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My name is Li Mei, I am 38 years old, and I was born in an ordinary working family. I have been married for 17 years, and my husband's name is Zhang Qiang, and he is a sales manager of a foreign company. We have a son named Zhang Yu, who is in his third year of high school this year and is about to take the college entrance examination. Zhang Yu has worked hard since he was Xi elementary school, and we all expect him to be admitted to a good university.
At the critical moment when Zhang Yu was preparing for the third year of high school, my mother-in-law called me and said that she had not been feeling well recently and wanted to come to my house for a while and be taken care of by me. My mother-in-law is 68 years old and her body is not very good, and I was worried that she would be sick alone and no one would take care of her, so I agreed to let her come and live.
I smiled and said, "Mom, just say that you are my own mother, and if you have anything, you can tell me." ”
The mother-in-law said: "I have an illegitimate daughter, 17 years old this year, named Li Qiu, I want you to take her in until the end of the college entrance examination, do you think it's okay?"
I was so shocked when I heard that I almost choked, and hurriedly said, "What? Mom, I didn't understand, what did you say about illegitimate daughters?"
The mother-in-law sighed and recounted the past of her youth. It turned out that before I was born, she and my father were in a bad relationship and had a relationship with a man in a song and dance troupe. Later, she became pregnant with a child, but she also lost contact with the man. This illegitimate daughter has been raised by her without her father, and now she is 17 years old, which is a critical moment for further education.
I was even more shocked when I heard this, and I didn't know how to react for a while. Zhang Qiang was also stunned, and Zhang Yu silently lowered his head to eat.
When my mother-in-law saw that I was silent, she said, "Meizi, I know this is a bit difficult for you. But Qiuqiu needs a home now, so you can take her in until the end of the college entrance examination, which is very important to her life. ”
I hesitated for a moment and said, "Mom, this is too sudden, I need time to think about it." And Yuyu is now preparing for the college entrance examination, and the timing is not good. ”
When my mother-in-law heard me say this, her eyes immediately turned red, and she choked up and said, "Meizi, you can help me with this." I'm really old, and I don't know how long I can live. Qiuqiu is my only heart, so you should take her home for me. I'll take her back at the end of the college entrance exam. ”
Seeing my mother-in-law's pleading, I was very sad, and I couldn't bear to refuse her directly. I whispered to my mother-in-law, "Mom, I understand your plight, and I can't bear to leave a 17-year-old homeless. However, taking in a stranger also has a big impact on our family, and I need to discuss this matter with Zhang Qiang. Don't worry, let's take our time. ”
The mother-in-law sniffed, nodded and said, "Then you can discuss it well, as long as I can have a place to stay before the end of the autumn and autumn college entrance examination, I will be grateful." ”
That night, Zhang Qiang and I closed the door and began to discuss this sudden incident.
Zhang Qiang hesitated and said: "Wife, I know my mother's difficulties, but taking in a strange girl, and when Yuyu is taking the college entrance examination, it will indeed have an impact on him." ”
I was also very embarrassed and said, "I'm also worried about affecting Woowoo, but seeing my mother pleading so much, it's hard for me to refuse." ”
"Then let's ask Yuyu's opinion, after all, it has the greatest impact on him. Zhang Qiang said.
Zhang Yu pondered for a while and said, "I understand grandma's difficulties, since it is only a temporary take-in, I think I can try to adapt." But you also have to figure out this Li Qiu's situation, such as her living Xi, etc., which cannot have much impact on our family. ”
The mother-in-law said excitedly, "Thank you so much, Meizi! I knew that my good daughter-in-law would help me with this." Qiuqiu is a well-behaved child, takes care of her own life, and will never cause you trouble. ”
The mother-in-law took Li Qiu's hand and said, "Meizi, this is my Qiuqiu, I have raised her alone since I was a child, and she is very sensible and obedient." Qiuqiu, this is your Aunt Mei, and it will be your family from now on. ”
Li Qiu greeted me very politely: "Hello Aunt Mei, thank you for taking me in." ”
I smiled and said, "Qiuqiu is good, we will be a family from now on." Just let me know if you need anything. ”
Li Qiu smiled and said, "Yes, Aunt Mei, when I was a child, my grandmother was very busy with work and often went out, so I could only take care of myself." But I'm also Xi to living alone. ”
Seeing that she is so able to take care of herself, I am also relieved. Zhang Yu actually adapted well to Li Qiu's arrival, and sometimes helped Li Qiu answer questions about his Xi.
That day, I cooked as usual and asked her to eat, and she actually said bluntly: "I don't eat this, I want to eat KFC!"
I was surprised and said, "Qiuqiu, what's wrong?
"I just don't want to eat it, I want to eat KFC now!" Li Qiu said impatiently.
"Why is this kid so unreasonable all of a sudden?" I thought to myself. But he still smiled and said: "KFC is not very healthy, the food I cook is more nutritious, you can eat a little." ”
"I'm just going to eat KFC! After Li Qiu finished speaking, he went back to his room and locked the door.
I was stunned by her vexatious play. I told Zhang Qiang about this in the evening, and he was also surprised: "Why was it fine a few days ago, but now suddenly it is so disobedient?"
"I don't understand either, it seems that her temper is not so good. I said with a sigh.
From that day on, Li Qiu became more and more disobedient and unreasonable. She often lost her temper with me for no reason, and sometimes made a mess of the room, completely ignoring my persuasion.
