Wang Haiyan's road to motherhood
If being an actor means standing in the spotlight; So for Wang Haiyan, the spotlight not only illuminates her road to stardom, but also makes her life difficult to plan.
She spent 20 years in the entertainment industry to gain a firm foothold, but she also missed the best childbearing age.
Wang Haiyan chose to divorce when she was 40 years old and faced the showbiz alone. She doesn't regret her choice, but she thinks about the meaning of life in the middle of a lonely night.
An actor is destined to have difficulty juggling career and family, and Wang Haiyan is well aware of this. So she has never dared to really let go of her true heart.
Until one day, an actor who was 1 year younger than her broke into Wang Haiyan's world. It was when Wang Haiyan was 41 years old, a new drama was being prepared, and actor Zhang Jiayi became her partner.
Zhang Jiayi is as gentle as jade and cares for Wang Haiyan. The two gradually fell in love with each other after a long time together. Perhaps it was Zhang Jiayi's appearance that awakened the softness that was sleeping in Wang Haiyan's heart, and she finally made up her mind to change her original life trajectory and choose to face the ups and downs of the showbiz with Zhang Jiayi.
However, it is not easy. When Wang Haiyan finally mustered up the courage to have a child, she was 41 years old. An age that is not easy for actors.
It's hard to say whether you can have a baby smoothly, and even if you are pregnant, it will be extremely difficult to balance your career and family. Wang Haiyan knew the hardships of the road, but she still walked on without hesitation.
Because this time, she is no longer alone.
Zhang Jiayi: The guardian of Wang Haiyan's happy life
When Wang Haiyan chose to enter the palace of marriage with Zhang Jiayi, Zhang Jiayi knew that this woman was not only burdened with the heavy responsibility of her career and the attention of the public, but also had countless doubts and uneasiness about her new life.
Zhang Jiayi can't change Wang Haiyan's life, but she can protect her happiness in her own way. He knew that Wang Haiyan liked to party, and he also understood that alcohol could temporarily relieve her stress, but it would definitely hurt her body in the long run.
So he began to restrain Wang Haiyan's drinking, even if it caused her displeasure. Later, Wang Haiyan gradually understood her husband's intentions, and she would take the initiative to control the amount of alcohol she drank and no longer rely on it excessively.
Zhang Jiayi is changing herself. He likes to play mahjong and often stays up all night with his friends. Wang Haiyan was very dissatisfied with this.
In order to give his wife a safe home, he put aside these personal interests and made time to spend with his family as much as possible. Wang Haiyan saw it in her eyes, and the ambiguity between husband and wife continued to heat up.
When Wang Haiyan finally became pregnant, Zhang Jiayi was even more anxious. He read a lot of parenting books and learned all kinds of household chores. The discomfort of pregnancy did not dampen his enthusiasm in the slightest, but only made his desire to protect him even more inflated.
Wang Haiyan's willful request is not a matter for Zhang Jiayi. Relatives and friends exaggerate that Jiayi is a good husband, and Wang Haiyan is not stingy with her favor.
Their daughter was born when Wang Haiyan was 41 years old. The moment he picked up his daughter, Zhang Jiayi was so excited that he burst into tears. He gently stroked his daughter's little face, as if he had won the joy of the whole world. Wang Haiyan finally tasted the sweetness that she had not seen for a long time.
Over the years, Zhang Jiayi has guarded Wang Haiyan in his own way. When the burden of career and family weighs on her, Zhang Jiayi will relieve her anxiety with warmth and love.
Because of this, these 15 years of married life are full of happiness and sweetness.
41-year-old Wang Haiyan: The joy of a belated mother
At 41 years old, it is not young for an actor. Not to mention choosing to have children at this age, the road ahead is dangerous. However, when the baby's cry sounded, Wang Haiyan was so excited that she couldn't speak. She had waited for this moment for too long, too long.
It was so long that I almost gave up hope. At the beginning of her pregnancy, Wang Haiyan felt powerless. She intellectually knew that she should reduce her workload, but she was reluctant to let go of those hard-won opportunities. Fortunately, Zhang Jiayi has become her greatest spiritual sustenance.
