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One day, my friend and I were chatting in a café and he suddenly asked me, "When do you think a man will really fall in love with a woman?"
I pondered for a moment, then gave him an answer: "He will only truly fall in love with her when he begins to realize that he has more affection for her than any other woman and is willing to give everything for her." ”
This is the conclusion of my years of exploration of the love of men for women.
In my observation, men usually go through a lot of twists and turns before falling in love with a woman, which includes pursuit, passion, calmness, serious thinking, and eventual commitment.
First, men usually start courting a woman.
At this stage, he will try to show his charm and merits as much as possible, trying to attract the attention of women. He would change his behavior and Xi for the sake of that woman, and even give up some of the things he originally liked. At this stage, a man's feelings for a woman are usually very shallow, just a simple liking and pursuit.
Next, if the woman also has a crush on the man,
They may enter the stage of passionate love. At this stage, the man's feelings for the woman will be deeper, and they will meet, chat, and date more often. Men will find ways to make a woman happy and want to make her feel happy and satisfied. At this stage, men's feelings for women have gone beyond pursuit and mere liking, but their feelings have not yet reached their highest point.
After a passionate love, men usually calm down and start thinking seriously about and considering whether the relationship is worth continuing.
They will begin to pay attention to the strengths and weaknesses of a woman and think about whether they will be able to spend their lives with her. At this stage, the man's feelings for the woman will be further deepened, they will take the relationship more seriously, and at the same time, they will cherish the woman more.
Eventually, if a man decides to be with a woman, they move on to the stage of commitment.
At this stage, men promise women their future lives and are willing to give everything for this commitment.
They will change their lifestyle and Xi for the sake of a woman and are willing to give everything for her. At this stage, a man's feelings for a woman have reached their highest point, and they will truly fall in love with the woman.
I have a friend who has been through this process as well. He tries very hard to pursue a girl, but the girl doesn't take an interest in him.
He later met another girl and was very nice to her when he was in love, but the girl left him for some reason.
So, he went through a long period of cooling, thinking about what he really wanted, and finally he met his current wife. They have been together for many years, his feelings for her have reached their highest point, and he is willing to give everything for her.
Another example is a friend of mine who used to be a sweetheart man and went through a lot of relationships, but none of the women could make him truly fall in love.
Later, he meets a girl who makes him feel very different. He starts taking the relationship seriously, and eventually they get together. Now, his feelings for this girl are very deep, and he is willing to do anything for her.
In short, for a man to truly fall in love with a woman, he needs to go through many twists and turns, from pursuit to passionate love, to calmness and commitment. Only after going through all this can a man truly fall in love with a woman and be willing to give everything for her.