The encounter between Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei and the journey of drifting north
When you are young, your heart is always filled with endless yearning and longing. When Wang Xiaohai saw Wang Xiaowei's passionate performance on stage for the first time offstage, he could no longer hold back the surging in his heart.
Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei were originally people from two worlds. Wang Xiaohai has a clear purpose, and after graduating from university, he worked as an accountant in a company and lived a 9-to-5 working life.
Wang Xiaowei is passionate about music, majoring in double-row keys during college, and after graduation, he took on performances and activities everywhere. However, the red thread of fate binds the two together - a chance encounter, two hearts are connected.
After an event, Wang Xiaohai plucked up the courage to ask Wang Xiaowei for his contact information.
The passion for music and stage ignited Wang Xiaohai's inner dream, and he decided to give up his stable accounting job and go to Beijing with Wang Xiaowei to develop. For two young people who have just stepped out of school, Beijing is so strange and magnetic.
However, reality soon hit them in the face - life in Beipiao was far less than they imagined, and they could only rent a dark and damp basement, going back and forth on the street during the day, and returning to their bad "home" at night.
Despite the embarrassment of life, Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei still did not give up the pursuit of music. They use what little savings they have left to record and then carefully send it to every record label in the hope of getting noticed.
But again and again, they were thrown into the trash and sunk into the sea. On a cold winter day, when Wang Xiaohai went out to pick up activities, his feet were frozen and stiff, how much he wanted to buy a pair of thick socks, but 12 yuan a pair of socks is still a luxury for him now.
However, fate is fair, and it does not forget those who are still holding on. Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei believe that after these hardships, the joy of success will only become more memorable and worthwhile.
Participate in the Avenue of Fame, the rise of the Nine Moon Miracle Combo
When Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei were chasing their dreams on the Beijing stage, an opportunity quietly came - in 2008, Hunan Satellite TV launched a large-scale talent show "Avenue of Stars".
"Avenue of Stars, People's Stage", this slogan is full of hope and strength. For ordinary people, this is a rare opportunity to make their debut and become famous overnight. After careful consideration, Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei decided to participate in the form of a combination.
The name "Nine Moon Miracles" carries their good wishes and longing for the miracle of music.
On the day of the competition, the two put on uniform red performance costumes and slowly walked onto the stage with keyboards on their backs. The audience was not optimistic about this seemingly rustic combination, but when the music played, Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei proved themselves with their strength.
On this night, the Nine Moon Miracle broke the cognition of countless people. From an obscure group to a household name in one fell swoop! This was followed by countless invitations and opportunities - commercial performances and events from all over the world followed, inviting them to perform and help.
In 2011, the Nine Moon Miracle finally got its wish to stand on the grandest stage in China - CCTV Spring Festival Gala, bringing its original songs to thousands of households.
The appearance of the Spring Festival Gala made the popularity of the Nine Moon Miracle skyrocket, and they were soon invited to participate in the opening performances of various important occasions, such as the opening ceremony of the Olympic Games, the opening ceremony of the Golden Rooster and Hundred Flowers Film Festival, and so on.
As soon as the audience saw the name Nine Moon Miracle, they knew that it would be lively and applauding. CCTV Spring Festival Gala also sent them invitations many times, and they have appeared in this oriental "holy hall" four times in five years.
From the initial obscurity to today's household name, the Nine Moon Miracle has used its own strength and efforts to create a miracle legend that truly belongs to ordinary people.
Although the stage and life scenes have changed, the love for music in their hearts has never changed.
The personalities are incompatible, and the marriage between the two comes to an end
When career reaches its peak, love also follows. In 2016, after 12 years of acquaintance, Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei finally entered the palace of marriage.
Everyone was delighted with the happy ending of the golden boy and girl. However, the good times did not last long, and only two years later, they officially announced the end of their divorce.
The reason for this is that Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei have different personalities, which is the biggest reason for the constant contradictions. Wang Xiaohai's personality is more casual, he does not play cards according to common sense, and belongs to the "whimsical" type; And Wang Xiaowei is rigorous and serious, has his own set of principles, and can be called "academic".
When it comes to music creation and performance, the two have very different philosophies, and often have disagreements and disputes.
In the past, as partners, each disagreement required mutual concessions, which was acceptable when the relationship was stable. But when there is a rift in the relationship, every undesirable concession will provoke dissatisfaction on both sides.
Gradually, there are many complaints in getting along, and each other is no longer considerate of each other.
