Mano's character is established
That year, Mano had just entered a junior college in Beijing to study Xi.
During the day, she has to attend classes, and at night she goes to various talent shows.
Mano has a proud figure and appearance, and she is eager to show her skills in the entertainment industry.
One day in 2010, Ma Nuo participated in the recording of the gold medal variety show "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb". She stood in the spotlight in a light long dress, her long black hair resting on her snow-white shoulders.
The recording was the most exciting part, when a male guest asked Mano for a date, but Mano blurted out: "I'd rather cry in a BMW than ride a bicycle with a smile."
This phrase went viral on the web. Mano wanted to argue for herself, she wasn't such a wasteful person. But the program team took a fancy to the popularity of this sentence, and they suggested that Ma Nuo continue to open his business.
For the sake of fame and fortune, Mano finally agreed to play the role of a money worshipper, and she generously accepted interviews and bluntly said that money is paramount.
This persona gave Mano a wave of attention, and she quickly became the face of Internet celebrities in that era. Ma Nuo, who has gained fame and fortune, thought in his heart, let me pretend for a while, anyway, I will be famous in the future, and it will not be too late for me to play a good person again.
The effects of multiple failed romances
Before Mano was not an Internet celebrity, she went through many relationships, but they all ended in breakups.
At the age of 15, Mano fell in love for the first time, and the other party was a cynical boy in the next class. For the first time, Mano experienced the sweetness of love, and she tried her best to please the other person, and it didn't take long for her to offer him her precious first time.
However, the good times were short-lived, and Mano discovered that the boy had other girls behind her. Manuo, who has always been spicy, can only watch his lover leave this time.
After that, Mano talked about several boyfriends one after another, and she happily introduced her new love to her friends. Her friends reminded her to be cautious, because the boys didn't really like her.
Mano didn't listen to her friend's advice, but the results all turned out that she was still too naïve - those relationships, either the man was using her, or the two were separated, and it didn't take long for them to end without a problem.
After losing too many times, Mano was already disappointed in his human affairs. She began to believe that in this world, only money and status were truly reliable things.
The evil consequences of the character of "gold worshipper".
After establishing the character of "Money Worshipping Girl", Ma Nuo has received increasing attention day by day, and she has received many invitations to variety shows and activities. Mano secretly rejoiced in this, she thought that this would be a great opportunity for her development in the entertainment industry.
However, what Mano did not expect was that things would turn out in the opposite direction. The several programs she has participated in have all faced bans after the broadcast. As a newcomer, Mano felt inexplicable, and she told her efforts in the show with red eyes, but all this seemed to have turned into resentment.
Some people on the Internet began to call Mano "the meanest money worshipper in history", and various stigma followed.
Mano tried every means to appeal for herself, she said that everything on the stage before was arranged according to the program team, and she was not so money-worshipping by nature. But these explanations have been drowned out by comments, and her impression in the minds of the public has been labeled irreversible.
A little strange began to appear in Mano's circle of friends, and several close friends suddenly lost their enthusiasm for her and ignored her private messages.
Mano felt more isolated than ever. The movies and TV series she participated in were all taken off the shelves or edited. These hard-won opportunities were shattered in front of her, and Mano burst into tears.
She couldn't help but start reflecting on what she had done, but it was too late.
quit the entertainment industry and began to reflect
After encountering Waterloo one after another, Mano chose to basically quit the entertainment industry in 2016. She no longer appeared in front of the public and was controversial, but retreated into the background to run her own small business.
During the day, Mano would be busy with the affairs of the store, and occasionally if an acquaintance visited, she would receive it herself.
At first, Mano also felt tired, and she missed the old days under the spotlight. But as the years passed, Mano began to reflect on what he had done as a young man. She would sit alone on the balcony in a daze, and suddenly realize that her wrong value orientation many years ago was an obstacle set up by God.
The current Mano is no longer as sharp as before, but instead vicissitudes and low-key.
At a class reunion, everyone talked about the glorious days of the past. Speaking of Mano's "famous scene" that year, everyone burst into laughter. There was a hint of embarrassment on Not's face, and she was silent and did not respond, but just poured herself a few glasses of wine.
When it was time to speak for himself, Mano briefly said, "I'm doing well," and never joined the discussion again.
Major's current state of life
Mano is still unmarried, and she shares a house with a few like-minded friends. During the day, everyone goes their separate ways, and at night they gather in the living room to talk about the news.
Mano is no longer as energetic as before, but has a soft temperament.
Mano will share her recent thoughts and feelings with her circle of friends, and she has begun to pay attention to social news, and she is also quite insightful when commenting. If he encounters a vulnerable person in need, Mano will also be around to appeal for donations.
From time to time, she will post videos on Douyin to record her simple and contented life, which is very different from her previous style.
Occasionally, if an acquaintance invites Mano to shoot a plane, Mano will gladly go. In front of the camera, she is still so dazzling, without the pretentiousness of the former gold worshippers.
After taking the photo, Mano would open her phone to browse the comments, and she found that everyone no longer mentioned those old things, and she showed a faint smile.
Revelation of the article
Major's life experience gives us a profound warning, first of all, don't be blinded by money. People like Mano who are bent on fame and fortune often pay far more than they gain.
We must remember that what is outside of the body will eventually be nothing, and the only thing that can be truly desired is inner growth.
Second, in the face of criticism, we need to remain calm and rational. Mano initially withdrew her salary from the bottom of the kettle because she didn't take the opposition to heart at all, so that things got out of control.
We don't have to care about the slander of others, as long as we are open in our hearts.
Besides, it's never too late to make amends. Mano chose to start again after being cornered in the entertainment industry, which took a lot of courage. It's not terrible to fail, it's terrible to not want to forge ahead after failure.
We must believe in the power of life and pursue our inner voice passionately and persistently.
Finally, we need to learn to let go, both in forgiveness and for our own mistakes. There are countless intersections on the road of life, and if you choose this place, you will miss there.
It is better to cherish the present than to regret it. The story of Mano teaches us that the present continuous tense is the most precious. Cherish what you have, that's the secret of happiness.