16-year-old Zhang Yu stepped into the door of Shanghai Film Studio with infinite longing for stardom.
She is naturally beautiful, her skin is fair and tender, her facial features are exquisite, and her two dimples are particularly cute when she laughs.
At that time, Zhang Yu was tall and well-proportioned, and he looked good in everything.
With waist-length hair falling down, she walked into the audition room with a light step, immediately attracting the attention of everyone present.
Soon, Zhang Yu's appearance and overage acting skills conquered the hard-hearted judges. When the old artists of the studio personally named her "Zhang Yu", everyone believed that a proud girl of the sky was about to shine in the film industry.
Sure enough, Zhang Yu soon got the opportunity to play the heroine in a major movie.
At the age of 21, Zhang Yu successfully created a three-dimensional and gentle heroine image with her superb performance in the movie "Lushan Love" and became famous in one fell swoop. Especially the many kiss scenes with the actor Guo Kaimin, the acting skills are wonderful and also show Zhang Yu's unique sexy charm.
This debut film not only made Zhang Yu famous, but also gave her a place in the film industry. Soon, Zhang Yu starred in many well-known movies and became a goddess in the hearts of popular movie stars and audiences.
During the filming of "Lushan Love", the popular movie star Zhang Yu met director Zhang Jianya. Zhang Jianya is handsome, golden, gentle and elegant, the two fell in love at first sight, and it didn't take long for them to enter the palace of marriage.
On the wedding night, Zhang Yu shyly changed into a wedding dress, and Zhang Jianya stared at his bride intently. "I will always love you and always be good to you. He solemnly made a promise to Zhang Yu.
The life after marriage should be warm and sweet, but the two are busy with work, so they get together less and leave more. Zhang Yu's career is on the rise after becoming famous, and Zhang Jianya is also well-known in the film industry.
For the sake of their respective careers, the two had to be separated from each other frequently. At first, they diligently wrote letters to express their thoughts, but as time went on, the correspondence decreased.
Zhang Yu was in the spotlight at this time, and many celebrities showed her goodwill. She gradually realized that she was missing out on too many precious moments that she could have shared with her loved ones. So, she proposed to Zhang Jianya the idea of going abroad for further study, hoping that the two would be closer.
But Zhang Jianya was resolutely opposed, and he could not leave his career to develop outside. As a result, the two turned against each other, quarreled constantly, and finally decided to divorce under differences of philosophy.
After the divorce, Zhang Yu decisively flew abroad to study for further study. At first, she was alone in a foreign country, far away from her family and friends, and her heart was inevitably a little empty and lonely.
But in order to realize her academic dream, she quickly adjusted her mentality and worked hard to integrate into Xi her new school life. A few years later, Zhang Yu returned to China with a master's degree, and after successfully completing a number of professional courses, he officially obtained a doctorate in literature from a well-known university.
After returning from school, Zhang Yu did not choose to retire behind the scenes, but returned to the familiar cinema again. Only this time, she stood in the position of director and producer.
With her outstanding professional knowledge and rich experience, the 65-year-old Zhang Yu quickly became a well-known female director in the film industry. Her first film won many domestic and foreign awards, which impressed everyone.
One day many years later, Zhang Yu met her ex-husband Zhang Jianya at the airport. The years have not left too many traces on this man's face, and he is still in high spirits back then.
Seeing her, Zhang Jianya happily took out a rose hidden behind her. "This is for you, and I have been reluctant to give it away. Zhang Yu took the flower, the tip of his nose lingered with a familiar fragrance, and tears welled up in his eyes for a while.
Perhaps, true love is gone; But those good years will always be remembered. Zhang Yu understands that the married life in the past is a precious port of call on the road to her growth, because she has had joys and sorrows, and now she will cherish and enjoy every day of her life more.
After the divorce, Zhang Jianya remarried and found a gentle and virtuous new wife. is different from the high-profile life of the popular actress Zhang Yu, and the newlywed wife is an ordinary white-collar worker.
She doesn't dislike Zhang Jianya's background, she just hopes that the two of them will grow old together. Soon, their life returned to plain and warm, and there was a lovely child in the family. Every day when he comes home from work, he sees his wife busy at the dining table and his son running towards him happily, Zhang Jianya will feel full of happiness.
In his career, Zhang Jianya has also made great progress. His dream of directing has come true, and many of the films he has directed have been widely acclaimed. In the industry, he has become famous, and many later directors respect him as a senior.
Walking on the street, Zhang Jianya often meets enthusiastic fans and asks to take photos with him. He would happily give away beautiful autographed photos, and the joy of being recognized and supported was overwhelming.
One day, Zhang Jianya saw the news of his ex-wife Zhang Yu in the newspaper. She has become a successful female director and has won many international awards. Zhang Jianya is sincerely happy for her achievement.
He will often remember the bits and pieces of the first acquaintance between the two: shy confessions, sweet dates, romantic weddings...... Time has passed, and youth has not returned, but that sincere love has become an unforgettable scenery in his memory.
From the marriage process of Zhang Yu and her ex-husband, we can deeply reflect: what causes their married life to be unsustainable?
First of all, the two of them get together less and leave more because of the development needs of their respective careers. Gathering less and leaving more is the main reason why many professional couples lose the warmth of marriage.
The ideal married life is inseparable from the bits and pieces of the common life of both parties. Only by getting along day and night can we experience the warmth of home and the preciousness of each other.
Secondly, the differences between the two parties in life planning also make the relationship change. Zhang Yu longed to enrich herself by studying abroad Xi which did not meet her husband's expectations. The ideal partner should be considerate of each other and support each other's dreams.
Working together to provide possibilities for each other's dreams is a way of expressing love between couples.
Finally, long-term work stress can drain the energy between a couple of lovers. When Zhang Yu and her husband's newlywed life could not go as expected, the dating and communication time between the husband and wife was seriously compressed, and gradually cracks appeared in the relationship.
Therefore, we need to know how to stop, communicate with our loved ones, travel, and spend quality time together. Even in your busy schedule, make time to spend with your significant other.
Love and marriage are like two small trees on a bonsai. Married life is full of sunshine and hope, but it is also inevitably stormy. We need to take tolerance and trust as the soil, and work together to make this little tree thrive and bloom its own flowers.