In addition, Wang Xiaohai hopes to start a family and have children as soon as possible; And Wang Xiaowei's career is on the rise, and she is unwilling to give up her dream. The two could not reach an agreement on this issue, and the contradiction deepened.
In contrast, the two members of the Phoenix Legend are more mature in their emotional handling. In their combination, Zeng Yi always gave in generously, and the sharing was also very fair.
This attitude of mutual understanding and consideration makes the feelings of the Phoenix Legend stand the test of time.
On the road of life, how important it is to choose a suitable partner and partner. When two people with very different tempers stand together, disagreements and conflicts are inevitable.
Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei finally chose to break up peacefully, perhaps this is a relief for both of them.
After the divorce, they developed separately, and the status quo of the two was compared
After the divorce, Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei each started a new life. However, they show obvious differences in their development paths, which also reflects the gap in their personalities and abilities from one side.
Wang Xiaowei quickly found a new partner Xu Ziwei after the divorce. She decided to continue to carry forward the brand of "Nine Moon Miracles" and collaborated with Xu Ziwei to perform. But the effect is not ideal, the audience has no acceptance of the new combination, and they are still reminiscing about Wang Xiaohai's cooperation in the past.
Wang Xiaowei is also aware of the difficulties of reality, and recently chose the path of independent development. She performs solo on various stages and also actively spreads on social media, posting covers to maintain her popularity.
In contrast, Wang Xiaohai was more low-key and introverted after the divorce. He faded out of public view for a long time and rarely performed. It was only recently that Wang Xiaohai returned to the world with a new partner, Lu Haitao.
But their combination has not received much attention, and it seems that Wang Xiaohai's own popularity and appeal have declined.
Judging from the current development situation, Wang Xiaowei's acting career is higher than Wang Xiaohai. First of all, Wang Xiaowei's love for the stage has never changed, and she still strives to maintain the performance volume after the divorce.
Secondly, Wang Xiaowei is better at using network marketing to maintain popularity. Finally, as a female artist, Wang Xiaowei has more means of monetization, and she can earn income by opening music training classes and other ways.
The road of life is often full of twists and turns, and success always belongs to those who continue to struggle. Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei have walked side by side and reached the pinnacle of their careers together. And now, their respective situations seem to reveal a truth: more important than the result, the process; Faith is more precious than what is happening in front of you.
Feeling the past and looking forward to the future
Watching Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei go from acquaintance to each other, we can't help but sigh that the road of life is full of unknowns.
Over the past decade, they have worked hand in hand, from nobodies to national sensations, and the experience is so unforgettable. At that time, they had the same dreams and passions, and even after experiencing the hardships of life in Beipiao, they did not give up the pursuit of music.
After winning the championship of the Avenue of Stars, the miracle of Jiuyue became famous instantly, and appeared on top stages such as the Spring Festival Gala several times, and his popularity skyrocketed. What a glorious time it was.
But the relationship and marriage can't be forged for a long time, and they still haven't reached the end after all. When the peak of love has passed, all that is left is memories. We have to sigh that it is difficult to maintain a relationship, and an aging lover may not be able to grow old together.
Looking forward to the future, Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei may have more encounters and opportunities. The ups and downs of a music career can never be predicted. We sincerely wish them all to find their place and regain their original dreams and love for music.
The passionate years of the past will become a valuable asset for them, lighting the way to the future.
No matter how the external fate changes, the music in the heart never grows old. We look forward to seeing that Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei will continue to move this land with music, no matter what form it takes.
The gap between husband and wife is present, and smelting is the beginning of gold
After reading the past of Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei, it is not difficult for us to find that the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife has made the current gap between the two clear at a glance.
During the marriage, because of the maintenance of the relationship of interests, they can continue to cooperate on the surface, but in fact, their hearts have long been full of rifts. After the official announcement of the "divorce ending", the two immediately showed great differences in their career development.
Wang Xiaowei took the initiative to attack, but Wang Xiaohai was silent for a long time; Wang Xiaowei flexibly uses networks and resources, while Wang Xiaohai appears to be in passive decline.
From this point of view, it is precisely because some partners are "tolerant" of each other that they temporarily hold on to their internal contradictions. When "tolerance" is no longer there, the problem is immediately exposed.
As the old saying goes, "Only after the smelting of fire can real gold be revealed."
The breakdown of a marriage may be a tragedy for many, but for others, it is an opportunity to rediscover oneself and oneself. We can't jump to conclusions about comedy or tragedy, but look at continuity.
I believe that Wang Xiaohai and Wang Xiaowei will learn from this marriage and find their own wonderful lives.