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The husband and wife are originally two independent individuals, they don't know each other, and they don't intersect, since they came together because of fate, the three views are the same, but if you want to make the relationship between husband and wife long-term stable, you can't get along with each other for a long time, and you can manage it with your heart, the most important thing is to speak and communicate, which is of great help to the marriage.
Between husband and wife, don't say 5 words, the relationship can be much more stable
You think it's normal for a husband and wife to be noisy and quarrelsome, but some people just can't joke and can't listen to swearing, it has nothing to do with who the other person is, he just can't hear someone talk like this, if it's a partner who swears and jokes, she will be even more annoyed.
Because this seems to be very disrespectful to the partner, the closer the person is, the more he can't hide his temper, the more willing to show his true self, in fact, this is not right, after all, the person who loves you will care a lot, a look, a word, will make the other party think a lot, if the partner itself is more sensitive, you unscrupulously express "love", the result will only make him sad and sad.
No matter how close the relationship between husband and wife is, you must also maintain a certain sense of distance, don't say anything, let alone swear, close lovers need gentle words to comfort, even if the other party is heartless, don't often swear, joke, once or twice the partner will not care, or forgive you because of your bad mood of speaking, but after a long time, the partner will really be sad.
Some couples are particularly interesting, they like to step on each other every day, the more they scold, the more they feel better, but this must be the existence of a small number of couples, and most couples still like their partners to praise themselves, praise themselves, and feel sorry for themselves.
A full-time mother is at home with children, no job, no social circle, it is already very pitiful, if her partner says to her again, "You are useless, this is not good, that is not good, what are you doing when you marry, marrying a daughter-in-law is to have children, if you don't cook, who cooks, if you don't wash dishes, who washes dishes, whose daughter-in-law doesn't do this, you are hypocritical." ”
This kind of text is really hurtful, coupled with a contemptuous tone, it will make a stay-at-home mother start to doubt herself, "I'm really useless, I'm a useless person!"
This is all staying up late every day with children, not sleeping a whole night, men should love their wives more, instead of you can't do anything, your wife can't do it well, your wife wants to do it, you can't do it, you can't do it, don't want to do what you don't want to do, shut up, don't talk much.
Since you can become a husband and wife, you must have a lot in common, and if you don't look down on each other, you can't actually look down on yourself.
The elders are at fault and the younger generations know it in their hearts, their respective parents go to say, their parents go to suggest and correct, even if the parents are at fault, the partner is complaining about her and confides in you, you don't want to echo it, after all, you are not the parents who gave birth to you, you are not qualified to judge, as a partner, just listen quietly, you can not speak, you must not talk nonsense.
Now that they have become husband and wife, the other party's parents are also your parents, so you can't care about it very much, as long as you say the past on your face.
Don't be a set of heads, a set of backs, all kinds of parents who dislike their partners, as juniors, as sons-in-law and daughters-in-law, you must treat the elderly well and treat your partner's parents as parents.
When the husband and wife quarrel, don't take the elders with you when you are angry, even if you have complaints and grievances in your heart because of the quarrel between your parents, you can't scold the elders in front of your partner, otherwise even if you are right and wrong, your partner will scold your parents and even you.
The salary of the man who marries is average, and he has been working very hard, you can also see these hardships, so don't talk about money all day long, everyone knows that money is important, and they all know that it is not easy to earn money.
Your family is made by hard work, the chance of good luck in this life is very slim, so you have to be content with the status quo, convince yourself, live an ordinary life, don't care about other people's days, this is not envious, others are using their brains to make money, we rely on diligence to make money, the gap is really big, so, really be content with the status quo, don't put so much pressure on your partner, if the other party is surprisingly lazy, you can consider leaving him, or to earn money yourself, if the other party is already working hard, you have to feel sorry for her, understand him, and work with her to take care of this small family, live a good life, instead of complaining, blame yourself for a bad life。
Fate in their own hands, husband and wife together, its profit and gold is not an empty word, some partners are particularly prosperous, and she works together, the days are rushed, this is mainly a good mentality, whether it is a husband and wife relationship, a friend relationship, a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, as long as both sides have a good mentality, many things are not things, and many problems can be resolved.
Whether it is a first marriage or a second marriage, when the husband and wife chat, don't let the other party ask in advance, the other party chases and asks, don't say two words if you can send it with one sentence, don't say three words if you can send it with two sentences, don't talk about this relationship endlessly, don't say it whether it's good or bad.
The past relationship has passed, the smart partner will not mention this matter, the husband and wife want to be stable and harmonious, they must not hold on to the past, don't let their careful eyes let the husband and wife centrifuge, the more you know everything, the more you think, and finally think about it to make yourself unable to get out.
Between husband and wife, if you want to have a stable relationship, you should praise each other more, encourage each other, don't look for opportunities to suppress, let alone stir things up, live a life for yourself, outsiders think it's useless, only you and your own husband and wife feel love, family stability and harmony is right.
The husband and wife should often sit down and talk, take out two or three hours every month to seriously review it, don't deal with each other, talk with heart, all for a good day in the future, for the child to have a good family environment, the soft and soft, the praise and praise, language is a gift that has no cost and can have a good return, learn to speak well, learn to communicate with the brain, it is good for the relationship between husband and wife.
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