I couldn't take it anymore and blurted out, "I've had enough!"
That night, my complaints finally exploded.
Li Mei looked at me in surprise and said, "What are you talking about? The minister is so good to you, you shouldn't complain." ”
I said irritably: "Do you know how hard I have been working lately? I am working overtime and tired, but the minister does not think about my feelings at all, and only thinks about performance! I am a man, not a machine!"
Li Mei persuaded: "My dear, the minister is for the good of the company, and this is also for our common interests, you have to understand him." ”
I said excitedly: "I understand? I understand what it has been! My own wife can't take care of me, I can only work all day, I spend most of my time with you by the minister, my life is controlled by him, and I don't look like a person anymore!"
Li Mei's eyes welled up with tears and said: "You calm down, the minister has always been very good to us, even if he has a request, we should support him, we can't just think about ourselves, we have to think about everyone." ”
I said, "I've had enough!
Minister Li was silent, and then said, "Manager Zhang, I'm sorry, maybe I've only been focusing on performance recently, and I haven't considered everyone's feelings. What you say makes sense, and I will readjust the arrangement to ease everyone's burden. The development of the company requires the joint efforts of everyone, but the interests of employees cannot be sacrificed. ”
I said excitedly, "Thank you, Minister, I know it won't be easy for you either. With the joint efforts of all of us, the company will be able to prosper!"
After that conversation with Minister Lee, my work and life have become much more balanced. Minister Li also often advises everyone to pay attention to work-life balance.
One day after getting off work, Minister Li stopped me and said with a smile: "Manager Zhang, the company organizes a spring outing on the weekend, and you and Li Mei should also come together to participate." Relaxing your mind is also helpful for work. ”
I was a little surprised and said, "Thank you, minister, we will definitely participate." ”
On the weekend, everyone went to the scenic area of the suburbs. Li Mei happily chatted with other colleagues. Minister Li's family also came. The children had a lot of fun.
At the noon picnic, Minister Li distributed sumptuous food to everyone and opened a few cases of beer. I raised my glass to him and said, "Minister, thank you for organizing this spring outing so that everyone can relax." Minister Li said with a smile: "Everyone has worked hard, and it is also important to relax after work." We are like a big family. ”
After lunch, Li Mei took me to go on a trip. We chatted while walking, and Li Mei said happily: "Since you talked to the minister, the atmosphere has changed a lot, and I see that everyone has a smile on their faces." I said, "yes, it's better for everybody to be lighter." ”
After returning to the company, Minister Li announced at the meeting that he would organize regular employee activities in the future to encourage everyone to maintain a positive attitude. I would like to express my heartfelt gratitude to Minister Lee.
Now, whenever Minister Li comes to my house as a guest, I am no longer angry. Although Li Mei will still let me buy good wine and food, I know that she has good intentions. Sometimes I take the initiative to ask Minister Li some parenting experience. Minister Li also gave me a lot of valuable advice.
Lee Mei and I now go out on dates regularly to relive our love. Together, we discuss how to find a work-life balance. I am truly grateful for the support she gave me during my most difficult time. Now I am respected at work and happy at home. All of this depends on the help of Minister Li and Li Mei. I will cherish them forever.