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My name is Li Mei and I am from a small mountain village in Shaanxi County, Henan Province. My husband's name is Liu Qiang, we are childhood sweethearts, we grew up together, and we have been married for more than ten years. The two of us live a simple life, and our only wish is that our son can grow up well and start a family in the future.
Our son's name is Liu Ming, and he is 10 years old. He is white and tender, with big eyes, and two small tiger teeth when he laughs. People in the village said that our son looked a lot like Liu Qiang when he was a child.
That day, I was holding Liu Ming at the entrance of the village and met Zhang Li, who greeted us warmly: "Auntie, this is your child, isn't it?
I smiled a little embarrassedly: "Yes, this is my son, named Liu Ming, who is 10 years old this year." ”
"Oh, the more I look at him, the more he looks like a child in our village, and I will take more care of him in the village in the future. Zhang Zhang said with a smile.
I was actually a little hairy in my heart, so I quickly made an excuse to leave.
That night, I told my husband Liu Qiang about the tension I encountered. Liu Qiang smiled and said, "You said that Zhang Zhang looks like Mingming, I haven't seen it yet, let's look back." ”
"What's wrong with you?" I asked.
"It's fine. Liu Qiang said.
I saw that he was on his mind, so I asked, "You don't think about tension, do you? Did you see him today?"
"Well, I just passed by the village committee and happened to see him chatting with a few villagers. Liu Qiang said.
"Then do you think he looks like Mingming?" I asked with a smile.
Liu Qiang was silent for a while, then suddenly looked at me and said, "Meizi, is it clear that I was born after all?"
"What nonsense are you talking about!" I raised my voice to interrupt Liu Qiang, "It's obviously your own flesh and blood, you also saw it in the hospital when I gave birth to him." How can you doubt this?"
"I wanted to believe it, too, but when I saw the tension, I couldn't help but doubt it. Liu Qiang paced back and forth irritably, "They look too similar, you can't explain it clearly!"
"I don't need an explanation!" I red-eyed and said, "Do I still need to prove myself to you?
"Then do a paternity test and show it to me!" Liu Qiang said.
"Liu Qiang, you're crazy!" I cried and said, "Don't these ten years of affection have no weight in your heart? How can you deny our marriage because of a few words from a stranger?"
Looking at Liu Qiang's resolute eyes, I knew that he had made up his mind, and it would be futile to continue. I nodded with red eyes: "Okay, I'll do it once, and I'll show you! But I warn you, after this time, if you mention this matter again, we will divorce!"
Liu Qiang was silent, and after a long time, he whispered, "I know." ”
"Mom, are you sick? Do you want to go to the hospital?" Ming asked worriedly.
"Mom is fine, just wait a few days. "I beat him up and comforted him.
That day, I waited anxiously for Liu Qiang to come back.
After a long time, Liu Qiang pushed the door in with a blank face. I looked at him apprehensively, and before I could speak, he threw me an envelope and said in a deep voice, "The results are out." ”
But Liu Qiang didn't say a word, his face was ugly, as if he was about to kill. My heart tightened, and I hurriedly asked, "What's wrong with you?" The appraisal report is clearly written, don't you still believe it?"
"I believe in the report, but I still can't accept it!" Liu Qiang suddenly became furious, "This shows that you had a relationship with another man before we got married! You have deceived me for so many years!"
When I heard these vexatious words, my heart was like a knife, and I choked up and said: "Liu Qiang, you brute! Obviously you are your son, but you slander me like this, is our relationship worthless to you?"
"I'm in pain too, but it's true!" Liu Qiang said with red eyes, "You hid from me that you gave birth to someone else's child, and our marriage was a scam from the beginning!"
"Well, since you think so, let's get a divorce!" With tears streaming down my face, I shouted, "I'll never see you madman again!"
After that, I picked it up and was about to rush out of the door. Liu Qiang rushed over to stop me with an arrow step, and hugged me and Mingming: "Don't go! I will regret it for the rest of my life if you leave!"
"Let go of me! I struggled desperately.
"Please give me another chance!" Liu Qiang choked up and said, "I know it's wrong, I shouldn't doubt you, and I shouldn't hurt Mingming, give me a chance to make amends!"
I was hugged by him, unable to break free, and was so frightened that I cried. I yelled at Liu Qiang with red eyes: "You brute, let us go!"
Liu Qiang and I were at the door for a long time. I was so frightened by us that I cried all the time.
Finally, I choked up and said, "Liu Qiang, you let go first, we can't scare Ming Ming like this." ”
Only then did Liu Qiang let go of his hand, obviously throwing himself into my arms and crying. I comforted him softly, and then said to Liu Qiang: "Let's go to the back room to talk, don't scare Ming Ming again." ”
Liu Qiang nodded with red eyes, and followed me to the back room to sit down. Obviously he was still sobbing, I coaxed him back to the room to play, and then said to Liu Qiang: "You calm down, let's have a good talk." ”
I said coldly, "It's too late to apologize now." You don't believe me, our relationship has broken down. ”
"Please give me a chance to make amends!" Liu Qiang knelt in front of me, "I have relied on you too much over the years and have not cherished your feelings. I will spend the rest of my life to compensate you and Mingming, please don't leave me!"
