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Text: Fei Xiangshuo
Editor|Fei Xiangshuo
The well-known Hong Kong actress Guan Zhilin is known as the first beauty, and her father Guan Shan is also a famous Hong Kong actor. But the relationship between the father and daughter is extremely bad, and there has been no contact for 28 years!
Guan Zhilin seems to have a glamorous life, but in fact, her family was broken since she was a child, and the shadow of her childhood lingered, which also led to her unhappy life. Today, let me count what the truth and inside story of this father-daughter rebellion are.
Guan Shan's legendary acting career
Guan Shan was originally the child of an ordinary family in Shenyang, northeast, but because of the war, he followed his family to Hong Kong and had a difficult life. But Guan Shan is constantly striving for self-improvement, relying only on his own efforts, and has grown step by step from a small actor to a first-line movie star in Hong Kong.
In 1960, Guan Shan became famous with the movie "The True Story of Ah Q" and won the international actor. After that, he joined the Shaw Brothers Film Company, and shined in many films such as "No Love" and "Tears of the Red Lady", and was one of the top actors in Hong Kong in the 60s.
Guan Shan not only has excellent acting skills, but also has a romantic personality in life, and has had affairs with countless glamorous actresses. His success is a legendary life.
Guan Zhilin's tragic upbringing
However, behind the success are the failed families. Guan Shan and his wife do not have a good relationship and often have affairs. Guan Zhilin has lived in a loveless family since she was a child, and her parents quarrel constantly.
At the age of 13, Guan Shan divorced his wife and broke up, and Guan Zhilin was greatly traumatized. After that, Guan Shan's career was successful and he no longer ignored his daughter, so that the young Guan Zhilin could only live in Hong Kong by herself.
Guan Zhilin, who lacks fatherly love, has to come out to work early to support herself, which has caused great harm to her growth. This also laid the remote cause of the father-daughter break in the future.
The deterioration of the father-daughter relationship led to a 28-year breakup
At the age of 18, Guan Zhilin fell in love with a wealthy businessman who was 16 years older than him and insisted on marrying each other. Guan Shan strongly opposed the marriage, but Guan Zhilin did not listen to the advice.
After marriage, the angry Guan Shan cut off contact with his daughter, immigrated to the United States, and broke off the father-daughter relationship with his daughter for 28 years. Until he was sick and dying, Guan Zhilin reluctantly took care of him.
In the past 28 years, the resentment between the father and daughter has been too deep, and the relationship cannot be repaired. Although Guan Zhilin is successful on the surface, she is always lonely and miserable inside.
Impressions and suggestions
Guan Shan was too much of a failure as a father, leaving his wife and daughter alone, resulting in his daughter's growth being hindered. In her later years, Guan Zhilin barely took care of her, and she couldn't make up for the father-daughter relationship.
As parents, we should care for our children and teach them patiently. You can't forget your family because you've succeeded, or your child will be hurt by it.
I hope that Guan Shan's lesson can give us something to think about, cherish our families, communicate more, and avoid irreparable regrets.
This incident quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens on the Internet, and some netizens thought that Guan Shan was irresponsible and did not fulfill his father's obligations, resulting in his daughter's growth being hindered and her life was troubled. Parents should lead by example and teach their children to grow up, rather than being harsh.
Some netizens also believe that Guan Zhilin chose to marry someone who did not meet the conditions, and she was sorry for Guan Shan's years of cultivation, her daughter did not listen to persuasion, and it was understandable that her father was angry. Some netizens believe that in his later years, Guan Shan realized his mistake and wanted to redeem it, but it was too late, the most important thing in life is his family, and no matter how successful his career is, he can't match family happiness.