#文章首发挑战赛#
For your better reading and interactive experience, in order for you to see more content in time, click "Follow" We update wonderful stories and share different story moments for you every day
Text: Fei Xiangshuo
Editor|Fei Xiangshuo
Xu Di, an opera actor from Beijing's hutongs, is known for her exquisite acting skills in the entertainment industry. Her superb performance combines the flavor of Beijing and the foundation of opera, which dazzles the audience. The vicious and mean mother-in-law images in the TV series are all from Xu Di.
However, when she took off her costume and wig, and took off her mother-in-law's coat, she was the real Xu Di. A Beijing girl who loves to laugh, a good wife who has loved her husband for 38 years. The story of Xu Di and her husband Yu Jianwei is full of family, friendship and love. How does an ordinary little girl crawl in the entertainment industry, and how does an ordinary boy support his beloved wife without regrets.
They opened the first chapter of their lives with a young campus love, and witnessed each other's transformation with 38 years of companionship. It takes courage to persist in love, and they proved with perseverance that true love can withstand ups and downs. Let's go through Xu Di's story together to find the sincere love that can transcend time and space.
In 1958, a little girl named Xu Di was born in an old alley in Beijing. This is the epitome of old Beijing, full of strong Beijing flavor. Xu Di has shown extraordinary talent since she was a child, especially good at traditional opera. Her talent was soon discovered, and she entered the opera school to Xi as an adolescent.
At the opera school, she met her classmate Yu Jianwei. Yu Jianwei is a typical cheerful and sunny teenager, approachable. Once, he said some slang jokes in front of his classmates, but he was taught a strict lesson by Xu Di, who had a full sense of justice. Unexpectedly, it was this "lesson" that made Yu Jianwei moved by Xu Di.
Since then, he has been pursuing Xu Di frantically, ingratiating himself with all kinds of careful thoughts. And Xu Di didn't take him to heart at first, because she was a little face blind and didn't remember that she had "taught" him. Later, Yu Jianwei plucked up the courage to confess, and the youth online dating between the two started gorgeously.
They have a good relationship, and they happen to be from Beijing, and they are the right people. After getting married, Yu Jianwei took care of all the housework, so that Xu Di could work without worries. They opened the first chapter of their lives with a youthful campus love.
In the 80s, a TV series called "The Lens Reaches Out to the Miscellaneous Courtyard" brought Xu Di excellent acting opportunities. This is her TV series debut, but she became famous in one fell swoop. The audience admired this little flower from the opera world very much. In order to realize her music dream, Xu Di later took the initiative to return to the entertainment industry and began to develop in the direction of comedian.
While achieving career achievements, Xu Di and Yu Jianwei's lives have also become richer and richer. Yu Jianwei has always silently supported his beloved wife's dream, and he is willing to do all the housework, just hoping that Xu Di can pursue success without worry. When Xu Di was busy filming, he would personally prepare hot meals and then drive for several hours to take them out to his wife.
Some people look down on him for such a "disgraceful man's face", but Yu Jianwei has spent more than 30 years proving that supporting his lover does not need to be reasonable. Xu Di is also grateful to her husband for his generosity of tolerating with love. While their careers are in full swing, their marriage is still as sweet as ever.
With the passage of time, Xu Di has become a senior and powerful actor. She is good at interpreting the images of various mothers-in-law and mothers-in-law, especially the vicious mother-in-law with a Shanghai accent has become her iconic character. As soon as the audience saw her face, they knew that the next plot must be exciting.
When I get together with a few old friends, they often share how to better interpret the unique charm of the vicious mother-in-law. Xu Di's Shanghai accent is very authentic, almost like an old lady in Shanghai. However, the audience doesn't know that Xu Di, who speaks badly on the screen, is actually a very polite, stable and generous intellectual woman in reality.
She has her own interests and hobbies, and she is in love with her wife. In this way, she and Yu Jianwei grew old together, even after decades of struggle in the entertainment industry, their relationship has never faded.
Yu Jianwei later had a serious illness, Xu Di did not hesitate to turn down her job and patiently took care of her wife. "What's this, he's taken care of me for decades, and I'm just giving him back. Xu Di said. This old couple and wife have always been with each other, even if the years are unforgiving, love has withstood the baptism of ups and downs.
This incident quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens on the Internet, and everyone talked about the touching love story of Xu Di and her husband. Some netizens said that Xu Di was born in the opera industry, and it is not easy to develop and grow in the entertainment industry. As her husband's strong support, it is the key to her career that she can be today.
"Supporting without complaint or regret is the duty of a husband. Some netizens lamented that it is the wish of many people to be able to grow old with their lovers, but very few have really done it. Xu Di and her husband proved with perseverance that marriage needs to be watered by both parties with love and understanding, and beautiful flowers can bloom over the years.
Some netizens also said that young people nowadays can learn Xi from Xu Di and his wife, and they still have to be considerate of each other in their husband and wife life, and they can't quarrel because of some trivial things.
"Today you wash the dishes, tomorrow I do the laundry. Housework must be united and mutually beneficial, so that the relationship can last for a long time. They all said that Xu Di and her husband have crossed the test of the years with sincere love, and they deserve all the blessings.
The love story of Xu Di and Yu Jianwei spans more than 30 years, or the time of their lives. From the youthful campus time, to the hard-working entertainment industry, to the happy and stable old age. They have experienced too many encounters, but the love is always the same. Yu Jianwei supported Xu Di in his own way, and Xu Di was also grateful to her husband for his good intentions over the years.
They support each other, move forward together, and always be by their side. Perhaps, love doesn't need too many words, more often it only takes a look, an action, to know what the other party is thinking. Xu Di and Yu Jianwei have used 38 years of companionship to interpret what true love is.
In this materialistic era, it is rare to be able to stick to the heart of a child. We must also cherish the lovers around us and use warmth to touch the trivialities of life. After all, who doesn't crave a sincere love that can withstand the storm.
Question: What do you think is needed to achieve a lasting marriage?