The story tells the story of Tao Yong, an ophthalmologist in Beijing, who asked his daughter to wash the dishes on her 12th birthday. In the long article, Dr. Tao described the circumstances and reasons for his daughter's request, and expressed his family's opposition, and finally succeeded in convincing his daughter to wash the dishes. However, the act has sparked controversy on social media, with some seeing it as a workout for the child, while others believe it can be stressful for the child. After the controversy, Tao Yong deleted this long article, and another doctor, "Ophthalmology Superman Lao Liang", posted an article in support of Tao Yong, and said that his behavior was out of love for his family and expectations for his children.
This incident has sparked a wide discussion about the issue of children's education. This has triggered many parents and netizens to think about the way their children are educated. In China, many parents focus on cultivating their children's independence and sense of responsibility, so they will develop a sense of responsibility by letting their children take on some household chores. However, there are some people who are conservative about this, believing that children should concentrate on learning Xi and should not take on too much housework too early.
In terms of social phenomena, China is in the stage of changing the concept of family education. The traditional family education model focuses on instilling knowledge and morality, while modern family education tends to focus on the child's personality development and emotional needs. Therefore, in this context, parents' attitudes towards household chores such as washing dishes for their children will also be different.
For this news, I think that when it comes to children's education, we should seek a balance. Children need to take on some housework to develop a sense of responsibility and self-care skills, but parents also need to pay attention to how to let their children not be overburdened in the process Xi of learning and growing up. In addition, it is very important to respect the child's personality and emotional needs.
In terms of deep-seated reasons, this actually reflects the diversity of family education concepts and the society's attention to children's growth. The collision and dialogue of family education concepts also reflect the diversity and inclusiveness of social culture. The government and all sectors of society should also attach importance to providing guidance and support for family education.
From an international perspective, some countries pay attention to children's personality development and emotional needs, and advocate that children participate more in family affairs to cultivate their independence and sense of responsibility. This also has certain enlightenment for the transformation and improvement of the concept of family education in China.
In general, we should approach this news with a rational and inclusive attitude. Parents should arrange their children's housework reasonably according to their children's actual situation and needs, and cultivate their sense of responsibility and self-care ability. At the same time, it is also important to respect the child's personality and emotional needs and not give them too much pressure. This also requires the attention and support of the government and all sectors of society.