Looking at Liu Qiang's painful appearance, my heart softened. After a long time, I sighed and said, "I forgive you for your mistake this time, but I can't restore my trust in you right away." You've hurt me and Mingming, and it's going to take time to heal. ”
Liu Qiang said excitedly: "It's okay, as long as you give me a chance! In the future, I will pursue you again to prove how much I love you and Mingming." ”
"The road has to be taken step by step. I said, "I'll give you a month to see if you're determined to make amends." This month, you have to go back to your hometown, you can't stay here. A month later, I decided on our relationship. ”
Liu Qiang nodded: "I agree! As long as you give me a chance, I am willing to do anything!"
So, Liu Qiang packed his luggage and went back to his hometown. I started my life without him, and I was watching his changes.
A month later, Liu Qiang arrived as promised. In the past month, he has come to visit me and Ming Ming every day, and has sent many gifts to apologize. I could see that his attitude was different from before, and he had become more considerate and gentle.
"Meizi, I've figured it out a lot this month. Liu Qiang said sincerely, "I can't live without you and Mingming." I will Xi again how to be the husband and father you want. ”
I nodded, "I see your change. Let's take our time and rebuild our relationship first. ”
Since then, Liu Qiang has begun to pursue me again, and we have gradually repaired this scarred marriage. The road is long, but as long as you have hope, you will always come to the bright day.
One day, Liu Qiang asked me out to talk. He said to me with a serious expression: "Meizi, the reflection during this period of time has made me understand that my image in your mind must have been very bad before. I wanted to regain your trust and respect, so I applied for a transfer from my old job and recently found a new job with a higher salary. I will try to make our mother and son have a better life. ”
I nodded, "I can feel the change in you." As long as you persevere, I'm sure we'll rebuild trust. ”
Since then, Liu Qiang has been more attentive to me and Mingming. He often took us out to play and buy what we liked to eat. He also learned to listen to us and no longer unilaterally decide what to do at home.
Once, we went on a family trip. We got lost in the mountains, and we were too tired to walk. Liu Qiang picked up Ming Ming and looked for his way all the way. Finally, we walked out of the mountain before dark.
"Dad, you are so good, you have carried me so far!" Ming Ming said happily.
Liu Qiang smiled softly: "Dad will protect you and Mom." ”
I couldn't help but be moved when I saw the love in Liu Qiang's eyes. Perhaps, it was right to give him a chance.
Again, Liu Qiang said to me: "Meizi, you must have worked very hard these days, and I want to compensate you." This year's Mid-Autumn Festival, let's go on a trip as a family and relax our mood. ”
"Okay, where to go?" I asked.
"Just go to the island you've always wanted to go to. Liu Qiang said with a smile.
So, we spent a warm Mid-Autumn Festival. Looking at the sea, Liu Qiang's hearts and I seemed to be suddenly enlightened.
"Meizi, thank you for giving me a chance to start over. Liu Qiang said seriously, "I will always work hard, and I hope you can truly forgive me." ”
I nodded and took his hand: "I see your change. Let's take our time. ”
Since then, I have been genuinely giving Liu Qiang a chance to rebuild trust. There is still a long way to go, but I believe that as long as two people have love, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome.
Time passed, and my relationship with Liu Qiang was slowly repaired. Liu Qiang learned to care more about me and Mingming, instead of thinking only about himself.
One day, Liu Qiang said to me: "Meizi, you have worked hard for so many years, you should go to the studio to learn some crafts, and you can't work at home all the time." I support you in pursuing your interests. ”
I smiled and said, "Then I'll learn to do some crafts so I can earn some pocket money." ”
"Okay, I'll set aside some money for you every month, and you can go to Xi." Liu Qiang said briskly.
So, I started to go to the town's craft workshop to learn how to knit and sew Xi. It became my little pleasure. Liu Qiang also always cares about my Xi progress.
Liu Qiang happily put it on: "I will wear it every day, this is my baby." ”
I saw the happy smile on his face, and my heart warmed.
Another time, our family went to the park for a picnic. Liu Qiang and Ming Ming were having a good time, and I was reading a book on the side.
"Mom, you see how happy I am having fun with Dad!" Ming Ming ran over and said.
I smiled and nodded. Liu Qiang also ran over and said to me with a smile: "The time we spend together as a family is the happiest." ”
I couldn't help but smile slightly when I saw the truth in Liu Qiang's eyes.
Gradually, I found myself much less hostile and defensive towards Liu Qiang. He's really trying to win back my trust.
One day, I said to Liu Qiang: "I have seen your recent changes. As long as you keep it up, I think our relationship will slowly return to the way it used to be. ”
"Thank you for giving me a fresh start. Liu Qiang said gratefully, "I will continue to work hard to fill the gap between us." ”
"Well, there's still a long way to go, let's take it one step at a time. I nodded.
"Meizi, I want to give you a gift. Liu Qiang smiled mysteriously and took out a small box.
I opened it and it was a pair of golden wedding rings. I looked at Liu Qiang in surprise.
"This represents my eternal love for you. Liu Qiang said solemnly, "I hope we will grow old together and never be separated again." ”
I looked at the ring and Liu Qiang's serious eyes, nodded, and from then on we put on the wedding ring again and started a new journey.
There is still a long way to go, but I believe that as long as two people have love in their hearts, any cracks and pains can be slowly repaired. This may be the true meaning of marriage.