One day, she even yelled at me in front of Zhang Yu: "Don't care about me anymore! You're not my mother!"
Zhang Yu couldn't stand it, and came over to persuade her: "Qiuqiu, my mother is for your good, you shouldn't be so unreasonable." ”
Li Qiu glanced at him and said, "What's the matter with you? Don't talk to me!"
I was really angry with her, and immediately said to her: "Li Qiu, if you are so unreasonable again, I will call your grandmother to pick you up!"
After I threatened to call my mother-in-law to pick her up, Li Qiu's attitude was a little better, but she still lost her temper with me from time to time. One day, Zhang Qiang couldn't stand it anymore and decided to have a good talk with Li Qiu.
"Qiuqiu, can you talk to your uncle?" Zhang Qiang said mildly.
"Yes, uncle. "Li Qiu's tone is obviously much better than when he talked to me.
Zhang Qiang said: "Qiuqiu, you have been coming to our house for a while, and I hope you can adapt to life here." I know that your grandmother used to take you alone, and your life Xi may not be the same as ours. However, you have to learn to respect Aunt Mei and don't always make trouble unreasonably and cause trouble for everyone. Do you say?"
Li Qiu lowered his head after hearing this, and whispered: "Uncle, I didn't mean to cause trouble for everyone, it's just that everything here is so unfamiliar, and I don't know what to do." ”
Zhang Qiang nodded and said, "I understand that this is a big change for you. However, you also have to put yourself in the shoes of others. Aunt Mei took you in with good intentions, and you can't always lose your temper with her unreasonably. Besides, Yuyu is about to take the college entrance examination, and your willfulness is likely to affect him, don't you say?"
"I see, uncle. I know that my attitude has been very bad during this time, and I will pay attention to correct it from now on. I'm really sorry, and I ask you and Aunt Mei to give me another chance. Li Qiu said guiltily.
"It's okay, you're still young, just correct it. Aunt Mei actually loves you very much, but sometimes the way you communicate may not be right. If you are unhappy in the future, you can tell us directly, don't be willful, you know?" Zhang Qiang patiently persuaded.
"Got it, uncle, thank you for being so kind to me. Li Qiu said with red eyes.
Since that day, Li Qiu's attitude has indeed improved a lot. She began to take the initiative to help me with the housework, and seemed much more affectionate and submissive to me. I think her attitude can be corrected, and she doesn't care about the previous thing anymore.
When she came home from school that day, she said to me with a flushed face: "Aunt Mei, the exam teacher found out that I was cheating today, and she has already notified my grandmother, and she will come to school in the evening." Can you go and explain to her, please don't be angry. ”
When I heard this, I was shocked and angry: "Li Qiu! Cheating on exams is a very serious matter, and you are playing with fire by doing this! I must have a good talk with your grandmother tonight." ”
That night, I went to Li Qiu's school and sat in the teacher's office with her grandmother.
The mother-in-law anxiously asked the teacher, "What did my granddaughter do wrong?" ”
The teacher said solemnly: "Li Qiu was found to have taken out a cheat sheet from his clothes during the final exam, which is obviously cheating. I hope you can discipline her well, this is a very serious matter for a student. ”
The mother-in-law immediately said anxiously: "Teacher, I can assure you that Qiuqiu definitely did not mean to cheat. She usually studies very hard Xi and doesn't need to cheat to get good grades. She must have forgotten the cheat sheet in her clothes this time, please give her a chance. ”
I saw that my mother-in-law was still excusing Li Qiu, and immediately said, "I'm sorry teacher, I think Li Qiu still deliberately cheated in this matter." I will discipline her well, and I ask you to deal with it according to the situation. Cheating will not be tolerated. ”
When my mother-in-law heard me say this, her face immediately changed: "Meizi, what do you mean? My Qiuqiu is not the kind of student who cheats! How can you say that she is not in front of the teacher?"
I said firmly, "Mom, that's the way it is, we can't cover her up anymore." Li Qiu must be held accountable for his actions. ”
When my mother-in-law heard me say this, she was so angry that she stomped her feet, and said on the spot that she would take Li Qiu away. I know that my mother-in-law loves Li Qiu, but cheating is too much and must be dealt with seriously.
After returning home, Zhang Yu saw that I was in a bad mood and asked with concern: "Mom, how about going to school today?
I sighed: "Li Qiu cheated on this, I had some disputes with your grandmother. I advocate serious treatment, but grandma still wants to protect Li Qiu. I'm really worried that this will affect your Xi. ”
Zhang Yu was silent for a while and said, "Mom, I understand that you are for my good." But Li Qiu is still young, so give her a chance. Don't be angry with you and grandma about this. In any case, I will try to keep my studies Xi on track. ”
When I heard Zhang Yu so mature and steady, I was surprised and delighted. I decided to give Li Qiu another chance, but I will continue to urge her to correct her mistakes and not be willful anymore.
After this incident, Li Qiu's attitude towards me was much better. She began to seriously review her Xi and try to catch up. I no longer care about her previous mistakes, and put my mind on taking care of her and Zhang Yu's Xi.
Finally, Zhang Yu successfully passed the college entrance examination. The moment he got his ideal report card, I was relieved and relieved at the same time. This turmoil finally ended without affecting Zhang Yu.