On December 25, 2023, several media reported on the incident of "the defendant was sentenced to 3 years for rape in the first instance after the man got engaged".
I didn't expect this case to be decided so quickly.
(Source: The Paper)
And this result surprised many netizens, but some netizens felt that it was expected.
Because since the man was taken away, the police must have some evidence, including the evidence that the man admitted himself.
Event recap
The man Xi Moumou and the woman met on a blind date, and they met through a marriage agency on January 30, 2023.
Although they talked for a short time, they also had a certain emotional basis.
On May 1, the parents of both parties held an engagement ceremony for them.
The man's family gave a bride price of 100,000 yuan and a 7.2-gram ring.
On May 2, the woman's family held a banquet, and after eating, Xi Moumou took the woman to visit his house.
In the marriage room, Xi Moumou proposed to have an intimate relationship, but was rejected by the woman.
The woman has repeatedly said during her relationship that she refuses premarital sex.
But Xi Moumou didn't listen and made a compulsive behavior.
The woman has always resisted in this process, and it is not a half-pushed and half-promised state as reported on the Internet.
She had bruises on her arms and thighs.
Afterwards, she was very emotional, and she did things like pulling curtains and burning curtains.
She escaped, but was dragged back by the man.
In order to prevent her from calling home, the man also took away her mobile phone.
Judging from these details, the man's actions are against the woman's will and are illegal.
The woman's request for the man's family to write down a written agreement at the time of engagement caused controversy
At that time, the man's mother found the media and became known to netizens.
And the trend of public opinion at that time was generally sympathetic to the man's family.
The biggest reason for this is that the woman's family asked the man's family to sign a written agreement.
Judging from the content, they agreed to add the woman's name to the house ownership certificate one year after they got married.
The woman's family has already received 188,000 yuan in cash, but she still asked the man's family to sign such a written agreement, which makes many netizens feel that the woman's family has ulterior intentions, and they don't really want to marry the man and live, but they may be going for money.
They signed a written agreement, and the "marriage" looked a lot like a deal.
The man's mother has always been adamant that the woman is voluntary
When something like this happened, the woman said she was forced.
The man's mother has always disagreed, she thinks that the woman is voluntary.
Her reasoning was that the woman had come to her house several times and had been alone in her room with her son many times.
She felt that if the woman didn't mean that, she wouldn't come so often, and she wouldn't go to the marriage room alone with her son.
Afterwards, the attitude of the woman's family also misled netizens
After the incident happened, if the woman's family insisted on suing the man, then netizens may still think that the man is problematic.
But the attitude of the woman's family at that time was very strange.
They hope that the man will quickly make up the bride price and add the woman's name to the house, and they hope that the two young people will get married as soon as possible.
And such a request was not negotiated as soon as possible.
For the woman's family, they hope that the man's family will agree as soon as possible.
And for the man's family, they want to think again.
After two days of delay, the woman's house was not full, and she didn't want to wait any longer.
Therefore, on May 5, the man was forcibly detained by the police.
The woman's family did this, which made netizens feel that there was something wrong with it.
Because at that time, netizens didn't know the inside story of this, and they didn't know that the woman had resisted the man so fiercely, to the point of burning the curtains.
At that time, everyone only felt that the man was very pitiful, and he deserved more sympathy.
Now that he knows that the man did such an excessive thing at that time, it is only natural that he should be brought to justice.
Until now, there are still many netizens who sympathize with the man
According to the man's parents, the man and the woman hugged each other and went into the marriage room.
And in the elevator, there is also a picture of a man holding a woman.
The man's mother, Ms. Zhen, believes that the reason why the woman called the police was related to the man's reluctance to add his name to the house book at that time.
The woman is accepting of the intimate act of the man hugging her, and she is also accepting going to his marital room.
In the process, the man's desire will only get stronger and stronger, but she does not accept it.
This makes people think that there is probably something wrong with it.
The man may have been ruined by his sister's stubbornness
The woman called the police on the night of May 2.
But after all, she is a young person who has not been deeply involved in the world, and the police will definitely contact the parents of both parties.
Young people have no idea the consequences of this.
Through communication, the police understood the meaning of the woman's parents and went to mediate.
According to the wishes of the woman's parents, as long as the man's family adds the woman's name to the house book and makes up the remaining bride price, the matter will not be filed.
The police must have done this for the sake of both parties, but they didn't expect the man's family to be so stubborn, so they agreed at the time, but they didn't do it immediately, and it dragged on for two days.
The reason why the man's family is like this may be related to the man's sister, who has a stronger attitude.
On May 4, the woman's family thought that the man's attitude was not sincere enough, so they became angry and asked the woman to report the case again.
The man himself admitted something
The reason why the police handling the case at that time felt that "that child is very good" must have something to do with the fact that the man admitted some things in person that night.
The man's behavior must have been illegal, but he also honestly admitted that he was different from a villain like Wang Eryong in the TV series "Three Teams".
If the woman does not pursue it, he and the woman can still get married and live.
But since the woman has been investigated, he can only be transferred for prosecution.
In fact, if the man's family had agreed to the woman's conditions at that time, things might not have gotten the way they are today.
Write at the end
This incident is a lesson for many young people, no matter what the relationship between two people is, even if it is marriage, as long as it is against the will of the woman, it is illegal.
The reason why this man has such an ending today is mainly related to his ignorance of the law, his underestimation of the woman, and his family's lack of cooperation.
He probably thought that the women were his fiancée, and he could do whatever he wanted, but he didn't expect the woman to really call the police.
In addition, after the incident, he honestly admitted to the woman's mother (was recorded) and agreed to the woman's conditions, but he didn't expect his family to fulfill those conditions.
Of course, the biggest fault can only be blamed on himself, and he shouldn't have done such an excessive thing.