01. Learn to struggle
A man who doesn't work hard has only two results, endless low-grade cigarettes and endless physical work, and a woman who doesn't work hard has only two results, endless street stalls and endless vegetable markets!
02. Learn to be self-reliant
Don't expect others to give you any financial help, money is not enough for anyone, people with 10,000 yuan want to do things for 20,000 yuan, and people with 100,000 yuan want to do things for 200,000 yuan.
03. Understanding of academic societies
It is a good deed and a moral thing for a friend to help you, and it is understandable for a friend not to help you, and you should not hold a grudge.
04. Learn to be strong
You must know that no one has to help you when you need it, only yourself, so making yourself independent, strong, happy, and happy is what you need to do, after all, only you must share life and death with you, and it is closely related.
05. Learn to distinguish
Don't look at the rich and poor to make friends, he has billions of family fortunes and nothing to do with you, don't make yourself a pug. He may have nothing, but he can give you the only steamed bun.
06. Learn to respect yourself
Don't alienate a spiritually rich friend for the sake of a financially rich friend, slowly you will understand that a financially rich friend can take you to eat, drink and have fun, but also can bring you complex and chaotic worldly troubles, and a spiritually rich friend may only take you to the fields, to the stream, without wine and food, without champagne, coffee, without a dance floor, but she can run with you and laugh with you like a fool.
07, Academic Specialties
You can believe that there is really a beautiful and loyal love in the world, don't expect such a romantic thing to happen to you, it only belongs to the Cowherd and Weaver Girl, Liang Shan Bozhu Yingtai, and foreign Romeo and Juliet. Because none of them lived long. And we're going to live a long time.
08. Learn to undertake
No matter what you got married for, as long as you have children, you have to love this home, no matter how simple and cold it is, you have the obligation to make it warm, because you are parents!
09. Learn to grow
Our youth is gone in the blink of an eye, wrinkles crawl to the corners of our eyes one by one, we can't stop the years from destroying our faces, but we can let the heart slowly sharpen in the years, like the sand in the mussels, slowly moistened, and when we are shaking our teeth and staggering, we can also make the luster of pearls blush the last stroke, isn't it?
10. Learn to let go
Don't be obsessed, there are many unsatisfactory in life, the world will not cater to you, the earth is not for you, so don't be obsessed with possession, even we are just passers-by of the red dust, life is a stripe, and what can death take away?
Editor丨Zheng Wei