Bao's mother, who has been working full-time for several years, was forced to go to work, and her emotions collapsed to the point of crying, but netizens were not calm

#文章首发挑战赛#

Getting married, having a baby, being unemployed, and having a baby seem to be topics that linger in a woman's life. After getting married, do women choose to go to work or take care of the baby? When the two can't be taken into account, the contradiction comes!

Recently, I saw such a video on the Internet, the woman in the video cried that she was a full-time mother for four years, and she brought her child alone in the most difficult time, and now that the child is older, her in-laws want her to go out to work for various reasons. The woman also said that either she couldn't go to work, or the attitude of her in-laws, which made her feel that she had paid for nothing in the past few years, as if she had done nothing, and no one could see your efforts......

As soon as this video came out, netizens were not calm, as if they had opened up the power of the wilderness, and expressed their opinions and opinions one after another!

In fact, it is difficult to take the first step, but you still have to overcome yourself. Not for my in-laws and husband, but only for myself. There are still decades to come, and it is impossible to trap yourself in your family.

Only a full-time housewife in a rich family is a career, and it is indeed for your own good to let you go to work, and you have a job, the pressure on family expenses is not so great, you can get out of the quagmire of full-time work and set an example for your children.

I wouldn't die without a man, I wouldn't die without a job. Work is more important than men!!!!

My in-laws, every morning at seven o'clock to take the baby away, in the evening after work, go to dinner to pick up, this who doesn't like to go to work?

I understand her fear, she has been away from work for a long time, she is about to go to work, she is very afraid, hesitant, worried that she will not be able to integrate into society and work. I understand very much my hard work in the past few years, and I don't seem to have been recognized by my family, I am very aggrieved, I want to say that it is good for you to integrate into society as soon as possible.

It is very difficult to come back with a baby for a few years full-time, you have been out of touch with society in recent years, and you are getting older, and it is a fool's dream to find a high-paying job. The problem is that the best age for a woman to have children is only a few short years, and if you don't give birth, the man and the in-laws will directly kick you out. It's a tragedy for most ordinary women.

The cheapest is a full-time mother, and most of the in-laws will think that they all rely on their son to support the family!

It's not that I don't want to go to work, it's that I really can't do both work and family! Who loves to be at home, a bunch of housework is exhausting!

The editor has something to say, in fact, no matter how you choose this multiple-choice question, you will be wrong. Balancing family and work is a long-term process that requires constant exploration and adjustment. We need to plan reasonably according to our needs and goals at different stages. In this way, you can find the best balance between work and family and achieve a more harmonious life.

There is a more important point, the family should understand and affirm the full-time mother's dedication, you must know that without her, the other party is impossible to devote wholeheartedly to the work, a family's prosperity, certainly not a unilateral or a single person's dedication, is the efforts of the whole family!

In this regard, what do you think, please leave a message

Well, thank you for your support, see you in the comment area! Don't forget to like and follow!