He read a lot of books on pregnancy and learned all sorts of things. Others are still worrying about the difficulty of the first three months, but Zhang Jiayi has already begun to prepare the delivery box.
Wang Haiyan also learned to rely on and trust in the process. She understands that only by letting her husband be her solid backing can she get out of this pregnancy.
Gradually, she let go of her guard and no longer deliberately concealed the fragility of pregnancy. And Zhang Jiayi was also comforted by being spoiled again and again, and the feelings between husband and wife continued to sublimate.
At the moment of delivery, Wang Haiyan experienced unprecedented pain. She tossed and turned in the hospital bed, sweating profusely, gritting her teeth and enduring it. Finally, the baby's first cry sounded, and Wang Haiyan lay on the bed as if she was out of strength.
She had waited for this day for too long....... The nurse lightly handed over the baby life to Wang Haiyan's arms, and she touched her daughter's little face with trembling hands, and tears instantly burst out of her eyes.
This is her flesh and blood, her 41-year-old flesh and blood. Wang Haiyan hugged her daughter tightly in her arms, with a happy smile on her face. Her long-awaited maternal love was finally realized at this moment, even if the road was so difficult, she had no regrets.
Quarrel is common, love is always there
Wang Haiyan and Zhang Jiayi have a sweet relationship, but they often have small bumps. Quarrels are already commonplace for them, and they can cause arguments if they are not careful.
At first, this will make the relationship between the two stiffen for several days, Wang Haiyan is stubborn, and Zhang Jiayi is also very temperamental. Later, after several twists and turns, they finally realized that small things did not pose a threat to this marriage.
On Christmas Eve, Wang Haiyan forgot to drink with her friends, and when she returned home drunk, it was already dawn. Zhang Jiayi angrily counted her down, emphasizing that every family should be reunited on this day.
Wang Haiyan was criticized for being red-faced, but she also sensibly reflected that she should not break her word. She solemnly promised Zhang Jiayi that she would never miss this important day in the future. Her sincerity touched Zhang Jiayi, and the couple soon returned to their former affection.
Another time, Zhang Jiayi did not return in the middle of the night, and returned home the next day refreshed. Wang Haiyan was cleaning up the room, and angrily smashed the magazine in her hand at her husband.
Zhang Jiayi was in pain, and he coaxed his wife to be happy in a gentle tone, saying that he would never go home in the middle of the night again. Wang Haiyan barely lost her breath at this time......
There are many trivial things in life, but after every quarrel, the relationship between Wang Haiyan and Zhang Jiayi will be sublimated to new heights. Because they know that those small quarrels do not pose any threat to this marriage.
Fifteen years later, it remains a deep cornerstone of their lives.
The secret to a happy life
The happy life that Wang Haiyan and Zhang Jiayi have now is not destined. Just as their marriage has also experienced all kinds of ups and downs, they finally came together. If you want to last for a long time, the key is to understand and take care of each other between the husband and wife.
Zhang Jiayi knows the cruelty of the entertainment industry, and the burden on Wang Haiyan's shoulders is far beyond ordinary people. So he tried his best to share family chores, so that Wang Haiyan could free up more energy to pursue his career.
Wang Haiyan also understands her husband's thoughtfulness, she has learned to care about her family, and she no longer always works wholeheartedly.
There are no shortage of twists and turns in life, but after every quarrel, their relationship sublimates. Because of the solid foundation, small things are not enough to shake this big tree.
Zhang Jiayi guards the tree in his own way, and Wang Haiyan also repays him with practical actions. Love needs to be watered with time and understanding. Wang Haiyan chose to tolerate her husband's shortcomings, and Zhang Jiayi also learned to accept her willfulness.
In these 15 years of getting along, they slowly reached a tacit understanding and grew into an interdependent couple. The showbiz is a place of thorns, and it is not easy to be happy.
But Wang Haiyan and Zhang Jiayi are the best proof - as long as there is a connection in the heart, the twists and turns of life are no longer terrible, and it is enough to have each other.
That's the secret of their success.